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Body ache??

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    Millykamp
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      Still learning a lot but still getting overwhelm.. I haven't seen the specialist yet.. So many questions.. 

       

      I I do have a few that I am wondering.., who it being an early stage cancer. 

      can body ache be part of the cancer? 

      The area where the lymph node are located could it be tender at times to touch but not swollen? 

      Can feeling tired all the time be part of it as well? 

       

      I also want want to thank everyone for amazing support groups.  This place have really help me u durst and most and still learning 

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        liberty04281
        Participant
          You should see melanoma specialist.
          The specialist should send you for CT scan. Before that you cannot know anything for sure.
          liberty04281
          Participant
            You should see melanoma specialist.
            The specialist should send you for CT scan. Before that you cannot know anything for sure.
            liberty04281
            Participant
              You should see melanoma specialist.
              The specialist should send you for CT scan. Before that you cannot know anything for sure.
                Millykamp
                Participant

                  Oh I am.. I don't see rhe, for 2 weeks 

                  liberty04281
                  Participant
                    Being tired all the time may be part of the stress. I belive you are stressed out. It may have anything to do with cancer.
                    liberty04281
                    Participant
                      Being tired all the time may be part of the stress. I belive you are stressed out. It may have anything to do with cancer.
                      liberty04281
                      Participant
                        Being tired all the time may be part of the stress. I belive you are stressed out. It may have anything to do with cancer.
                        Millykamp
                        Participant

                          Oh I am.. I don't see rhe, for 2 weeks 

                          Millykamp
                          Participant

                            Oh I am.. I don't see rhe, for 2 weeks 

                          Momofjake
                          Participant

                            Sorry you are here, at the beginning, learning all this stuff in this new world! It's filled with questions and fear. 

                            Take a deep breath, you are okay today:) Get a good doctor. Start educating yourself. Ask questions here. Here you will hear actual experiences with diagnoses and treatment etc. The experience of people here can be invaluable!! My feeling is the dr sugar coats everything!! The awesome people here just give it straight. They have suffered and still find a way to be happy and help others! 

                            Now find your calm and strength and start doing your homework:) You will figure it all out. Don't guess or play "what if". Get your doc and your scans and go from there. 

                            Prayers,

                            kerri-mom of Jake

                             

                              Millykamp
                              Participant

                                Thank you 

                                 

                                again I am going to a good doctor, getting the whole works done . But I was just wondering if any of the questions I had ask  can be related to cancer?    Just wanted to see what were some of the people symptoms 

                                i knwo when my dad had cancer he was always tired and had headache all the time before he seens  the doctor.  But by the time he seen the doctor it was already to late and he was given 6 months to live. 

                                stars
                                Participant

                                  Hi Melissa – I can't say whether any particular aches/pains are early cancer, but I do know that with your recent diagnoses you've probably been really stressed and maybe you're starting to feel run down. I think its a kind of adrenal fatigue, where you are stressed for a long time and it really starts to wear you down. On top of that, with any melanoma diagnosis, you get really hyper vigilant to every twingr, cough, ach etc. just hanf in there til the dr appt and you have some anawers. Right now you are in limboland, which is the worst. Try to relax, enjoy things, live the moment. Easier said than done, I know.

                                  Stars

                                  stars
                                  Participant

                                    Hi Melissa – I can't say whether any particular aches/pains are early cancer, but I do know that with your recent diagnoses you've probably been really stressed and maybe you're starting to feel run down. I think its a kind of adrenal fatigue, where you are stressed for a long time and it really starts to wear you down. On top of that, with any melanoma diagnosis, you get really hyper vigilant to every twingr, cough, ach etc. just hanf in there til the dr appt and you have some anawers. Right now you are in limboland, which is the worst. Try to relax, enjoy things, live the moment. Easier said than done, I know.

                                    Stars

                                    stars
                                    Participant

                                      Hi Melissa – I can't say whether any particular aches/pains are early cancer, but I do know that with your recent diagnoses you've probably been really stressed and maybe you're starting to feel run down. I think its a kind of adrenal fatigue, where you are stressed for a long time and it really starts to wear you down. On top of that, with any melanoma diagnosis, you get really hyper vigilant to every twingr, cough, ach etc. just hanf in there til the dr appt and you have some anawers. Right now you are in limboland, which is the worst. Try to relax, enjoy things, live the moment. Easier said than done, I know.

                                      Stars

                                      Linny
                                      Participant

                                        Glad to hear you are getting a workup done.

                                        What you're experiencing can certainly be stress-related, espcially if you were fine prior to your diagnosis. I would discuss the aches and pains with your doctor and then ask him/her how you can tell the difference between normal aches/pains and a cancer recurrence.

                                        Linny
                                        Participant

                                          Glad to hear you are getting a workup done.

                                          What you're experiencing can certainly be stress-related, espcially if you were fine prior to your diagnosis. I would discuss the aches and pains with your doctor and then ask him/her how you can tell the difference between normal aches/pains and a cancer recurrence.

                                          Linny
                                          Participant

                                            Glad to hear you are getting a workup done.

                                            What you're experiencing can certainly be stress-related, espcially if you were fine prior to your diagnosis. I would discuss the aches and pains with your doctor and then ask him/her how you can tell the difference between normal aches/pains and a cancer recurrence.

                                            Millykamp
                                            Participant

                                              Thank you 

                                               

                                              again I am going to a good doctor, getting the whole works done . But I was just wondering if any of the questions I had ask  can be related to cancer?    Just wanted to see what were some of the people symptoms 

                                              i knwo when my dad had cancer he was always tired and had headache all the time before he seens  the doctor.  But by the time he seen the doctor it was already to late and he was given 6 months to live. 

                                              Millykamp
                                              Participant

                                                Thank you 

                                                 

                                                again I am going to a good doctor, getting the whole works done . But I was just wondering if any of the questions I had ask  can be related to cancer?    Just wanted to see what were some of the people symptoms 

                                                i knwo when my dad had cancer he was always tired and had headache all the time before he seens  the doctor.  But by the time he seen the doctor it was already to late and he was given 6 months to live. 

                                              Momofjake
                                              Participant

                                                Sorry you are here, at the beginning, learning all this stuff in this new world! It's filled with questions and fear. 

                                                Take a deep breath, you are okay today:) Get a good doctor. Start educating yourself. Ask questions here. Here you will hear actual experiences with diagnoses and treatment etc. The experience of people here can be invaluable!! My feeling is the dr sugar coats everything!! The awesome people here just give it straight. They have suffered and still find a way to be happy and help others! 

                                                Now find your calm and strength and start doing your homework:) You will figure it all out. Don't guess or play "what if". Get your doc and your scans and go from there. 

                                                Prayers,

                                                kerri-mom of Jake

                                                 

                                                Momofjake
                                                Participant

                                                  Sorry you are here, at the beginning, learning all this stuff in this new world! It's filled with questions and fear. 

                                                  Take a deep breath, you are okay today:) Get a good doctor. Start educating yourself. Ask questions here. Here you will hear actual experiences with diagnoses and treatment etc. The experience of people here can be invaluable!! My feeling is the dr sugar coats everything!! The awesome people here just give it straight. They have suffered and still find a way to be happy and help others! 

                                                  Now find your calm and strength and start doing your homework:) You will figure it all out. Don't guess or play "what if". Get your doc and your scans and go from there. 

                                                  Prayers,

                                                  kerri-mom of Jake

                                                   

                                                  Linny
                                                  Participant

                                                    Stress could definitely play a role in some of the aches and pains you're experiencing. Something to keep in the back of your mind is that even with a melanoma diagnosis, your body will still go through its normal aches and pains. It's just that with a cancer diagnosis you become hypervigilant overnight. It's like after your house is broken into you become hypervigilant and hear every single little creak and groan and fear it's another robber. In the meantime, it's not a robber and it's just your house doing its normal settling.

                                                    Stress could also play a role in your sleep patterns, which can make you feel tired during the course of the day.

                                                    Don't be embarrassed to ask your doctor for some medication to help you cope with your diagnosis and help you sleep. It doesn't have to be long-term.

                                                    Linny
                                                    Participant

                                                      Stress could definitely play a role in some of the aches and pains you're experiencing. Something to keep in the back of your mind is that even with a melanoma diagnosis, your body will still go through its normal aches and pains. It's just that with a cancer diagnosis you become hypervigilant overnight. It's like after your house is broken into you become hypervigilant and hear every single little creak and groan and fear it's another robber. In the meantime, it's not a robber and it's just your house doing its normal settling.

                                                      Stress could also play a role in your sleep patterns, which can make you feel tired during the course of the day.

                                                      Don't be embarrassed to ask your doctor for some medication to help you cope with your diagnosis and help you sleep. It doesn't have to be long-term.

                                                      Linny
                                                      Participant

                                                        Stress could definitely play a role in some of the aches and pains you're experiencing. Something to keep in the back of your mind is that even with a melanoma diagnosis, your body will still go through its normal aches and pains. It's just that with a cancer diagnosis you become hypervigilant overnight. It's like after your house is broken into you become hypervigilant and hear every single little creak and groan and fear it's another robber. In the meantime, it's not a robber and it's just your house doing its normal settling.

                                                        Stress could also play a role in your sleep patterns, which can make you feel tired during the course of the day.

                                                        Don't be embarrassed to ask your doctor for some medication to help you cope with your diagnosis and help you sleep. It doesn't have to be long-term.

                                                        Janner
                                                        Participant

                                                          My question to you is this:  If you had experienced these aches and pains PRIOR to your diagnosis, would you have gone to a doctor for them?  If not, then they probably have nothing to do with melanoma.  The imagination can get quite creative after you have a diagnosis and trying to keep it in check is difficult.   Not saying ignore them or anything else, but just trying to give you some ideas to keep things in perspective.

                                                          Janner
                                                          Participant

                                                            My question to you is this:  If you had experienced these aches and pains PRIOR to your diagnosis, would you have gone to a doctor for them?  If not, then they probably have nothing to do with melanoma.  The imagination can get quite creative after you have a diagnosis and trying to keep it in check is difficult.   Not saying ignore them or anything else, but just trying to give you some ideas to keep things in perspective.

                                                            Janner
                                                            Participant

                                                              My question to you is this:  If you had experienced these aches and pains PRIOR to your diagnosis, would you have gone to a doctor for them?  If not, then they probably have nothing to do with melanoma.  The imagination can get quite creative after you have a diagnosis and trying to keep it in check is difficult.   Not saying ignore them or anything else, but just trying to give you some ideas to keep things in perspective.

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