Decision has been made!! His pain will be over soon.
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Decision has been made!! His pain will be over soon.

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    • February 27, 2016 at 11:21 pm
    pookerpb
    Participant
    Hadn’t given an update in a while. Just waneed to share our decision to have hospice come in. After 3 years different trials rhat worked initially and then have eventual disease progression, my husbands heroic struggle with this disease will come to an end. Ad a last ditch effort he was scheduled for IL2 3 weeks ago but due to disease progression was too sick just days before. After being home for 2 weeks now, we called hospice in and he no longer is limiting narcotics for pain in fear of addiction. He has pain relief and rest peacefully now. Jad several weeks to preparr and he even at a too young age of 45 has accepted was is to be. Please pray for his continued comfort and comfort for myself and our two young teen daughters who are struggling with this so much.
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      • February 28, 2016 at 1:04 am
      scots
      Participant

      Your family is in my prayers.

      Scot

       

      • February 28, 2016 at 1:04 am
      scots
      Participant

      Your family is in my prayers.

      Scot

       

      • February 28, 2016 at 1:04 am
      scots
      Participant

      Your family is in my prayers.

      Scot

       

      • February 28, 2016 at 1:24 am
      sister of patient
      Participant

      Likewise. I don't know you but my heart goes out to you none-the-less!! I wish all of you much comfort!!! Barb

      • February 28, 2016 at 1:24 am
      sister of patient
      Participant

      Likewise. I don't know you but my heart goes out to you none-the-less!! I wish all of you much comfort!!! Barb

      • February 28, 2016 at 1:24 am
      sister of patient
      Participant

      Likewise. I don't know you but my heart goes out to you none-the-less!! I wish all of you much comfort!!! Barb

      • February 28, 2016 at 2:34 am
      Rita and Charles
      Participant

      Prayers for you and your husband, I can't imagine….hopefully without pain joy can be part of life.  Rita

       

      • February 28, 2016 at 2:34 am
      Rita and Charles
      Participant

      Prayers for you and your husband, I can't imagine….hopefully without pain joy can be part of life.  Rita

       

      • February 28, 2016 at 2:34 am
      Rita and Charles
      Participant

      Prayers for you and your husband, I can't imagine….hopefully without pain joy can be part of life.  Rita

       

      • February 28, 2016 at 3:14 am
      AllysonRuth
      Participant

      I have been following your posts. I am so, so sorry. I have been impressed by your commitment to your husband and daughters.  My prayers are with you. 

      allyson

      • February 28, 2016 at 3:14 am
      AllysonRuth
      Participant

      I have been following your posts. I am so, so sorry. I have been impressed by your commitment to your husband and daughters.  My prayers are with you. 

      allyson

      • February 28, 2016 at 3:14 am
      AllysonRuth
      Participant

      I have been following your posts. I am so, so sorry. I have been impressed by your commitment to your husband and daughters.  My prayers are with you. 

      allyson

      • February 28, 2016 at 3:14 am
      AllysonRuth
      Participant

      I have been following your posts. I am so, so sorry. I have been impressed by your commitment to your husband and daughters.  My prayers are with you. 

      allyson

      • February 28, 2016 at 3:14 am
      AllysonRuth
      Participant

      I have been following your posts. I am so, so sorry. I have been impressed by your commitment to your husband and daughters.  My prayers are with you. 

      allyson

      • February 28, 2016 at 3:14 am
      AllysonRuth
      Participant

      I have been following your posts. I am so, so sorry. I have been impressed by your commitment to your husband and daughters.  My prayers are with you. 

      allyson

      • February 28, 2016 at 3:57 am
      AshleyS
      Participant

      My family sends prayers to your family. 

      With love,

      Ashley

      • February 28, 2016 at 3:57 am
      AshleyS
      Participant

      My family sends prayers to your family. 

      With love,

      Ashley

      • February 28, 2016 at 3:57 am
      AshleyS
      Participant

      My family sends prayers to your family. 

      With love,

      Ashley

      • February 28, 2016 at 6:49 am
      MoiraM
      Participant

      Thinking of you.

      • February 28, 2016 at 6:49 am
      MoiraM
      Participant

      Thinking of you.

      • February 28, 2016 at 6:49 am
      MoiraM
      Participant

      Thinking of you.

      • February 28, 2016 at 12:04 pm
      Scooby123
      Participant

      Prayers too you and your family, so sorry 

      scooby123❤️

      • February 28, 2016 at 12:04 pm
      Scooby123
      Participant

      Prayers too you and your family, so sorry 

      scooby123❤️

      • February 28, 2016 at 12:04 pm
      Scooby123
      Participant

      Prayers too you and your family, so sorry 

      scooby123❤️

      • February 28, 2016 at 2:24 pm
      jamieth29
      Participant
      I’m sorry… Thinking about you guys.
      • February 28, 2016 at 2:24 pm
      jamieth29
      Participant
      I’m sorry… Thinking about you guys.
      • February 28, 2016 at 2:24 pm
      jamieth29
      Participant
      I’m sorry… Thinking about you guys.
      • February 28, 2016 at 4:03 pm
      Eileensulliv
      Participant

      I am so sorry you are going through this! Prayers for you, your husband, and your daughters.

      • February 28, 2016 at 4:03 pm
      Eileensulliv
      Participant

      I am so sorry you are going through this! Prayers for you, your husband, and your daughters.

      • February 28, 2016 at 4:03 pm
      Eileensulliv
      Participant

      I am so sorry you are going through this! Prayers for you, your husband, and your daughters.

      • February 28, 2016 at 4:06 pm
      WithinMySkin
      Participant
      I’m so terribly sorry. Sounds like he has the care and the pain relief he needs for this world. My thoughts are with you and your husband.
      • February 28, 2016 at 4:06 pm
      WithinMySkin
      Participant
      I’m so terribly sorry. Sounds like he has the care and the pain relief he needs for this world. My thoughts are with you and your husband.
      • February 28, 2016 at 4:06 pm
      WithinMySkin
      Participant
      I’m so terribly sorry. Sounds like he has the care and the pain relief he needs for this world. My thoughts are with you and your husband.
      • February 28, 2016 at 6:19 pm
      jennunicorn
      Participant

      So sorry, sending good thoughts and love to you and your family.

      -Jenn

      • February 28, 2016 at 6:19 pm
      jennunicorn
      Participant

      So sorry, sending good thoughts and love to you and your family.

      -Jenn

      • February 28, 2016 at 6:19 pm
      jennunicorn
      Participant

      So sorry, sending good thoughts and love to you and your family.

      -Jenn

      • February 28, 2016 at 8:23 pm
      keepthefaith11
      Participant
      So sorry…praying for all of you during this difficult time.
      • February 28, 2016 at 8:23 pm
      keepthefaith11
      Participant
      So sorry…praying for all of you during this difficult time.
        • February 28, 2016 at 9:13 pm
        Maureen038
        Participant

        I am very sorry too! Melanoma can truly suck!! Please try your best to take care of yourself and your family during this devastating time. Our prayers are with you!!

        Maureen

        • February 28, 2016 at 9:13 pm
        Maureen038
        Participant

        I am very sorry too! Melanoma can truly suck!! Please try your best to take care of yourself and your family during this devastating time. Our prayers are with you!!

        Maureen

        • February 28, 2016 at 9:13 pm
        Maureen038
        Participant

        I am very sorry too! Melanoma can truly suck!! Please try your best to take care of yourself and your family during this devastating time. Our prayers are with you!!

        Maureen

      • February 28, 2016 at 8:23 pm
      keepthefaith11
      Participant
      So sorry…praying for all of you during this difficult time.
      • February 29, 2016 at 1:15 am
      casagrayson
      Participant

      I'm so sorry.  At some point it simply becomes too hard.  You and your husband and daughters will be in my thoughts.

      • February 29, 2016 at 1:15 am
      casagrayson
      Participant

      I'm so sorry.  At some point it simply becomes too hard.  You and your husband and daughters will be in my thoughts.

        • February 29, 2016 at 2:48 am
        pookerpb
        Participant
        Thank you all so much!! Good luck to all of you. I follow all of your posts and you will all have Mt continued prayers and if I can help or answer anyone’s questions I will be happy to.
        • February 29, 2016 at 2:48 am
        pookerpb
        Participant
        Thank you all so much!! Good luck to all of you. I follow all of your posts and you will all have Mt continued prayers and if I can help or answer anyone’s questions I will be happy to.
        • February 29, 2016 at 2:48 am
        pookerpb
        Participant
        Thank you all so much!! Good luck to all of you. I follow all of your posts and you will all have Mt continued prayers and if I can help or answer anyone’s questions I will be happy to.
      • February 29, 2016 at 1:15 am
      casagrayson
      Participant

      I'm so sorry.  At some point it simply becomes too hard.  You and your husband and daughters will be in my thoughts.

      • February 29, 2016 at 12:48 pm
      JuTMSY4
      Participant

      I do not know you, but you are in my prayers.  I pray for all the best and for the relief you and your husband need.  -Justin

      • February 29, 2016 at 12:48 pm
      JuTMSY4
      Participant

      I do not know you, but you are in my prayers.  I pray for all the best and for the relief you and your husband need.  -Justin

      • February 29, 2016 at 12:48 pm
      JuTMSY4
      Participant

      I do not know you, but you are in my prayers.  I pray for all the best and for the relief you and your husband need.  -Justin

      • February 29, 2016 at 2:40 pm
      dentholla
      Participant

      My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

       

      ~Kristi

      • February 29, 2016 at 2:40 pm
      dentholla
      Participant

      My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

       

      ~Kristi

      • February 29, 2016 at 2:40 pm
      dentholla
      Participant

      My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

       

      ~Kristi

      • February 29, 2016 at 4:21 pm
      Gwen in Maine
      Participant

      So sorry… my thoughts are with you and your family.

      Gwen

      • February 29, 2016 at 4:21 pm
      Gwen in Maine
      Participant

      So sorry… my thoughts are with you and your family.

      Gwen

      • February 29, 2016 at 4:21 pm
      Gwen in Maine
      Participant

      So sorry… my thoughts are with you and your family.

      Gwen

      • February 29, 2016 at 9:33 pm
      dfeng
      Participant

      Praying for all of you.

      • February 29, 2016 at 9:33 pm
      dfeng
      Participant

      Praying for all of you.

      • February 29, 2016 at 9:33 pm
      dfeng
      Participant

      Praying for all of you.

      • March 1, 2016 at 2:55 am
      Rocco
      Participant

      My thoughts and prayers this evening are with you and your husband and family during this most difficult time.

      -Rocco

        • March 4, 2016 at 8:31 pm
        tschmith
        Participant

        Keeping you in my thougths and prayers during this difficult time.

        Terrie

        • March 4, 2016 at 8:31 pm
        tschmith
        Participant

        Keeping you in my thougths and prayers during this difficult time.

        Terrie

        • March 4, 2016 at 8:31 pm
        tschmith
        Participant

        Keeping you in my thougths and prayers during this difficult time.

        Terrie

      • March 1, 2016 at 2:55 am
      Rocco
      Participant

      My thoughts and prayers this evening are with you and your husband and family during this most difficult time.

      -Rocco

      • March 1, 2016 at 2:55 am
      Rocco
      Participant

      My thoughts and prayers this evening are with you and your husband and family during this most difficult time.

      -Rocco

      • March 6, 2016 at 4:27 am
      KRob
      Participant

      Your family is in my prayers. I am sorry that it came to this. 

      May peace be with you.

      Karen

      • March 6, 2016 at 4:27 am
      KRob
      Participant

      Your family is in my prayers. I am sorry that it came to this. 

      May peace be with you.

      Karen

      • March 6, 2016 at 4:27 am
      KRob
      Participant

      Your family is in my prayers. I am sorry that it came to this. 

      May peace be with you.

      Karen

      • March 6, 2016 at 8:38 pm
      Maria C
      Participant

      So very sorry and please know you and your family are in our prayers during this very difficult time.

       

      • March 6, 2016 at 8:38 pm
      Maria C
      Participant

      So very sorry and please know you and your family are in our prayers during this very difficult time.

       

      • March 6, 2016 at 8:38 pm
      Maria C
      Participant

      So very sorry and please know you and your family are in our prayers during this very difficult time.

       

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