10 Year Anniversary
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10 Year Anniversary

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    • February 19, 2016 at 4:33 pm
    BrianP
    Participant

    So I was speaking with a doctor a couple days about my medical history and suddenly a revelation hit me.  This month marks my 10 years as a melanoma survivor. 

    I'm always impressed with the stage I folks on here asking questions and seeking information.  At the time of my stage I diagnosis 10 years ago I was oblivious to the severity.  I was a Marine at the time getting ready to deploy and I remember thinking at the time, "OK doc cut this stuff out so I can go on my way."  It wasn't until the follow-up appointment when the doctor said, "Well the good news is you have about a 95% 5 year survival chance at this point” that I realized there was a little more to this situation than I thought. 

    In some respects it's been a hard earned 10 years but it's also been a hell of a run.  Marriage, kids, new career, and tons of memories along the way.  I hate melanoma and all the pain it’s caused me and my loved ones.  I’d do anything to have never had it in my life but I will say it’s made me a better person and I intend to live as much life as I have left to the fullest.  Looking forward to the next 10 years.

    Brian

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      • February 19, 2016 at 5:41 pm
      Eileensulliv
      Participant

      Congrats, Brian!!! What a great feeling, and thank you for sharing this news! As I sit and wait for my CT scan, this made me smile from ear-to-ear!

      • February 19, 2016 at 5:41 pm
      Eileensulliv
      Participant

      Congrats, Brian!!! What a great feeling, and thank you for sharing this news! As I sit and wait for my CT scan, this made me smile from ear-to-ear!

        • February 19, 2016 at 5:58 pm
        Scooby123
        Participant

        Wishing you good scans Eileen.

        scooby123❤️

        • February 19, 2016 at 5:58 pm
        Scooby123
        Participant

        Wishing you good scans Eileen.

        scooby123❤️

        • February 19, 2016 at 5:58 pm
        Scooby123
        Participant

        Wishing you good scans Eileen.

        scooby123❤️

        • February 19, 2016 at 6:36 pm
        keepthefaith11
        Participant
        Thinking positive thoughts for a good scan Eileen!!
        • February 19, 2016 at 6:36 pm
        keepthefaith11
        Participant
        Thinking positive thoughts for a good scan Eileen!!
        • February 19, 2016 at 6:36 pm
        keepthefaith11
        Participant
        Thinking positive thoughts for a good scan Eileen!!
        • February 19, 2016 at 10:03 pm
        BrianP
        Participant

        Thanks Eileen.  Prayer coming your way for good results today.

        Brian

        • February 19, 2016 at 10:03 pm
        BrianP
        Participant

        Thanks Eileen.  Prayer coming your way for good results today.

        Brian

        • February 19, 2016 at 10:03 pm
        BrianP
        Participant

        Thanks Eileen.  Prayer coming your way for good results today.

        Brian

      • February 19, 2016 at 5:41 pm
      Eileensulliv
      Participant

      Congrats, Brian!!! What a great feeling, and thank you for sharing this news! As I sit and wait for my CT scan, this made me smile from ear-to-ear!

      • February 19, 2016 at 5:56 pm
      Scooby123
      Participant

      So pleased for you Brain, nice to know that guys like you are still here and supporting others. I look back on this forum few years back and wounder what has happened too them due to no posting. I know some want to just get on with there lives and I do not blame them, but it's also nice for us fighting knowing good news is out there. Thank you for you help and advice always means a lot.

      scooby123❤️

      • February 19, 2016 at 5:56 pm
      Scooby123
      Participant

      So pleased for you Brain, nice to know that guys like you are still here and supporting others. I look back on this forum few years back and wounder what has happened too them due to no posting. I know some want to just get on with there lives and I do not blame them, but it's also nice for us fighting knowing good news is out there. Thank you for you help and advice always means a lot.

      scooby123❤️

        • February 19, 2016 at 10:04 pm
        BrianP
        Participant

        Thanks Scooby.  Hope you are feeling well.

        • February 19, 2016 at 10:04 pm
        BrianP
        Participant

        Thanks Scooby.  Hope you are feeling well.

        • February 19, 2016 at 10:04 pm
        BrianP
        Participant

        Thanks Scooby.  Hope you are feeling well.

      • February 19, 2016 at 5:56 pm
      Scooby123
      Participant

      So pleased for you Brain, nice to know that guys like you are still here and supporting others. I look back on this forum few years back and wounder what has happened too them due to no posting. I know some want to just get on with there lives and I do not blame them, but it's also nice for us fighting knowing good news is out there. Thank you for you help and advice always means a lot.

      scooby123❤️

      • February 19, 2016 at 6:42 pm
      keepthefaith11
      Participant
      Brian, thank you for posting this. Always so awesome to hear positive stories and such a great attitude!

      I have to say that even though I am not the one with melanoma, my dad is, this board and everyone’s support and insights has kept me going through this process so far. I found myself talking to my dad today about ippi using some of your first names here on the board. Eventually he asked me who I was talking about. “Oh, my friends on the discussion board”, I said, realizing the bond I feel with with everyone here. So, thank you!

      • February 19, 2016 at 6:42 pm
      keepthefaith11
      Participant
      Brian, thank you for posting this. Always so awesome to hear positive stories and such a great attitude!

      I have to say that even though I am not the one with melanoma, my dad is, this board and everyone’s support and insights has kept me going through this process so far. I found myself talking to my dad today about ippi using some of your first names here on the board. Eventually he asked me who I was talking about. “Oh, my friends on the discussion board”, I said, realizing the bond I feel with with everyone here. So, thank you!

        • February 19, 2016 at 10:07 pm
        BrianP
        Participant

        Couldn't agree more.  I didn't get involved with this board until I progressed to Stage III in 2011.  Since then it as been an integral part of my journey.  I can't even express how much this board has meant to me and helped me.

        • February 19, 2016 at 10:07 pm
        BrianP
        Participant

        Couldn't agree more.  I didn't get involved with this board until I progressed to Stage III in 2011.  Since then it as been an integral part of my journey.  I can't even express how much this board has meant to me and helped me.

        • February 19, 2016 at 10:07 pm
        BrianP
        Participant

        Couldn't agree more.  I didn't get involved with this board until I progressed to Stage III in 2011.  Since then it as been an integral part of my journey.  I can't even express how much this board has meant to me and helped me.

      • February 19, 2016 at 6:42 pm
      keepthefaith11
      Participant
      Brian, thank you for posting this. Always so awesome to hear positive stories and such a great attitude!

      I have to say that even though I am not the one with melanoma, my dad is, this board and everyone’s support and insights has kept me going through this process so far. I found myself talking to my dad today about ippi using some of your first names here on the board. Eventually he asked me who I was talking about. “Oh, my friends on the discussion board”, I said, realizing the bond I feel with with everyone here. So, thank you!

      • February 19, 2016 at 7:45 pm
      jenny22
      Participant

      HI Brian-

      10 years is a long time…I guess we dont think much about this at the beginning with a stage 1 diagnosis…..

      I  hope you'll be posting for many more 10 year anniversaries…..

      All the best!

      jenny

       

      • February 19, 2016 at 7:45 pm
      jenny22
      Participant

      HI Brian-

      10 years is a long time…I guess we dont think much about this at the beginning with a stage 1 diagnosis…..

      I  hope you'll be posting for many more 10 year anniversaries…..

      All the best!

      jenny

       

        • February 19, 2016 at 7:57 pm
        vivian
        Participant

        Congratulations, Brian!  I know you have earned every second of those ten years, and I am so happy that they have been filled with joy to match the troubles.  Certainly hope to hear from you on your 20 year anniversary.

        Fondly,

        Lear

        • February 19, 2016 at 7:57 pm
        vivian
        Participant

        Congratulations, Brian!  I know you have earned every second of those ten years, and I am so happy that they have been filled with joy to match the troubles.  Certainly hope to hear from you on your 20 year anniversary.

        Fondly,

        Lear

        • February 19, 2016 at 7:57 pm
        vivian
        Participant

        Congratulations, Brian!  I know you have earned every second of those ten years, and I am so happy that they have been filled with joy to match the troubles.  Certainly hope to hear from you on your 20 year anniversary.

        Fondly,

        Lear

      • February 19, 2016 at 7:45 pm
      jenny22
      Participant

      HI Brian-

      10 years is a long time…I guess we dont think much about this at the beginning with a stage 1 diagnosis…..

      I  hope you'll be posting for many more 10 year anniversaries…..

      All the best!

      jenny

       

      • February 19, 2016 at 8:02 pm
      DZnDef
      Participant

      Brian!  Congratulations on an important anniversary!  May you celebrate many more to come!

      I'm always impressed with and in awe of folks that decide to place their lives on the line in defense of this country and all she stands for.  Thank you for your service, sir.

      • February 19, 2016 at 8:02 pm
      DZnDef
      Participant

      Brian!  Congratulations on an important anniversary!  May you celebrate many more to come!

      I'm always impressed with and in awe of folks that decide to place their lives on the line in defense of this country and all she stands for.  Thank you for your service, sir.

      • February 19, 2016 at 8:02 pm
      DZnDef
      Participant

      Brian!  Congratulations on an important anniversary!  May you celebrate many more to come!

      I'm always impressed with and in awe of folks that decide to place their lives on the line in defense of this country and all she stands for.  Thank you for your service, sir.

      • February 19, 2016 at 8:38 pm
      Mat
      Participant

      Brian, well said!

      • February 19, 2016 at 8:38 pm
      Mat
      Participant

      Brian, well said!

      • February 19, 2016 at 8:38 pm
      Mat
      Participant

      Brian, well said!

      • February 20, 2016 at 2:14 am
      Bubbles
      Participant

      Congrats, Brian! But, even better….I plan to raise a glass in salute of your next ten! Love, c

      • February 20, 2016 at 2:14 am
      Bubbles
      Participant

      Congrats, Brian! But, even better….I plan to raise a glass in salute of your next ten! Love, c

      • February 20, 2016 at 2:14 am
      Bubbles
      Participant

      Congrats, Brian! But, even better….I plan to raise a glass in salute of your next ten! Love, c

      • February 20, 2016 at 9:10 am
      scots
      Participant

      congrats on 10 years.

      Scot

      • February 20, 2016 at 9:10 am
      scots
      Participant

      congrats on 10 years.

      Scot

        • February 20, 2016 at 2:00 pm
        Maureen038
        Participant

        Congratulations Brian to you and your beautiful family!!! You have been an integral part of this board with your excellent advice and positive and caring attitude. I wish you a very long and meaningful life!! Congrats again Brian-so happy for you!!

        Maureen

        • February 20, 2016 at 2:00 pm
        Maureen038
        Participant

        Congratulations Brian to you and your beautiful family!!! You have been an integral part of this board with your excellent advice and positive and caring attitude. I wish you a very long and meaningful life!! Congrats again Brian-so happy for you!!

        Maureen

        • February 20, 2016 at 2:00 pm
        Maureen038
        Participant

        Congratulations Brian to you and your beautiful family!!! You have been an integral part of this board with your excellent advice and positive and caring attitude. I wish you a very long and meaningful life!! Congrats again Brian-so happy for you!!

        Maureen

      • February 20, 2016 at 9:10 am
      scots
      Participant

      congrats on 10 years.

      Scot

      • February 21, 2016 at 10:16 pm
      AshleyS
      Participant

      Awesome, Brian! Keep on keeping on!!!!!!

      Ashley

      • February 21, 2016 at 10:16 pm
      AshleyS
      Participant

      Awesome, Brian! Keep on keeping on!!!!!!

      Ashley

      • February 21, 2016 at 10:16 pm
      AshleyS
      Participant

      Awesome, Brian! Keep on keeping on!!!!!!

      Ashley

      • February 22, 2016 at 3:18 pm
      _Paul_
      Participant

      That is a truly significant milestone Brian, double digits and still kicking it. I really liked the part of your report that it has made you a better person. Having something good come from something so sh*tty is simply excellent.

      There is hope for the rest of us!

      – Paul

      • February 22, 2016 at 3:18 pm
      _Paul_
      Participant

      That is a truly significant milestone Brian, double digits and still kicking it. I really liked the part of your report that it has made you a better person. Having something good come from something so sh*tty is simply excellent.

      There is hope for the rest of us!

      – Paul

      • February 22, 2016 at 3:18 pm
      _Paul_
      Participant

      That is a truly significant milestone Brian, double digits and still kicking it. I really liked the part of your report that it has made you a better person. Having something good come from something so sh*tty is simply excellent.

      There is hope for the rest of us!

      – Paul

      • February 22, 2016 at 3:27 pm
      kpcollins31
      Participant

      Nice work, Brian! I had not realized that your initial diagnosis was that long ago. 

      Kevin

       

      • February 22, 2016 at 3:27 pm
      kpcollins31
      Participant

      Nice work, Brian! I had not realized that your initial diagnosis was that long ago. 

      Kevin

       

      • February 22, 2016 at 3:27 pm
      kpcollins31
      Participant

      Nice work, Brian! I had not realized that your initial diagnosis was that long ago. 

      Kevin

       

        • February 22, 2016 at 5:30 pm
        Brendan
        Participant

        Congratulations, Brian.  Wishing you continued good luck.

        Brendan

         

        • February 22, 2016 at 5:30 pm
        Brendan
        Participant

        Congratulations, Brian.  Wishing you continued good luck.

        Brendan

         

        • February 22, 2016 at 5:30 pm
        Brendan
        Participant

        Congratulations, Brian.  Wishing you continued good luck.

        Brendan

         

        • February 24, 2016 at 5:14 am
        jogo
        Participant

        Congratulations Brian on your ten years.   Thank you for all the support you give us.  I am humbled by your generosity: sharing news about melanoma with us, providing valuable support when there have been questions from persons with melanoma and their families, and sharing your personal journey.  I'm certain that there are hundreds, even thousands, of us who feel that you are in our corner.  Reciprocating, your corner is a stadium of good wishes, gratitude, and prayers for you and your family.  You are our beacon of hope and courage!  

        • February 24, 2016 at 5:14 am
        jogo
        Participant

        Congratulations Brian on your ten years.   Thank you for all the support you give us.  I am humbled by your generosity: sharing news about melanoma with us, providing valuable support when there have been questions from persons with melanoma and their families, and sharing your personal journey.  I'm certain that there are hundreds, even thousands, of us who feel that you are in our corner.  Reciprocating, your corner is a stadium of good wishes, gratitude, and prayers for you and your family.  You are our beacon of hope and courage!  

        • February 24, 2016 at 5:14 am
        jogo
        Participant

        Congratulations Brian on your ten years.   Thank you for all the support you give us.  I am humbled by your generosity: sharing news about melanoma with us, providing valuable support when there have been questions from persons with melanoma and their families, and sharing your personal journey.  I'm certain that there are hundreds, even thousands, of us who feel that you are in our corner.  Reciprocating, your corner is a stadium of good wishes, gratitude, and prayers for you and your family.  You are our beacon of hope and courage!  

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