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- October 6, 2010 at 10:09 pm
My Mom was diagnosed with melanoma in April. She had it removed in May and had 5 high doses of radiation. Everything was supposed to be ok or so we thought. Fast forward to Sept. 1st when I got a call that she had severe abdominal pain. Rushed her to the hospital where they did a cat scan and said they saw tumors in her intestines. She continued in pain until 9 days and so many tests later she went for another cat scan where a doctor saw that she had a hole and if she didn't have emergency surgery the toxins would go through her body and she would die.
My Mom was diagnosed with melanoma in April. She had it removed in May and had 5 high doses of radiation. Everything was supposed to be ok or so we thought. Fast forward to Sept. 1st when I got a call that she had severe abdominal pain. Rushed her to the hospital where they did a cat scan and said they saw tumors in her intestines. She continued in pain until 9 days and so many tests later she went for another cat scan where a doctor saw that she had a hole and if she didn't have emergency surgery the toxins would go through her body and she would die. Preceded with the surgery where they repaired the hole and removed one of the tumors but weren't able to get to the other one. At first she seemed to be recovering then she got an infection and needed to have a drain put in. Last week I could see that melanoma was winning this battle and was about to take another persons life. Just watching her there in so much pain yet trying to hold on for her family was heartbreaking. On this past Saturday the doctor told us it's not good and if there was anyone that needed to see her they should come. Watching my Mom die when she had so much life and love left to give makes me so sad. For those of you that are dealing with this disease I hope the best for you.
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- October 6, 2010 at 10:50 pm
I'm so sorry for your loss. That must have been so difficult to see your mom suffering.
Kellie(from Iowa) Stage IV
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- October 7, 2010 at 1:50 am
I am so sorry for the loss of your mom. I hope one day the memories will all make you smile and you will have peace in your heart. Prayers for you and your family
Jill and Eric in Fl
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- October 7, 2010 at 1:50 am
I am so sorry for the loss of your mom. I hope one day the memories will all make you smile and you will have peace in your heart. Prayers for you and your family
Jill and Eric in Fl
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- October 7, 2010 at 12:02 pm
What a sad experience for you, watching your Mom die, but I'm sure she was glad to have you there in her last moments. I am so sorry for your loss, and hope that you will draw from your Mom's courage and learn to move forward from this. My thoughts and parayers are with you and your family.
Warm comforting hugs
Sharyn
Stage IV
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- October 7, 2010 at 12:02 pm
What a sad experience for you, watching your Mom die, but I'm sure she was glad to have you there in her last moments. I am so sorry for your loss, and hope that you will draw from your Mom's courage and learn to move forward from this. My thoughts and parayers are with you and your family.
Warm comforting hugs
Sharyn
Stage IV
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