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Jill and Eric in Fl

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      Jill and Eric in Fl
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        Prayers for Buddy and family, there are no words that can make this any easier but will keep them in my prayers

        Jill in Fl

        Jill and Eric in Fl
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          Prayers for Buddy and family, there are no words that can make this any easier but will keep them in my prayers

          Jill in Fl

          Jill and Eric in Fl
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            Eric passed peacefully at 3:54am on Monday Oct 25th. We are heartbroken to say goodbye to such a wonderful father and husband. I don't think reality has quite set in and yet my heart is already in a million pieces. Prayers to all the fellow warriors, keep fighting and never give up hope.

            Thank you for all the prayers and well wishes

            Jill and Eric in Fl

            Jill and Eric in Fl
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              Eric passed peacefully at 3:54am on Monday Oct 25th. We are heartbroken to say goodbye to such a wonderful father and husband. I don't think reality has quite set in and yet my heart is already in a million pieces. Prayers to all the fellow warriors, keep fighting and never give up hope.

              Thank you for all the prayers and well wishes

              Jill and Eric in Fl

              Jill and Eric in Fl
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                I am so sorry for the loss of your mom. I hope one day the memories will all make you smile and you will have peace in your heart. Prayers for you and your family

                Jill and Eric in Fl

                Jill and Eric in Fl
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                  I am so sorry for the loss of your mom. I hope one day the memories will all make you smile and you will have peace in your heart. Prayers for you and your family

                  Jill and Eric in Fl

                  Jill and Eric in Fl
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                    I am so sorry, there are no words. Peace and comfort to you and Will's family. Prayers and tears for you in Florida tonight.

                    Jill and Eric in Fl

                    Jill and Eric in Fl
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                      I am so sorry, there are no words. Peace and comfort to you and Will's family. Prayers and tears for you in Florida tonight.

                      Jill and Eric in Fl

                      Jill and Eric in Fl
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                        I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I am at a loss for words, may you find peace and may the memories of your life together help you through this difficult time.

                        Jill

                        Jill and Eric in Fl
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                          I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I am at a loss for words, may you find peace and may the memories of your life together help you through this difficult time.

                          Jill

                          Jill and Eric in Fl
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                            Eric came home today, Dr Weber said that since the liver tumors showed an increase of size he was going to stop the IPI and attack it with chemo to try to get something to work. I forget the chemo name but it was 2 or3 and one was like carbo something, I am too tired to look it all up  now. I asked if this progression could just  be the IPI causing the tumors to swell before they shrink and he said yes but since there was no way to now if it is IPI or disease progression he didn't want to waste time waiting to see which it was he wanted to attack. He said if we do nothing that Eric would most likely not be here in 4 months with this type of progression so he wants to attack hard and fast, he said we will do 3 rounds of this chemo and then get scans and if we are stable or shrinking we will look into Braf/MEK but he said that trial wouldn't open for 4 weeks and he wants to hit it before then, He scared us but at least he wants to attack and not just wait and see. He said Eric had all the classic side effects to IPI and may be showing a response but only time will tell. The good news is the pain is finally under control, we are going to try to wean off the steroids and hopefully the pain won't come back. Eric feels like they actually have the pain meds dosed a little high and they said we can wean off that too a little but we are going to get on  either no steroids or a lower dose before we start messing with reducing the pain meds. Eric is in shock, feels ok, just kinda knocks the wind out of your sails. He says give him a few days and he will be back in the fight. He says he thinks he focused too much on what IPI could do and not enough on what God can do so we will take a few days, relax, refocus and then focus more on God and get back in attack mode.

                             

                            Thank you for all your support, I read this website everyday and would be so lost without it, thank you for all the insight

                            Jill

                            Jill and Eric in Fl
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                              Eric came home today, Dr Weber said that since the liver tumors showed an increase of size he was going to stop the IPI and attack it with chemo to try to get something to work. I forget the chemo name but it was 2 or3 and one was like carbo something, I am too tired to look it all up  now. I asked if this progression could just  be the IPI causing the tumors to swell before they shrink and he said yes but since there was no way to now if it is IPI or disease progression he didn't want to waste time waiting to see which it was he wanted to attack. He said if we do nothing that Eric would most likely not be here in 4 months with this type of progression so he wants to attack hard and fast, he said we will do 3 rounds of this chemo and then get scans and if we are stable or shrinking we will look into Braf/MEK but he said that trial wouldn't open for 4 weeks and he wants to hit it before then, He scared us but at least he wants to attack and not just wait and see. He said Eric had all the classic side effects to IPI and may be showing a response but only time will tell. The good news is the pain is finally under control, we are going to try to wean off the steroids and hopefully the pain won't come back. Eric feels like they actually have the pain meds dosed a little high and they said we can wean off that too a little but we are going to get on  either no steroids or a lower dose before we start messing with reducing the pain meds. Eric is in shock, feels ok, just kinda knocks the wind out of your sails. He says give him a few days and he will be back in the fight. He says he thinks he focused too much on what IPI could do and not enough on what God can do so we will take a few days, relax, refocus and then focus more on God and get back in attack mode.

                               

                              Thank you for all your support, I read this website everyday and would be so lost without it, thank you for all the insight

                              Jill

                              Jill and Eric in Fl
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                                Hi Jill, I am so sorry to hear this but totally understand what you are going through, as you know my Eric just got out of the hospital after 6 days. Now that the pain is better, he says to give him a day or two and he will be  back in the fight. Pain really was hard on him and he was unable to see anything past the pain. I am also sorry it appears some posters are getting us mixed up, I think I read someone mentioned Dr Weber to you, I know it is confusing having both of us on here with the same names. The pallitive care team really took care of the pain for my Eric hopefully afer a few days of rest we can get back in the fight. Dr Weber said tonight if we did nothing at all Eric would be dead in 4 months so we are going to keep fighting and praying but first we are going to take a few pain free days and just regroup, refocus and love one another. Please ask for a pain sepcialist, your Eric should not have to suffer so much even if he decides to not continue treatment. It is not selfish to want him to keep fighting but as I know you know his quality is most important, I think once you get a pain team involved, even if they put him on heavy meds like they did for my Eric you will see the light back in his eyes and maybe the fight back in his step. I am always praying for you guys and I am here if you need me.

                                Love

                                Jill

                                (the other Jill and Eric)

                                Jill and Eric in Fl
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                                  Please know I am praying for you guys!!!

                                  Jill and Eric in Fl
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                                    Please know I am praying for you guys!!!

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