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    • September 19, 2011 at 4:24 am
    bcl
    Participant

    don't be offended folks, Nic never liked a fuss, and previously said when she passed away she wanted us to simply say she karked it. ( She wanted us to add a smiley face there, but I just can't.)

    Sadly today, after years of defying the odds, our feisty beautiful and brilliant friend passed away.  As she was setting off home from the hospital last week, her final instructions to us on her blog were  Hooray!! Behave, if you can 🙂 

    don't be offended folks, Nic never liked a fuss, and previously said when she passed away she wanted us to simply say she karked it. ( She wanted us to add a smiley face there, but I just can't.)

    Sadly today, after years of defying the odds, our feisty beautiful and brilliant friend passed away.  As she was setting off home from the hospital last week, her final instructions to us on her blog were  Hooray!! Behave, if you can 🙂 

    RIP Nic love –  I will never forget you, and will forever be grateful to you for being my friend.    linda

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      • September 19, 2011 at 4:30 am
      Vermont_Donna
      Participant

      Such sad sad news……thanks for sharing.I'll miss her quick wit and sparkling personality.

      Vermont_Donna, stage 3a

      • September 19, 2011 at 4:30 am
      Vermont_Donna
      Participant

      Such sad sad news……thanks for sharing.I'll miss her quick wit and sparkling personality.

      Vermont_Donna, stage 3a

      • September 19, 2011 at 4:53 am
      KellieSue
      Participant

      Oh, I'm so sad to hear of Nic's passing. She had such an awesome personality. Seemed like someone I could get along with in the real world.

      Kellie(from Iowa)

      • September 19, 2011 at 4:53 am
      KellieSue
      Participant

      Oh, I'm so sad to hear of Nic's passing. She had such an awesome personality. Seemed like someone I could get along with in the real world.

      Kellie(from Iowa)

      • September 19, 2011 at 5:09 am
      JerryfromFauq
      Participant

      Linda, I thank you for this horrible news.  NicOz was indeed a fighter and an example to many of us.  I know this will hit LV extra hard as well.  We were both hoping that she would get well enough that she could bring her young daughter to Fla and Disney World.  I have great admiration for her, her attitude and her fighting spirit. She was an amazing survivor for so long I have never heard of anyone surviving so many brain operations for so many re-occurring brain tumors.  I miss her.  I last had contact as she was leaving for the hospital and we exchnged emails.  I know you were very close to her too and am hurting  as we are to.  I think you and LV for being there for her so much.  I know that she appreciated you both very much.

      JerryfromFauq

      • September 19, 2011 at 5:09 am
      JerryfromFauq
      Participant

      Linda, I thank you for this horrible news.  NicOz was indeed a fighter and an example to many of us.  I know this will hit LV extra hard as well.  We were both hoping that she would get well enough that she could bring her young daughter to Fla and Disney World.  I have great admiration for her, her attitude and her fighting spirit. She was an amazing survivor for so long I have never heard of anyone surviving so many brain operations for so many re-occurring brain tumors.  I miss her.  I last had contact as she was leaving for the hospital and we exchnged emails.  I know you were very close to her too and am hurting  as we are to.  I think you and LV for being there for her so much.  I know that she appreciated you both very much.

      JerryfromFauq

        • September 19, 2011 at 5:11 am
        KellieSue
        Participant

        Oh, her daughter. She was 6 1/2. Same age as my daughter, so sad for Georgia and Nic's whole family now.

        Kellie(from Iowa)

        • September 19, 2011 at 5:11 am
        KellieSue
        Participant

        Oh, her daughter. She was 6 1/2. Same age as my daughter, so sad for Georgia and Nic's whole family now.

        Kellie(from Iowa)

        • September 19, 2011 at 6:10 am
        bcl
        Participant

        Oh Jerry, it's excruciating and so $%&$&*$*& unfair.  I know she was close to many of us- thank you for your kind words. Hugs to you, linda

        • September 19, 2011 at 6:10 am
        bcl
        Participant

        Oh Jerry, it's excruciating and so $%&$&*$*& unfair.  I know she was close to many of us- thank you for your kind words. Hugs to you, linda

      • September 19, 2011 at 5:14 am
      LV
      Participant

      Linda, thanks for posting this. My mind races, I can't find any words, but that woman was simply a gift!

      Love you, Nic.

      • September 19, 2011 at 5:14 am
      LV
      Participant

      Linda, thanks for posting this. My mind races, I can't find any words, but that woman was simply a gift!

      Love you, Nic.

      • September 19, 2011 at 6:55 am
      FormerCaregiver
      Participant

      Sorry to read this very sad news. May Nic rest in peace.

      Frank from Australia

        • September 19, 2011 at 10:40 am
        deardad
        Participant

        I have been thinking about Nic and I am very sorry to hear the news. I so admired her determination and candid personality. I never once spoke with her, but her posts always put a smile on my face. I'm so very sad for all that were close with her, especially her family.

        • September 19, 2011 at 10:40 am
        deardad
        Participant

        I have been thinking about Nic and I am very sorry to hear the news. I so admired her determination and candid personality. I never once spoke with her, but her posts always put a smile on my face. I'm so very sad for all that were close with her, especially her family.

      • September 19, 2011 at 6:55 am
      FormerCaregiver
      Participant

      Sorry to read this very sad news. May Nic rest in peace.

      Frank from Australia

      • September 19, 2011 at 11:15 am
      akls
      Participant

      I am so sad to read this.  She was a true hero.  Sending prayers to her daughter. 

       

      Amy S. in Michigan

      • September 19, 2011 at 11:15 am
      akls
      Participant

      I am so sad to read this.  She was a true hero.  Sending prayers to her daughter. 

       

      Amy S. in Michigan

      • September 19, 2011 at 11:37 am
      MariaH
      Participant

      Such sad news.  I'll miss her fighting spirit and "tell it like it is" posts.  May she fly to the angels, always keeping an eye on those she left behind. 

      We'll miss you Nic,

      Maria

      • September 19, 2011 at 11:37 am
      MariaH
      Participant

      Such sad news.  I'll miss her fighting spirit and "tell it like it is" posts.  May she fly to the angels, always keeping an eye on those she left behind. 

      We'll miss you Nic,

      Maria

      • September 19, 2011 at 11:39 am
      James from Sydney
      Participant

      I am so sad to hear the news Linda, i sent her an email a few weeks ago before i went on Holidays with my wife. We only returned today to see this news. I was fortunate to have met Nic, she certainely was'nt afraid to say what was on her mind. She has such a beautiful little girl who i'm sure will grow to know how incredible her Mum was. Rest in peace Nic and i promise you that we will carry on the fight with the Disease as well as keeping those Doctors inline.

      James

      • September 19, 2011 at 11:39 am
      James from Sydney
      Participant

      I am so sad to hear the news Linda, i sent her an email a few weeks ago before i went on Holidays with my wife. We only returned today to see this news. I was fortunate to have met Nic, she certainely was'nt afraid to say what was on her mind. She has such a beautiful little girl who i'm sure will grow to know how incredible her Mum was. Rest in peace Nic and i promise you that we will carry on the fight with the Disease as well as keeping those Doctors inline.

      James

      • September 19, 2011 at 11:39 am
      Lori C
      Participant

      I am so sorry.  Thinking of her little girl and will keep her in my thoughts & prayers.

       

      Lori

      • September 19, 2011 at 11:39 am
      Lori C
      Participant

      I am so sorry.  Thinking of her little girl and will keep her in my thoughts & prayers.

       

      Lori

      • September 19, 2011 at 12:56 pm
      lhaley
      Participant

      There are no words to explain the spark that Nic lighted under others in her fight.  We will miss you my friend. My heart is broken for G and the rest of her family.

      Nic was able to love life even during the her many surgeries and latest treatments. We all need to take a few lessons from her. 

      Sending a toast,

      Linda

      • September 19, 2011 at 12:56 pm
      lhaley
      Participant

      There are no words to explain the spark that Nic lighted under others in her fight.  We will miss you my friend. My heart is broken for G and the rest of her family.

      Nic was able to love life even during the her many surgeries and latest treatments. We all need to take a few lessons from her. 

      Sending a toast,

      Linda

      • September 19, 2011 at 1:26 pm
      MichaelFL
      Participant

      MEH! She finally got on with it.

      RIP

      • September 19, 2011 at 1:26 pm
      MichaelFL
      Participant

      MEH! She finally got on with it.

      RIP

        • September 19, 2011 at 2:04 pm
        LV
        Participant

        Oh Anon, she would love this!

        • September 19, 2011 at 2:04 pm
        LV
        Participant

        Oh Anon, she would love this!

      • September 19, 2011 at 1:29 pm
      Tim–MRF
      Guest

      I feel like I have lost a friend.  Nic was an amazing part of this community, and touched many, many people.  She will be sorely missed.

       

      Tim–MRF

      • September 19, 2011 at 1:29 pm
      Tim–MRF
      Guest

      I feel like I have lost a friend.  Nic was an amazing part of this community, and touched many, many people.  She will be sorely missed.

       

      Tim–MRF

      • September 19, 2011 at 1:34 pm
      lovingwifedeb
      Participant
      I am truly sadened by this news about Nic as she was one of the first people on this board who reached out to me as my husband’s caregiver. I witnessed her raw emotion and expression which affected everyone here as I read their by their responses to her.
      Peace and light to her family and especially to her daughter, whose heart now lay shattered before her.

      Deb
      lovingwife to Bob, May 27th
      Mother, lung cancer, May, 19th

      redesign08.blogspot.com

      • September 19, 2011 at 1:34 pm
      lovingwifedeb
      Participant
      I am truly sadened by this news about Nic as she was one of the first people on this board who reached out to me as my husband’s caregiver. I witnessed her raw emotion and expression which affected everyone here as I read their by their responses to her.
      Peace and light to her family and especially to her daughter, whose heart now lay shattered before her.

      Deb
      lovingwife to Bob, May 27th
      Mother, lung cancer, May, 19th

      redesign08.blogspot.com

      • September 19, 2011 at 1:50 pm
      KatyWI
      Participant

      I think Nic was cooler than all of us put together.  I will miss her, and I'll never forget how kind and generous she was to me when I was prepping for my craniotomy.

      KatyWI

      • September 19, 2011 at 1:50 pm
      KatyWI
      Participant

      I think Nic was cooler than all of us put together.  I will miss her, and I'll never forget how kind and generous she was to me when I was prepping for my craniotomy.

      KatyWI

      • September 19, 2011 at 2:20 pm
      CarolA
      Participant

      Linda – thank you.   Nic will be remembered in my heart forever –her spunk and humor, her way of telling it,  her way of sharing.   And I cannot help but shed tears over the loss of someone who has touched the lives of so many of us.    I know she is telling God a thing or two!!!   RIP Nic and thoughts and prayers for her family and friends.  

      CarolA~Stage III

      Amherst, NY  

      • September 19, 2011 at 2:20 pm
      CarolA
      Participant

      Linda – thank you.   Nic will be remembered in my heart forever –her spunk and humor, her way of telling it,  her way of sharing.   And I cannot help but shed tears over the loss of someone who has touched the lives of so many of us.    I know she is telling God a thing or two!!!   RIP Nic and thoughts and prayers for her family and friends.  

      CarolA~Stage III

      Amherst, NY  

        • September 22, 2011 at 5:55 am
        benp
        Participant

        Devestating news. She seemed to be a great fighter. Condolonsces to her family, particularly to her daughter.

        Ben.

        • September 22, 2011 at 5:55 am
        benp
        Participant

        Devestating news. She seemed to be a great fighter. Condolonsces to her family, particularly to her daughter.

        Ben.

      • September 19, 2011 at 2:46 pm
      dian in spokane
      Participant

      horrible, horrible news

      • September 19, 2011 at 2:46 pm
      dian in spokane
      Participant

      horrible, horrible news

      • September 19, 2011 at 3:53 pm
      mombase
      Participant

      SInce I am pretty much a newbiw on this board, I did not have a lot of interaction with NicOz, but what I did have left a very lasting impression on me. She said to me:

      Go kick mel in the goolies!! Hard.  To that, I literally ROFL'd!!

      I am saddened to hear that she had a little girl. I am strangely grateful that my daughter is 17. I love her and life so much, but sometimes I hate what is dished out.

      RIP, Nic, and a HUGE hug to your sweet little girl.

      Cristy, Stage IV

      • September 19, 2011 at 3:53 pm
      mombase
      Participant

      SInce I am pretty much a newbiw on this board, I did not have a lot of interaction with NicOz, but what I did have left a very lasting impression on me. She said to me:

      Go kick mel in the goolies!! Hard.  To that, I literally ROFL'd!!

      I am saddened to hear that she had a little girl. I am strangely grateful that my daughter is 17. I love her and life so much, but sometimes I hate what is dished out.

      RIP, Nic, and a HUGE hug to your sweet little girl.

      Cristy, Stage IV

        • September 19, 2011 at 4:03 pm
        Laurie from maine
        Participant

        HI,

        I am so sorry, such sad sad news.  My heart and prayers go out to her family. 

        laurie from maine

        • September 19, 2011 at 4:03 pm
        Laurie from maine
        Participant

        HI,

        I am so sorry, such sad sad news.  My heart and prayers go out to her family. 

        laurie from maine

      • September 19, 2011 at 7:05 pm
      boot2aboot
      Participant

      well i  am devastated she 'karked' it…noone on this board can motivate like nicole…she was not afraid to speak her mind…honesty is a virture…i am sorely upset to hear this outcome and can only say that now she isn't tortured by treatments…i for one NEEDED her- her courage…her get-on-with-it attitude…i hate this fracking disease

      boots

      • September 19, 2011 at 7:05 pm
      boot2aboot
      Participant

      well i  am devastated she 'karked' it…noone on this board can motivate like nicole…she was not afraid to speak her mind…honesty is a virture…i am sorely upset to hear this outcome and can only say that now she isn't tortured by treatments…i for one NEEDED her- her courage…her get-on-with-it attitude…i hate this fracking disease

      boots

      • September 19, 2011 at 7:33 pm
      DebbieH
      Participant

      I am so sorry to hear this.  I hate this effing disease, that it can take a loving mom from her family – she sure gave it a good fight though.  I'll miss her in here.  Rest in peace Nic – my thoughts and prayers to all who loved her.

      Deb

      • September 19, 2011 at 7:33 pm
      DebbieH
      Participant

      I am so sorry to hear this.  I hate this effing disease, that it can take a loving mom from her family – she sure gave it a good fight though.  I'll miss her in here.  Rest in peace Nic – my thoughts and prayers to all who loved her.

      Deb

      • September 19, 2011 at 9:14 pm
      JuleFL
      Participant

      I am very sorry to hear this.  Her posts always made me smile, which was a huge accomplishment on some days.

      Jule

      • September 19, 2011 at 9:14 pm
      JuleFL
      Participant

      I am very sorry to hear this.  Her posts always made me smile, which was a huge accomplishment on some days.

      Jule

      • September 19, 2011 at 9:38 pm
      StanN
      Participant

       I am very sadden to hear of  this news.Nic will be missed.Condulences to her family,

                          StanN

      • September 19, 2011 at 9:38 pm
      StanN
      Participant

       I am very sadden to hear of  this news.Nic will be missed.Condulences to her family,

                          StanN

      • September 22, 2011 at 4:39 am
      EricNJill
      Participant

      I cry reading this.  It's such terrible news.  I prayed she would be one of the lucky ones to beat it.  My heart just breaks for her family.  She was so courageous and I loved her honesty.

      Jill in OH/Eric in Heaven

      • September 22, 2011 at 4:39 am
      EricNJill
      Participant

      I cry reading this.  It's such terrible news.  I prayed she would be one of the lucky ones to beat it.  My heart just breaks for her family.  She was so courageous and I loved her honesty.

      Jill in OH/Eric in Heaven

      • September 23, 2011 at 2:57 am
      Jim M.
      Participant

      Nic had such honesty, wit and strength and helped so many people. My sincere condolences. For her family I pray for strength, guidance, and His peace.

       Jim M.

      • September 23, 2011 at 2:57 am
      Jim M.
      Participant

      Nic had such honesty, wit and strength and helped so many people. My sincere condolences. For her family I pray for strength, guidance, and His peace.

       Jim M.

      • September 25, 2011 at 12:09 am
      Eehgads
      Participant

      I am so sorry to hear of Nic's passing. I enjoyed her wit, kind banter and support. We have lost a very important member of the Melanoma Community but will continue the fight as Nic would want us to.

      Rest in peace Nic, you are now free of Melanoma. We will carry you in our hearts. Thank you for sharing your journey with us. You were one hell of a warrior.

      My condolences to her family and friends.

       

      Michele

      • September 25, 2011 at 12:09 am
      Eehgads
      Participant

      I am so sorry to hear of Nic's passing. I enjoyed her wit, kind banter and support. We have lost a very important member of the Melanoma Community but will continue the fight as Nic would want us to.

      Rest in peace Nic, you are now free of Melanoma. We will carry you in our hearts. Thank you for sharing your journey with us. You were one hell of a warrior.

      My condolences to her family and friends.

       

      Michele

      • October 4, 2011 at 7:19 pm
      Yawn
      Participant

       So fucking heartbreaking.

      • October 4, 2011 at 7:19 pm
      Yawn
      Participant

       So fucking heartbreaking.

      • October 4, 2011 at 7:19 pm
      Yawn
      Participant

       So fucking heartbreaking.

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