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Christine Schrader

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    edamaser
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      Christine is gone; my dear friend is gone.  She was my closest OM companion, consultant, supporter, and commiserator during the 7 years we traveled this awful trail together.  We each knew that the other truly understood.  We didn't have to worry about withholding the truth to protect the other.  We each knew the truth and could, and did, approach and work with that truth in utter honesty.

      Christine is gone; my dear friend is gone.  She was my closest OM companion, consultant, supporter, and commiserator during the 7 years we traveled this awful trail together.  We each knew that the other truly understood.  We didn't have to worry about withholding the truth to protect the other.  We each knew the truth and could, and did, approach and work with that truth in utter honesty.

      We both relied entirely on science, the scientific approach, and scientific research.  We shared and discussed every new paper we came across.  Christine was terrific at tearing apart these studies:  not good enough controls, dosage too low, results wouldn't generalize to OM, etc., etc.  Neither of us was trained in any medical field; Christine didn't even have a college education.  We taught ourselves; we shared our confusions and shared the answers we found.  She was one of the smartest people I have ever known.

      Once we impudently attended a conference at NIH on cancer immunotherapies, a conference meant for medical researchers.  We flew in, met at the airport, shared a room, and went under the titles of "Dr. so-and-so."  We heard a multitude of papers, and learned a lot, but she learned more than I.

      Christine generously gave of her knowledge to those who asked.  Countless others have benefitted from her big heart, marvelous brain, and vast wisdom.

      Christine was the first person to join the pina colada trial, and we both celebrated with a pina colada every time we met.  Who knows, maybe it was the pina coladas and the scientific research combined that kept her alive long past the grim 6-month prognosis.  I will miss her terribly.

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        andeglasmacher
        Participant

          I am so, so sorry, Esther.  I remember Christine from a few years ago when I was first diagnosed, and both of you have been inspirations to me when I've feared the worst, and could see you both facing everything courageously.   My heart goes out to you…..

          andeglasmacher
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            I am so, so sorry, Esther.  I remember Christine from a few years ago when I was first diagnosed, and both of you have been inspirations to me when I've feared the worst, and could see you both facing everything courageously.   My heart goes out to you…..

            andeglasmacher
            Participant

              I am so, so sorry, Esther.  I remember Christine from a few years ago when I was first diagnosed, and both of you have been inspirations to me when I've feared the worst, and could see you both facing everything courageously.   My heart goes out to you…..

              Nan in Nebraska
              Participant

                Esther, I am so saddened to hear about Christine. She was such a fighter and inspiration to us all.

                My condolences to her family and friends. RIP Christine.

                Nan

                Nan in Nebraska
                Participant

                  Esther, I am so saddened to hear about Christine. She was such a fighter and inspiration to us all.

                  My condolences to her family and friends. RIP Christine.

                  Nan

                  Nan in Nebraska
                  Participant

                    Esther, I am so saddened to hear about Christine. She was such a fighter and inspiration to us all.

                    My condolences to her family and friends. RIP Christine.

                    Nan

                    lak
                    Participant

                      I m so saddened by this news. Christine was a bright shining light in the dark world of OM. She definatley guided my way which has resulted in a lengthed life with stage IV.

                       

                      My thoughts are with her family and her OM friends

                       

                      Lesley

                      lak
                      Participant

                        I m so saddened by this news. Christine was a bright shining light in the dark world of OM. She definatley guided my way which has resulted in a lengthed life with stage IV.

                         

                        My thoughts are with her family and her OM friends

                         

                        Lesley

                        lak
                        Participant

                          I m so saddened by this news. Christine was a bright shining light in the dark world of OM. She definatley guided my way which has resulted in a lengthed life with stage IV.

                           

                          My thoughts are with her family and her OM friends

                           

                          Lesley

                          dwcowing
                          Participant

                            Oh, Esther, I am so sorry. Christine sounds like a wonderful person and a wonderful friend. 

                            Deborah Cowing

                              margaretrogers57
                              Participant

                                So very sorry to hear this news, Esther.  You both have been such a help and inspiration to Butch and I since we learned he had mets.  RIP, christine.  margaret

                                margaretrogers57
                                Participant

                                  So very sorry to hear this news, Esther.  You both have been such a help and inspiration to Butch and I since we learned he had mets.  RIP, christine.  margaret

                                  margaretrogers57
                                  Participant

                                    So very sorry to hear this news, Esther.  You both have been such a help and inspiration to Butch and I since we learned he had mets.  RIP, christine.  margaret

                                  dwcowing
                                  Participant

                                    Oh, Esther, I am so sorry. Christine sounds like a wonderful person and a wonderful friend. 

                                    Deborah Cowing

                                    dwcowing
                                    Participant

                                      Oh, Esther, I am so sorry. Christine sounds like a wonderful person and a wonderful friend. 

                                      Deborah Cowing

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