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    • September 4, 2013 at 2:00 am
    lrkg1234
    Participant

      Hello all. 

      Thanks for the endless support and advice. This board was so helpful in learning and planning for Scott's treatments as well as emotional support.

      Scott passed on August 30th, Friday AM at 10 AM.  I was there with him and it was OK.  Peaceful and easy.  He was not afraid and he was accepting of the situation.  I know he is free now.

      Hello all. 

      Thanks for the endless support and advice. This board was so helpful in learning and planning for Scott's treatments as well as emotional support.

      Scott passed on August 30th, Friday AM at 10 AM.  I was there with him and it was OK.  Peaceful and easy.  He was not afraid and he was accepting of the situation.  I know he is free now.

      He was so strong, always working towards the next treatment, never complaining.  But the cancer had taken it's toll and it was time for him to be rid of that body.  We will all miss him dearly, but I know he is much happier now and that we will meet again.

      Keep up the fight all.  As time goes on things get much better.  Better treatments, better chances. 

       

      God Bless, Lisa (wife of Scott)

       

      Below is a link to his online memorial scott-alan-gause.forevermissed.com

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        • September 4, 2013 at 2:26 am
        awillett1991
        Participant
          Lisa. – I am so very sorry for your loss. Amy
          • September 4, 2013 at 2:26 am
          awillett1991
          Participant
            Lisa. – I am so very sorry for your loss. Amy
            • September 4, 2013 at 2:26 am
            awillett1991
            Participant
              Lisa. – I am so very sorry for your loss. Amy
              • September 4, 2013 at 3:10 am
              Phil S
              Participant
                Lisa, I am so very sorry for your loss, I know you will miss Scott, I hope the good memories of your life together sustain you in the months ahead. You both put up a good fight, you should be proud of yourself as a wonderful caregiver and wife. You are an amazing woman, having the courage to care for Scott, having the wisdom to know it was time to let go, and having the sense of peace that it was meant to be and he is in a better place. I wish you God’s Blessings, and take good care of Yourself! Valerie (Phil’s wife)
                • September 4, 2013 at 3:10 am
                Phil S
                Participant
                  Lisa, I am so very sorry for your loss, I know you will miss Scott, I hope the good memories of your life together sustain you in the months ahead. You both put up a good fight, you should be proud of yourself as a wonderful caregiver and wife. You are an amazing woman, having the courage to care for Scott, having the wisdom to know it was time to let go, and having the sense of peace that it was meant to be and he is in a better place. I wish you God’s Blessings, and take good care of Yourself! Valerie (Phil’s wife)
                  • September 4, 2013 at 3:10 am
                  Phil S
                  Participant
                    Lisa, I am so very sorry for your loss, I know you will miss Scott, I hope the good memories of your life together sustain you in the months ahead. You both put up a good fight, you should be proud of yourself as a wonderful caregiver and wife. You are an amazing woman, having the courage to care for Scott, having the wisdom to know it was time to let go, and having the sense of peace that it was meant to be and he is in a better place. I wish you God’s Blessings, and take good care of Yourself! Valerie (Phil’s wife)
                    • September 4, 2013 at 4:39 am
                    POW
                    Participant

                       

                      Lisa, I am very sorry for your loss. Thank you so much for taking the trouble to let us know.

                      I can't believe that it was only 6 weeks ago that Scott decided to stop treatment and now he's gone already. To me that means that you and Scott fought melanoma successfully to the very bitter end. You didn't give up too soon. What a scrappy pair you were!

                      I am glad that Scott's passing was peaceful and that you were able to be there with him. You were a wonderful and loving wife to him. I hope you have loving family and good friends you can turn to for help and support during this difficult time. 

                      • September 4, 2013 at 4:39 am
                      POW
                      Participant

                         

                        Lisa, I am very sorry for your loss. Thank you so much for taking the trouble to let us know.

                        I can't believe that it was only 6 weeks ago that Scott decided to stop treatment and now he's gone already. To me that means that you and Scott fought melanoma successfully to the very bitter end. You didn't give up too soon. What a scrappy pair you were!

                        I am glad that Scott's passing was peaceful and that you were able to be there with him. You were a wonderful and loving wife to him. I hope you have loving family and good friends you can turn to for help and support during this difficult time. 

                        • September 4, 2013 at 4:39 am
                        POW
                        Participant

                           

                          Lisa, I am very sorry for your loss. Thank you so much for taking the trouble to let us know.

                          I can't believe that it was only 6 weeks ago that Scott decided to stop treatment and now he's gone already. To me that means that you and Scott fought melanoma successfully to the very bitter end. You didn't give up too soon. What a scrappy pair you were!

                          I am glad that Scott's passing was peaceful and that you were able to be there with him. You were a wonderful and loving wife to him. I hope you have loving family and good friends you can turn to for help and support during this difficult time. 

                          • September 4, 2013 at 11:41 am
                          aldakota22
                          Participant

                            So sorry to read the news of Scotts passing.May you and your family heal over his loss.Had such a tough cancer to beat.Both gave it all you could.Beat the Beast .   Al

                            • September 4, 2013 at 11:41 am
                            aldakota22
                            Participant

                              So sorry to read the news of Scotts passing.May you and your family heal over his loss.Had such a tough cancer to beat.Both gave it all you could.Beat the Beast .   Al

                              • September 4, 2013 at 11:41 am
                              aldakota22
                              Participant

                                So sorry to read the news of Scotts passing.May you and your family heal over his loss.Had such a tough cancer to beat.Both gave it all you could.Beat the Beast .   Al

                                • September 4, 2013 at 1:40 pm
                                NYKaren
                                Participant
                                  Dear Lisa,
                                  I am so very sorry for your loss. You and Scott were true partners in every sense of the word. You are both in my prayers.
                                  Karen
                                  • September 4, 2013 at 2:11 pm
                                  casagrayson
                                  Participant

                                    I'm so sorry.  Praying for peace for you and your children.   Susan

                                    • September 4, 2013 at 2:11 pm
                                    casagrayson
                                    Participant

                                      I'm so sorry.  Praying for peace for you and your children.   Susan

                                      • September 4, 2013 at 2:11 pm
                                      casagrayson
                                      Participant

                                        I'm so sorry.  Praying for peace for you and your children.   Susan

                                        • September 4, 2013 at 4:00 pm
                                        rosa1
                                        Participant

                                          Lisa,

                                          I'm so very sorry for your loss.  I pray that God will give you and your family peace and comfort in the days ahead.

                                          Rosa

                                          • September 4, 2013 at 4:00 pm
                                          rosa1
                                          Participant

                                            Lisa,

                                            I'm so very sorry for your loss.  I pray that God will give you and your family peace and comfort in the days ahead.

                                            Rosa

                                            • September 4, 2013 at 4:00 pm
                                            rosa1
                                            Participant

                                              Lisa,

                                              I'm so very sorry for your loss.  I pray that God will give you and your family peace and comfort in the days ahead.

                                              Rosa

                                              • September 4, 2013 at 10:46 pm
                                              Tina D
                                              Participant

                                                Lisa, I am so so sorry. He really did fight hard and you fought hard right along-side him.I am sorry I never got the chance to meet him. Praying for you and hoping you have all kinds of loving support. Hard to find words to offer consolation. He was sure blessed to have you by his side through it all.

                                                Tina

                                                • September 4, 2013 at 10:46 pm
                                                Tina D
                                                Participant

                                                  Lisa, I am so so sorry. He really did fight hard and you fought hard right along-side him.I am sorry I never got the chance to meet him. Praying for you and hoping you have all kinds of loving support. Hard to find words to offer consolation. He was sure blessed to have you by his side through it all.

                                                  Tina

                                                  • September 4, 2013 at 10:46 pm
                                                  Tina D
                                                  Participant

                                                    Lisa, I am so so sorry. He really did fight hard and you fought hard right along-side him.I am sorry I never got the chance to meet him. Praying for you and hoping you have all kinds of loving support. Hard to find words to offer consolation. He was sure blessed to have you by his side through it all.

                                                    Tina

                                                    • September 4, 2013 at 11:56 pm
                                                    Swanee
                                                    Participant

                                                      Lisa,

                                                      Always a sad post to read and my heart sinks to know that Scott has passed away.  Your love and devotion to your husband was so transparent as you dedicated yourself to finding  the best care and treatments for him.  You gave so much in such a short amount of time and I can't help but feel that Scott  knew how lucky he was to have you by his side to face this battle together.  May the love you shared together in this journey, comfort you now and bring you peace in the days ahead.  Blessings to all of Scott's loved ones.

                                                      Swanee  

                                                      • September 4, 2013 at 11:56 pm
                                                      Swanee
                                                      Participant

                                                        Lisa,

                                                        Always a sad post to read and my heart sinks to know that Scott has passed away.  Your love and devotion to your husband was so transparent as you dedicated yourself to finding  the best care and treatments for him.  You gave so much in such a short amount of time and I can't help but feel that Scott  knew how lucky he was to have you by his side to face this battle together.  May the love you shared together in this journey, comfort you now and bring you peace in the days ahead.  Blessings to all of Scott's loved ones.

                                                        Swanee  

                                                        • September 4, 2013 at 11:56 pm
                                                        Swanee
                                                        Participant

                                                          Lisa,

                                                          Always a sad post to read and my heart sinks to know that Scott has passed away.  Your love and devotion to your husband was so transparent as you dedicated yourself to finding  the best care and treatments for him.  You gave so much in such a short amount of time and I can't help but feel that Scott  knew how lucky he was to have you by his side to face this battle together.  May the love you shared together in this journey, comfort you now and bring you peace in the days ahead.  Blessings to all of Scott's loved ones.

                                                          Swanee  

                                                          • September 5, 2013 at 7:47 am
                                                          Owl
                                                          Participant

                                                            Dear Lisa,

                                                            my thaughts are with you, I am so sorry for your loss. I think your attitude is admirable, letting Scott go and feeling that he is free now. I hope you and your family can maintain this feeling and it will help you going through this hard time.

                                                            All the best for you, Jenny

                                                            • September 5, 2013 at 7:47 am
                                                            Owl
                                                            Participant

                                                              Dear Lisa,

                                                              my thaughts are with you, I am so sorry for your loss. I think your attitude is admirable, letting Scott go and feeling that he is free now. I hope you and your family can maintain this feeling and it will help you going through this hard time.

                                                              All the best for you, Jenny

                                                              • September 5, 2013 at 7:47 am
                                                              Owl
                                                              Participant

                                                                Dear Lisa,

                                                                my thaughts are with you, I am so sorry for your loss. I think your attitude is admirable, letting Scott go and feeling that he is free now. I hope you and your family can maintain this feeling and it will help you going through this hard time.

                                                                All the best for you, Jenny

                                                                • September 6, 2013 at 12:45 am
                                                                BrianP
                                                                Participant

                                                                  I'm so sorry for you loss Lisa.  I will be praying for your family.  You and Scott were wonderful examples to emulate in the fight against this terrible disease.

                                                                  Brian

                                                                  • September 6, 2013 at 12:45 am
                                                                  BrianP
                                                                  Participant

                                                                    I'm so sorry for you loss Lisa.  I will be praying for your family.  You and Scott were wonderful examples to emulate in the fight against this terrible disease.

                                                                    Brian

                                                                    • September 6, 2013 at 12:45 am
                                                                    BrianP
                                                                    Participant

                                                                      I'm so sorry for you loss Lisa.  I will be praying for your family.  You and Scott were wonderful examples to emulate in the fight against this terrible disease.

                                                                      Brian

                                                                      • September 4, 2013 at 1:40 pm
                                                                      NYKaren
                                                                      Participant
                                                                        Dear Lisa,
                                                                        I am so very sorry for your loss. You and Scott were true partners in every sense of the word. You are both in my prayers.
                                                                        Karen
                                                                        • September 4, 2013 at 1:40 pm
                                                                        NYKaren
                                                                        Participant
                                                                          Dear Lisa,
                                                                          I am so very sorry for your loss. You and Scott were true partners in every sense of the word. You are both in my prayers.
                                                                          Karen
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