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Eric is at Hospice

Forums General Melanoma Community Eric is at Hospice

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    Jill and Eric in Fl
    Participant

      I wanted to post an update to let you know that Eric has been moved to hospice. He was having a lot of pain and the meds we had at home just weren't controlling it anymore, it got so bad Sun night I had to call an ambulance. On the way to the hospital his heart rate was 240, the doctors all came in and gave us our options and he decided no more treatments. He was moved to the hospice house on Tues and they finally have his pain under control and he is very lucid sometimes and very out of it talking nonsense other times.

      I wanted to post an update to let you know that Eric has been moved to hospice. He was having a lot of pain and the meds we had at home just weren't controlling it anymore, it got so bad Sun night I had to call an ambulance. On the way to the hospital his heart rate was 240, the doctors all came in and gave us our options and he decided no more treatments. He was moved to the hospice house on Tues and they finally have his pain under control and he is very lucid sometimes and very out of it talking nonsense other times. Nights seem to be the hardest he get out of bed and try to go home, last night he told me I was scaring him and that he didn't trust me anymore, I know it's the disease and he medications talking but it broke my heart. He hadn't eaten in 3 days but since the pain is under control he has started to eat  little. We have no way of knowing how long we have left but we know it's between him and God now. We are prying for a peaceful passing or a wonderful miracle. It is very hard because he gets very anxious when I am not here so I try to stay with him but I also need to go and comfort and console my children. My 13 year old daughter, who because of this disease is wise beyond her years, said "Mom, Dad doesn't have much time left, go take care of him, help him with this final journey, you can take care of us later"  They have been wonderful, taking care of things at home and putting on such brave faces. My 10 year old son said it best, "Mom, melanoma is mean"  I couldn't agree more. Praying for peace and comfort for Eric and praying for all the warriors out there battling this awful mean disease

      Jill and Eric in Fl

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        Sherron
        Participant

          Oh Jill,

          I am so sorry it come to this…You all fought so hard.  I wish you peace and comfort and a pain-free journey for Eric.

          Eric will forever be in your heart.. May God bless you and your children.

           

          Take Care,

          Sherron, wife to Jim

          Sherron
          Participant

            Oh Jill,

            I am so sorry it come to this…You all fought so hard.  I wish you peace and comfort and a pain-free journey for Eric.

            Eric will forever be in your heart.. May God bless you and your children.

             

            Take Care,

            Sherron, wife to Jim

            Jim M.
            Participant

              Jill,

               I'm sure words can't adequately describe what you're going through. I pray the meds are controlled to the point that Eric is more himself. Your children seem so mature and wise. They will need you more than ever. I will pray about what you posted and most of all for His peace and strength in your lives. Where in Florida do you live?

               God Bless,

               Jim M.

              Jim M.
              Participant

                Jill,

                 I'm sure words can't adequately describe what you're going through. I pray the meds are controlled to the point that Eric is more himself. Your children seem so mature and wise. They will need you more than ever. I will pray about what you posted and most of all for His peace and strength in your lives. Where in Florida do you live?

                 God Bless,

                 Jim M.

                triciad
                Participant

                  Jill,

                  I am so sorry to hear about Eric.  Please know that you are all in my prayers.  I will be praying for a miracle!  Please keep us posted.

                  Tricia

                  triciad
                  Participant

                    Jill,

                    I am so sorry to hear about Eric.  Please know that you are all in my prayers.  I will be praying for a miracle!  Please keep us posted.

                    Tricia

                    Lori C
                    Participant

                      I will also be praying as you suggested, a miracle or peaceful passage.  And comfort to you.

                      Lori C
                      Participant

                        I will also be praying as you suggested, a miracle or peaceful passage.  And comfort to you.

                        Jaime.30
                        Participant

                          Praying for you family!  I am so sorry.

                          Jaime.30
                          Participant

                            Praying for you family!  I am so sorry.

                            akls
                            Participant

                              Jill,

                               

                              I'm so sorry to read this.  Your daughter is an amazing girl. It brought tears to my eyes when I read what she said to you. I will be praying for your family.  God bless.

                               

                              Amy S. in Michigan

                              akls
                              Participant

                                Jill,

                                 

                                I'm so sorry to read this.  Your daughter is an amazing girl. It brought tears to my eyes when I read what she said to you. I will be praying for your family.  God bless.

                                 

                                Amy S. in Michigan

                                James from Sydney
                                Participant

                                  Jill, i know how hard it is for you and i can tell you a lot of Eric's reactions are the drugs to keep him at ease. The most important thing is that you are with him and say the things you want to say. It gets to a point where you do not want to see your loved one suffer any more. May love and peace surround you at this difficult time.

                                  James

                                  James from Sydney
                                  Participant

                                    Jill, i know how hard it is for you and i can tell you a lot of Eric's reactions are the drugs to keep him at ease. The most important thing is that you are with him and say the things you want to say. It gets to a point where you do not want to see your loved one suffer any more. May love and peace surround you at this difficult time.

                                    James

                                    killmel
                                    Participant

                                      Jill,

                                       

                                      You are an amazing caregiver. My husband is my caregiver, and instead of empathizing with my situation as a stage 3, he is just tired of having to deal with me and this desease. He tells me  not to play the"cancer card" with him. I think that he is just waiting for me to die to get on with his life.

                                       

                                      I envy Eric for the love and support you have given him. You did everything thing you could for Eric and your ppost brings me to tears. Your kids sound wonderful and will be your comfort.

                                        Linda/Kentucky
                                        Participant

                                          Anonymous,

                                          I hope you do have somebody to help support you.  I am sorry your husband does not fit the role as a supportive caregiver at this time.  I'm sure he is not just waiting for you to die.  Although it's hard to accept, sometimes people deal with unfortunate news differently than others.  This may be his way (coping mechanism)of putting up his defense to keep from getting hurt so bad.  I do pray you have people who can lift you up  when your down because this is a horroble disease and your emotions are like a roller coaster ride up-down and all around.  Do know we on this message board care and support you and if you ever need to talk shout to us.  I pray your husband will soon come to accept this disease and be there for you. My heart breaks for you~~ 

                                           

                                          Linda/Kentucky

                                          Linda/Kentucky
                                          Participant

                                            Anonymous,

                                            I hope you do have somebody to help support you.  I am sorry your husband does not fit the role as a supportive caregiver at this time.  I'm sure he is not just waiting for you to die.  Although it's hard to accept, sometimes people deal with unfortunate news differently than others.  This may be his way (coping mechanism)of putting up his defense to keep from getting hurt so bad.  I do pray you have people who can lift you up  when your down because this is a horroble disease and your emotions are like a roller coaster ride up-down and all around.  Do know we on this message board care and support you and if you ever need to talk shout to us.  I pray your husband will soon come to accept this disease and be there for you. My heart breaks for you~~ 

                                             

                                            Linda/Kentucky

                                          killmel
                                          Participant

                                            Jill,

                                             

                                            You are an amazing caregiver. My husband is my caregiver, and instead of empathizing with my situation as a stage 3, he is just tired of having to deal with me and this desease. He tells me  not to play the"cancer card" with him. I think that he is just waiting for me to die to get on with his life.

                                             

                                            I envy Eric for the love and support you have given him. You did everything thing you could for Eric and your ppost brings me to tears. Your kids sound wonderful and will be your comfort.

                                            Cate
                                            Participant

                                              Jill,  I'm so sorry you are going thru this.  I will pray for you and your family and hope Eric finds peace and comfort.

                                              Cate
                                              Participant

                                                Jill,  I'm so sorry you are going thru this.  I will pray for you and your family and hope Eric finds peace and comfort.

                                                King
                                                Participant

                                                  Jill,

                                                   

                                                  Thank you for taking the time to share this news with us.  Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.  I hope that Hospice gives you all the support that you need.  There are so many people counting on you so please try to take care of yourself, too.

                                                   

                                                  Stay Strong

                                                  King (another Floridian)

                                                  Stage IV  7/05 Liver mets

                                                  King
                                                  Participant

                                                    Jill,

                                                     

                                                    Thank you for taking the time to share this news with us.  Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.  I hope that Hospice gives you all the support that you need.  There are so many people counting on you so please try to take care of yourself, too.

                                                     

                                                    Stay Strong

                                                    King (another Floridian)

                                                    Stage IV  7/05 Liver mets

                                                    MaryD
                                                    Participant

                                                      Jill – I'm so sorry that you are all going through this very difficult time . .but what a wonderful and brave family you have!   Please know I will be praying for all of you and that Eric stays peaceful and out of pain.

                                                      Love and prayers,

                                                      Mary

                                                      MaryD
                                                      Participant

                                                        Jill – I'm so sorry that you are all going through this very difficult time . .but what a wonderful and brave family you have!   Please know I will be praying for all of you and that Eric stays peaceful and out of pain.

                                                        Love and prayers,

                                                        Mary

                                                        MaryBZ
                                                        Participant

                                                          Jill,

                                                          I am so sorry  you and your lovely children have to be experiencing this dreadful disease (mean melanoma).  Although I know our God is a good God I struggle every day with the question why?  If God is all powerful then why does he allow the suffering?  I know the life after this one is perfect without pain, but it doesn't make the suffering on earth any easier to deal with.

                                                          Take comfort in the support and strength you have provided for your family.  We are not all as blessed as Eric to have such a compassionate caregiver.

                                                          I will offer up prayers for Eric, you, and your children.

                                                          Caringly,

                                                          Mary

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                                                          MaryBZ
                                                          Participant

                                                            Jill,

                                                            I am so sorry  you and your lovely children have to be experiencing this dreadful disease (mean melanoma).  Although I know our God is a good God I struggle every day with the question why?  If God is all powerful then why does he allow the suffering?  I know the life after this one is perfect without pain, but it doesn't make the suffering on earth any easier to deal with.

                                                            Take comfort in the support and strength you have provided for your family.  We are not all as blessed as Eric to have such a compassionate caregiver.

                                                            I will offer up prayers for Eric, you, and your children.

                                                            Caringly,

                                                            Mary

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                                                            ValinMtl
                                                            Participant

                                                              My thoughts are with Eric, you and your dear children during this very difficult time. I'm so sad.  Val

                                                              ValinMtl
                                                              Participant

                                                                My thoughts are with Eric, you and your dear children during this very difficult time. I'm so sad.  Val

                                                                Nancy
                                                                Participant

                                                                  Hi Jill,

                                                                  I'm so sorry to read this about Eric.  I'm glad you have been there for him each and every step of the way…

                                                                  May God comfort you in knowing you went the last mile right beside Eric.

                                                                  Nancy

                                                                   

                                                                   

                                                                   

                                                                  Nancy
                                                                  Participant

                                                                    Hi Jill,

                                                                    I'm so sorry to read this about Eric.  I'm glad you have been there for him each and every step of the way…

                                                                    May God comfort you in knowing you went the last mile right beside Eric.

                                                                    Nancy

                                                                     

                                                                     

                                                                     

                                                                    JoanR
                                                                    Participant

                                                                      My Dear Jill, I am so sorry it has come to this. I am pleased Eric is in Hospice, he will be comfortable and well cared-for…and so will you !!  Take good care of yourself, and now you can be Eric's wife and leave his care to the professionals.

                                                                      It is so sad when the children have to see their Father in such discomfort, but so wonderful they are so perceptive and understanding.

                                                                      I had a book when my Ron was in Hospice called, "Final Gifts". If you can get it I think you would find valuable. It tells you what to expect and how to communicate and interact with a dying person. It is short and easy to read, and provided me with unbelievable comfort.

                                                                      May Eric's time be peaceful and may you find comfort in knowing your care and love will help him through his final days.

                                                                      Your son is right, melanoma is mean…I hate it !!   My best, Joan

                                                                      JoanR
                                                                      Participant

                                                                        My Dear Jill, I am so sorry it has come to this. I am pleased Eric is in Hospice, he will be comfortable and well cared-for…and so will you !!  Take good care of yourself, and now you can be Eric's wife and leave his care to the professionals.

                                                                        It is so sad when the children have to see their Father in such discomfort, but so wonderful they are so perceptive and understanding.

                                                                        I had a book when my Ron was in Hospice called, "Final Gifts". If you can get it I think you would find valuable. It tells you what to expect and how to communicate and interact with a dying person. It is short and easy to read, and provided me with unbelievable comfort.

                                                                        May Eric's time be peaceful and may you find comfort in knowing your care and love will help him through his final days.

                                                                        Your son is right, melanoma is mean…I hate it !!   My best, Joan

                                                                        bill58
                                                                        Participant

                                                                          Jill,

                                                                          You, Eric and the rest of your familiy are in my thoughts and prayers.

                                                                          I am happy that the pain is getting under contol and Eric is able to eat.  I hope this whole situation is not to hard on your children, They sound like very wise and caring children.

                                                                          I am sure that the rest of the members of this board are thinking and praying for you and Eric through this difficult time.

                                                                          Bill

                                                                          bill58
                                                                          Participant

                                                                            Jill,

                                                                            You, Eric and the rest of your familiy are in my thoughts and prayers.

                                                                            I am happy that the pain is getting under contol and Eric is able to eat.  I hope this whole situation is not to hard on your children, They sound like very wise and caring children.

                                                                            I am sure that the rest of the members of this board are thinking and praying for you and Eric through this difficult time.

                                                                            Bill

                                                                            jag
                                                                            Participant

                                                                              Jill, I am very sorry for you in this difficult time.  I will pray for a miracle, that you and your family have strength to get through this.

                                                                              God Bless

                                                                              John

                                                                              jag
                                                                              Participant

                                                                                Jill, I am very sorry for you in this difficult time.  I will pray for a miracle, that you and your family have strength to get through this.

                                                                                God Bless

                                                                                John

                                                                                molly
                                                                                Participant

                                                                                  Jill, words are just not enough to say how sorry I am for Eric, you, and the children. Continued thoughts and prayers to all of you. 

                                                                                  molly

                                                                                  molly
                                                                                  Participant

                                                                                    Jill, words are just not enough to say how sorry I am for Eric, you, and the children. Continued thoughts and prayers to all of you. 

                                                                                    molly

                                                                                    Bonnie Lea
                                                                                    Participant

                                                                                      Dear Jill,

                                                                                      I was sorry to read this today.  But I want you to know you are in all of our various methods of prayer.  Yes children who have had to be 'wise beyond their years'  are indeed something.  Melanoma is mean.  I hate it.  I am praying that Eric will have an easy passing, and that you and the children will one day be ok to continue on.

                                                                                      Bonnie Lea

                                                                                      Bonnie Lea
                                                                                      Participant

                                                                                        Dear Jill,

                                                                                        I was sorry to read this today.  But I want you to know you are in all of our various methods of prayer.  Yes children who have had to be 'wise beyond their years'  are indeed something.  Melanoma is mean.  I hate it.  I am praying that Eric will have an easy passing, and that you and the children will one day be ok to continue on.

                                                                                        Bonnie Lea

                                                                                        Sharyn
                                                                                        Participant

                                                                                          Oh Jill, I am so sorry it has come to this. You both put up such a brave fight, it breaks my heart to see Eric throw in the towel. But any of us who have been through painful treatments and procedures know that there is only so much pain one can take. I will pray for peace and comfort for Eric, and for strength and courage for you and your kids, This will be th hardest part, so don't forget about your other family at MPIP. Remember, we're all here for you too. God bless!

                                                                                          Warm conforting hugs

                                                                                          Sharyn

                                                                                          Stage IV

                                                                                          Sharyn
                                                                                          Participant

                                                                                            Oh Jill, I am so sorry it has come to this. You both put up such a brave fight, it breaks my heart to see Eric throw in the towel. But any of us who have been through painful treatments and procedures know that there is only so much pain one can take. I will pray for peace and comfort for Eric, and for strength and courage for you and your kids, This will be th hardest part, so don't forget about your other family at MPIP. Remember, we're all here for you too. God bless!

                                                                                            Warm conforting hugs

                                                                                            Sharyn

                                                                                            Stage IV

                                                                                            EricNJill
                                                                                            Participant

                                                                                              Oh Jill,

                                                                                              I felt that maybe someone was going on.  I have had you on my mind everyday.  You tell Eric that we are thinking of him and praying for him.  We are praying for you and the kids as well.  Please feel free to call me if you want to talk, I'll send you my number on a FB message.

                                                                                              Hang in there, love you guys.

                                                                                              Jill N Eric in OH

                                                                                              EricNJill
                                                                                              Participant

                                                                                                Oh Jill,

                                                                                                I felt that maybe someone was going on.  I have had you on my mind everyday.  You tell Eric that we are thinking of him and praying for him.  We are praying for you and the kids as well.  Please feel free to call me if you want to talk, I'll send you my number on a FB message.

                                                                                                Hang in there, love you guys.

                                                                                                Jill N Eric in OH

                                                                                                Linda/Kentucky
                                                                                                Participant

                                                                                                  Jill,

                                                                                                  I am so sorry to hear this sad news.  I know each of us on here as caregivers can see ourselves in your position at any moment.  It must be so very hard for you.  Just know that the God of creation can, and will give you and your family strength to get through this.  I'm not saying this will be easy but in one way the hardest part is behind you now (the fight) I pray for peace and comfort in the coming days for each of you.  Please know we do care.  There is a special bond between ALL of us going through this same unfortunate journey.  Please continue to keep us posted.

                                                                                                   

                                                                                                  Linda/Kentucky (wife stage IV)

                                                                                                  Linda/Kentucky
                                                                                                  Participant

                                                                                                    Jill,

                                                                                                    I am so sorry to hear this sad news.  I know each of us on here as caregivers can see ourselves in your position at any moment.  It must be so very hard for you.  Just know that the God of creation can, and will give you and your family strength to get through this.  I'm not saying this will be easy but in one way the hardest part is behind you now (the fight) I pray for peace and comfort in the coming days for each of you.  Please know we do care.  There is a special bond between ALL of us going through this same unfortunate journey.  Please continue to keep us posted.

                                                                                                     

                                                                                                    Linda/Kentucky (wife stage IV)

                                                                                                    ErikaHouston2
                                                                                                    Participant

                                                                                                      I am so sorry you and your family are having to go through this. My heart goes out to all of you. You are a strong woman, and your husband and children are so blessed to have you.

                                                                                                      ErikaHouston2
                                                                                                      Participant

                                                                                                        I am so sorry you and your family are having to go through this. My heart goes out to all of you. You are a strong woman, and your husband and children are so blessed to have you.

                                                                                                        JuleFL
                                                                                                        Participant

                                                                                                          Dear Jill,

                                                                                                          I am so sorry to hear that you and Eric are going through this.  I understand how heartbreaking it is to hear those words from Eric, I have recently experienced this as well. I am sure that is not the way he really feels.  I am praying for you, Eric and your wonderful children.  God Bless.

                                                                                                          Jule (Cal's wife)

                                                                                                          JuleFL
                                                                                                          Participant

                                                                                                            Dear Jill,

                                                                                                            I am so sorry to hear that you and Eric are going through this.  I understand how heartbreaking it is to hear those words from Eric, I have recently experienced this as well. I am sure that is not the way he really feels.  I am praying for you, Eric and your wonderful children.  God Bless.

                                                                                                            Jule (Cal's wife)

                                                                                                            lhaley
                                                                                                            Participant

                                                                                                              Jill,

                                                                                                              I hope that hospice has found the right combination of meds to keep Eric pain free yet let the two of you be able to talk.  I'm sorry it has come to this.

                                                                                                              Linda

                                                                                                              lhaley
                                                                                                              Participant

                                                                                                                Jill,

                                                                                                                I hope that hospice has found the right combination of meds to keep Eric pain free yet let the two of you be able to talk.  I'm sorry it has come to this.

                                                                                                                Linda

                                                                                                                  yensidw
                                                                                                                  Participant

                                                                                                                    Jill,

                                                                                                                    Praying for peace for you, Eric and the children.  Ron's illness was so quick he never made it to hospice.  I pray that they will provide comfort to you all.  If you want to talk please feel free to contact me.

                                                                                                                     

                                                                                                                    Janis

                                                                                                                    yensidw
                                                                                                                    Participant

                                                                                                                      Jill,

                                                                                                                      Praying for peace for you, Eric and the children.  Ron's illness was so quick he never made it to hospice.  I pray that they will provide comfort to you all.  If you want to talk please feel free to contact me.

                                                                                                                       

                                                                                                                      Janis

                                                                                                                    Marydel
                                                                                                                    Participant

                                                                                                                      you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers,

                                                                                                                      mary

                                                                                                                      Marydel
                                                                                                                      Participant

                                                                                                                        you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers,

                                                                                                                        mary

                                                                                                                        SusanE
                                                                                                                        Participant

                                                                                                                          Jill, I am so sorry that this is happening to your family. I wish I could take the pain away for all of you. Hang in there. You are a strong woman and your children will need you.

                                                                                                                          Sending hugs and caring thoughts. One day we will know "why", at least I hope, and it will all make sense…

                                                                                                                          God Bless you and Eric and your lovely children.

                                                                                                                          Susan wife to Jerry stage III

                                                                                                                          SusanE
                                                                                                                          Participant

                                                                                                                            Jill, I am so sorry that this is happening to your family. I wish I could take the pain away for all of you. Hang in there. You are a strong woman and your children will need you.

                                                                                                                            Sending hugs and caring thoughts. One day we will know "why", at least I hope, and it will all make sense…

                                                                                                                            God Bless you and Eric and your lovely children.

                                                                                                                            Susan wife to Jerry stage III

                                                                                                                            Jill and Eric in Fl
                                                                                                                            Participant

                                                                                                                              Eric passed peacefully at 3:54am on Monday Oct 25th. We are heartbroken to say goodbye to such a wonderful father and husband. I don't think reality has quite set in and yet my heart is already in a million pieces. Prayers to all the fellow warriors, keep fighting and never give up hope.

                                                                                                                              Thank you for all the prayers and well wishes

                                                                                                                              Jill and Eric in Fl

                                                                                                                              Jill and Eric in Fl
                                                                                                                              Participant

                                                                                                                                Eric passed peacefully at 3:54am on Monday Oct 25th. We are heartbroken to say goodbye to such a wonderful father and husband. I don't think reality has quite set in and yet my heart is already in a million pieces. Prayers to all the fellow warriors, keep fighting and never give up hope.

                                                                                                                                Thank you for all the prayers and well wishes

                                                                                                                                Jill and Eric in Fl

                                                                                                                                  Fen
                                                                                                                                  Participant

                                                                                                                                    Deepest sympathy, Jill.  I will keep you and your family in my prayers. 

                                                                                                                                    Fen
                                                                                                                                    Participant

                                                                                                                                      Deepest sympathy, Jill.  I will keep you and your family in my prayers. 

                                                                                                                                      lhaley
                                                                                                                                      Participant

                                                                                                                                        Jill,

                                                                                                                                        I am so sorry for you and your families loss.  Through this journey you have proved to be a wonderful caretaker to your dear husband.

                                                                                                                                        Prayers and hugs are being sent your way,

                                                                                                                                        Linda

                                                                                                                                        lhaley
                                                                                                                                        Participant

                                                                                                                                          Jill,

                                                                                                                                          I am so sorry for you and your families loss.  Through this journey you have proved to be a wonderful caretaker to your dear husband.

                                                                                                                                          Prayers and hugs are being sent your way,

                                                                                                                                          Linda

                                                                                                                                          Wendi Lynn
                                                                                                                                          Participant

                                                                                                                                            Jill,

                                                                                                                                            So sorry for your loss.  Sending thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

                                                                                                                                            Wendi

                                                                                                                                            Wendi Lynn
                                                                                                                                            Participant

                                                                                                                                              Jill,

                                                                                                                                              So sorry for your loss.  Sending thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

                                                                                                                                              Wendi

                                                                                                                                              Laurie from maine
                                                                                                                                              Participant

                                                                                                                                                Hi,

                                                                                                                                                I am so sorry.  I am only thankful that he passed peacefully.  I hope you have people around you to support and care for you as you did for him.  You are in my prayers.

                                                                                                                                                take care

                                                                                                                                                laurie from maine

                                                                                                                                                Laurie from maine
                                                                                                                                                Participant

                                                                                                                                                  Hi,

                                                                                                                                                  I am so sorry.  I am only thankful that he passed peacefully.  I hope you have people around you to support and care for you as you did for him.  You are in my prayers.

                                                                                                                                                  take care

                                                                                                                                                  laurie from maine

                                                                                                                                                Jerry from Cape Cod
                                                                                                                                                Participant

                                                                                                                                                  Jill,

                                                                                                                                                  My heart goes out to you and your family.  I'll remember you all in my prayers.

                                                                                                                                                  Jerry from Cape Cod

                                                                                                                                                  Jerry from Cape Cod
                                                                                                                                                  Participant

                                                                                                                                                    Jill,

                                                                                                                                                    My heart goes out to you and your family.  I'll remember you all in my prayers.

                                                                                                                                                    Jerry from Cape Cod

                                                                                                                                                    KellieSue
                                                                                                                                                    Participant

                                                                                                                                                      I'm so very sorry for you loss. I feel like I never know what to say and end up saying something stupid.

                                                                                                                                                      Much too young. My thoughts are with you family.

                                                                                                                                                       

                                                                                                                                                      Kellie, Stage IV

                                                                                                                                                      KellieSue
                                                                                                                                                      Participant

                                                                                                                                                        I'm so very sorry for you loss. I feel like I never know what to say and end up saying something stupid.

                                                                                                                                                        Much too young. My thoughts are with you family.

                                                                                                                                                         

                                                                                                                                                        Kellie, Stage IV

                                                                                                                                                        Lori C
                                                                                                                                                        Participant

                                                                                                                                                          I am so horribly sorry.  I know that there are absolutely no words that will make any difference.  Please know you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.  I hope and believe that we will see those we have lost again and that they can remain with us in a very important way until then. 

                                                                                                                                                          Lori

                                                                                                                                                          Will z'l

                                                                                                                                                          Lori C
                                                                                                                                                          Participant

                                                                                                                                                            I am so horribly sorry.  I know that there are absolutely no words that will make any difference.  Please know you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.  I hope and believe that we will see those we have lost again and that they can remain with us in a very important way until then. 

                                                                                                                                                            Lori

                                                                                                                                                            Will z'l

                                                                                                                                                              yensidw
                                                                                                                                                              Participant

                                                                                                                                                                You and your family will remain in my prayers.  If you need someone to talk to ( I lost my best friend and love of my life in August} I am here.

                                                                                                                                                                May god bless you,

                                                                                                                                                                 

                                                                                                                                                                Janis

                                                                                                                                                                yensidw
                                                                                                                                                                Participant

                                                                                                                                                                  You and your family will remain in my prayers.  If you need someone to talk to ( I lost my best friend and love of my life in August} I am here.

                                                                                                                                                                  May god bless you,

                                                                                                                                                                   

                                                                                                                                                                  Janis

                                                                                                                                                                KatyWI
                                                                                                                                                                Participant

                                                                                                                                                                  My heart is breaking for you and your babies.  May peace and comfort find you.

                                                                                                                                                                  KatyWI

                                                                                                                                                                  KatyWI
                                                                                                                                                                  Participant

                                                                                                                                                                    My heart is breaking for you and your babies.  May peace and comfort find you.

                                                                                                                                                                    KatyWI

                                                                                                                                                                    JuleFL
                                                                                                                                                                    Participant

                                                                                                                                                                      You and your family are in my prayers.  God Bless.

                                                                                                                                                                      Jule

                                                                                                                                                                      JuleFL
                                                                                                                                                                      Participant

                                                                                                                                                                        You and your family are in my prayers.  God Bless.

                                                                                                                                                                        Jule

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