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Stage Diagnosing From A Pathology Report From A Biopsy???

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    Alanamaranto22
    Participant
      I was just “diagnosed” with Stage IV Melanoma from a pathology report. I had what I believed to be a small wart on my inner ankle about two years ago. Within the last 6-7 months it grew to a size of 2 1/4″ x 2 1/2″. There was no discoloration but it had the appearance of a mushroom. It was approximately 1/2″ above the skin, almost perfectly round but the edges of the tumor were not attached to my skin but it had an inner stalk similar to a mushroom. My primary examined it and was certain it was a skin cancer but not sure what kind.

      I was just “diagnosed” with Stage IV Melanoma from a pathology report. I had what I believed to be a small wart on my inner ankle about two years ago. Within the last 6-7 months it grew to a size of 2 1/4″ x 2 1/2″. There was no discoloration but it had the appearance of a mushroom. It was approximately 1/2″ above the skin, almost perfectly round but the edges of the tumor were not attached to my skin but it had an inner stalk similar to a mushroom. My primary examined it and was certain it was a skin cancer but not sure what kind. She referred me to a skin specialist who upon immediate examination was dumbfounded by the appearance but concerned with my medical history. I am a 40-year-old female. I was born with benign tumors on my tongue. They would surgically remove them and eventually they would grow back- always benign however. I have had three major back surgeries. I just battled thyroid cancer in March of 2012 and currently cancer free in regards to that, I just have to take Synthroid for the rest of my life. I was diagnosed with fibrocystic disease of the breasts, I have cysts on my kidney, the pineal gland in my brain, my cervix and my sinus cavity.

      Last Monday I returned to my skin doctor to have the stitches removed and receive the biopsy results. It was just myself and my 2-year-old grandson. As soon as he walked in the room I knew it was bad. He was looking down and shaking his head with my file in hand. He told me it is the worst cancer they have seen in years and it looks very bad. I asked if I was going to die and he said, “very likely.” He told me that the pathologist called him immediately upon examining the tumor and surrounding tissue. I asked what it was and he said, “Stage IV Melanoma.” He said the entire sample which was almost 3″ x 3″ was nothing but cancer cells, so it is much deeper than the amount he took.

      He set me up with a team of oncologists at Johns Hopkins University. I was very skeptical on how the doctor could stage me just from a biopsy report. So I asked the doctor from Hopkins how he could stage me from just a pathology report and she told me it was the depth of the cancer cells in the tumor and tissue. Because the entire sample in regards to the size of the tumor removed was nothing but cancer cells they can be fairly accurate to give an appropriate stage.

      I am scheduled June 4th for my first consult with the oncologist at Hopkins. He will review my medical history, the pathology report, what their plan will be and what I can expect. Then they will schedule my first surgery to remove more of the cancerous tissue and re-biopsy it as kind of like a second opinion, just to be sure they are certain of what they’re dealing with. Then from there many more tests, procedures and surgeries will follow.

      Of course, its only been a week since receiving the news and I’m still trying to cope. ompletely devastated and scared. I just don’t understand how they can stage a cancer from a biopsy/pathology report?

      I know I will be in the best of care at Johns Hopkins being its one of the top hospitals in the world dealing with cancer and serious diseases but can they stage melanoma from a pathology report from a biopsy? Its a nodular melanoma.

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        MattF
        Participant

          Well I'm absolutely not a Doctor and there are a lot of people here who probably know a lot more.

          But like you i started learning upon diagnosis.

          To my knowledge I thought they could anly actually stage you I or II from a melanoma pathology report as they have not biopsied any regional lymph nodes for stage III or had any scans for distant organs stage IV.

          Now I will say they could assume by size that it is going to be the worst.

          Did you get a copy of the pathology report…there should be a place on there where it states Clinical Stage: etc etc etc.

          MattF
          Participant

            Well I'm absolutely not a Doctor and there are a lot of people here who probably know a lot more.

            But like you i started learning upon diagnosis.

            To my knowledge I thought they could anly actually stage you I or II from a melanoma pathology report as they have not biopsied any regional lymph nodes for stage III or had any scans for distant organs stage IV.

            Now I will say they could assume by size that it is going to be the worst.

            Did you get a copy of the pathology report…there should be a place on there where it states Clinical Stage: etc etc etc.

              Alanamaranto22
              Participant
                No I plan on getting a copy on Tuesday. I really don’t think a doctor can accurately staged from a biopsy alone. I tried to question this and the doctor agreed but stated all the factors are poor (the thickness is over 8mm, the mitotic rate was extremely high and its ulcerated). Even with all the factors working against me, I still don’t see how he could give it a stage rating. It could just be bad in my foot. Without a PET and/or CT Scan and a lymph node biopsy there is no 100% certainty that it has spread beyond my foot. They did say because of the location of the tumor/melanoma being on my inner ankle with thin skin the surgery is going to be a very invasive. I’m hoping that doesn’t mean they’ll be taking my entire foot. But I guess if its my foot or my life- the foot is gone. I just don’t believe they can accurately stage a melanoma from just a biopsy.

                My only concern is the symptoms of metastasized stage 4 melanoma are exactly what I have. However, my Synthroid medication or if my thyroid hormone level is off some of the symptoms are the same. I have extreme bouts with fatigue, severe memory problems, dizziness and constant lightheaded, severe headaches, difficulty swallowing and my vision is getting worse. So now I’m worried if thats related to my TSH level is off or melanoma. I’m not going to find peace until I find out for certainty and that is approximately a week and a half away.

                One other question, when they do my foot surgery will they also do the tests to find out if it has spread? Sorry but I’m just an emotional wreck right now.

                Thank you for responding so quickly.

                casagrayson
                Participant

                  "My only concern is the symptoms of metastasized stage 4 melanoma are exactly what I have. However, my Synthroid medication or if my thyroid hormone level is off some of the symptoms are the same. I have extreme bouts with fatigue, severe memory problems, dizziness and constant lightheaded, severe headaches, difficulty swallowing and my vision is getting worse."

                   

                  Just out of curiosity, where did you find these listed as symptoms of stage 4 melanoma?  I only ask because my husand has been dealing with these very same issues … and the doctors are puzzled (he hasn't had any imaging studies).

                  casagrayson
                  Participant

                    "My only concern is the symptoms of metastasized stage 4 melanoma are exactly what I have. However, my Synthroid medication or if my thyroid hormone level is off some of the symptoms are the same. I have extreme bouts with fatigue, severe memory problems, dizziness and constant lightheaded, severe headaches, difficulty swallowing and my vision is getting worse."

                     

                    Just out of curiosity, where did you find these listed as symptoms of stage 4 melanoma?  I only ask because my husand has been dealing with these very same issues … and the doctors are puzzled (he hasn't had any imaging studies).

                    casagrayson
                    Participant

                      "My only concern is the symptoms of metastasized stage 4 melanoma are exactly what I have. However, my Synthroid medication or if my thyroid hormone level is off some of the symptoms are the same. I have extreme bouts with fatigue, severe memory problems, dizziness and constant lightheaded, severe headaches, difficulty swallowing and my vision is getting worse."

                       

                      Just out of curiosity, where did you find these listed as symptoms of stage 4 melanoma?  I only ask because my husand has been dealing with these very same issues … and the doctors are puzzled (he hasn't had any imaging studies).

                      Alanamaranto22
                      Participant
                        No I plan on getting a copy on Tuesday. I really don’t think a doctor can accurately staged from a biopsy alone. I tried to question this and the doctor agreed but stated all the factors are poor (the thickness is over 8mm, the mitotic rate was extremely high and its ulcerated). Even with all the factors working against me, I still don’t see how he could give it a stage rating. It could just be bad in my foot. Without a PET and/or CT Scan and a lymph node biopsy there is no 100% certainty that it has spread beyond my foot. They did say because of the location of the tumor/melanoma being on my inner ankle with thin skin the surgery is going to be a very invasive. I’m hoping that doesn’t mean they’ll be taking my entire foot. But I guess if its my foot or my life- the foot is gone. I just don’t believe they can accurately stage a melanoma from just a biopsy.

                        My only concern is the symptoms of metastasized stage 4 melanoma are exactly what I have. However, my Synthroid medication or if my thyroid hormone level is off some of the symptoms are the same. I have extreme bouts with fatigue, severe memory problems, dizziness and constant lightheaded, severe headaches, difficulty swallowing and my vision is getting worse. So now I’m worried if thats related to my TSH level is off or melanoma. I’m not going to find peace until I find out for certainty and that is approximately a week and a half away.

                        One other question, when they do my foot surgery will they also do the tests to find out if it has spread? Sorry but I’m just an emotional wreck right now.

                        Thank you for responding so quickly.

                        Alanamaranto22
                        Participant
                          No I plan on getting a copy on Tuesday. I really don’t think a doctor can accurately staged from a biopsy alone. I tried to question this and the doctor agreed but stated all the factors are poor (the thickness is over 8mm, the mitotic rate was extremely high and its ulcerated). Even with all the factors working against me, I still don’t see how he could give it a stage rating. It could just be bad in my foot. Without a PET and/or CT Scan and a lymph node biopsy there is no 100% certainty that it has spread beyond my foot. They did say because of the location of the tumor/melanoma being on my inner ankle with thin skin the surgery is going to be a very invasive. I’m hoping that doesn’t mean they’ll be taking my entire foot. But I guess if its my foot or my life- the foot is gone. I just don’t believe they can accurately stage a melanoma from just a biopsy.

                          My only concern is the symptoms of metastasized stage 4 melanoma are exactly what I have. However, my Synthroid medication or if my thyroid hormone level is off some of the symptoms are the same. I have extreme bouts with fatigue, severe memory problems, dizziness and constant lightheaded, severe headaches, difficulty swallowing and my vision is getting worse. So now I’m worried if thats related to my TSH level is off or melanoma. I’m not going to find peace until I find out for certainty and that is approximately a week and a half away.

                          One other question, when they do my foot surgery will they also do the tests to find out if it has spread? Sorry but I’m just an emotional wreck right now.

                          Thank you for responding so quickly.

                          Alanamaranto22
                          Participant
                            No I plan on getting a copy on Tuesday. I really don’t think a doctor can accurately staged from a biopsy alone. I tried to question this and the doctor agreed but stated all the factors are poor (the thickness is over 8mm, the mitotic rate was extremely high and its ulcerated). Even with all the factors working against me, I still don’t see how he could give it a stage rating. It could just be bad in my foot. Without a PET and/or CT Scan and a lymph node biopsy there is no 100% certainty that it has spread beyond my foot. They did say because of the location of the tumor/melanoma being on my inner ankle with thin skin the surgery is going to be a very invasive. I’m hoping that doesn’t mean they’ll be taking my entire foot. But I guess if its my foot or my life- the foot is gone. I just don’t believe they can accurately stage a melanoma from just a biopsy.

                            My only concern is the symptoms of metastasized stage 4 melanoma are exactly what I have. However, my Synthroid medication or if my thyroid hormone level is off some of the symptoms are the same. I have extreme bouts with fatigue, severe memory problems, dizziness and constant lightheaded, severe headaches, difficulty swallowing and my vision is getting worse. So now I’m worried if thats related to my TSH level is off or melanoma. I’m not going to find peace until I find out for certainty and that is approximately a week and a half away.

                            One other question, when they do my foot surgery will they also do the tests to find out if it has spread? Sorry but I’m just an emotional wreck right now.

                            Thank you for responding so quickly.

                            Alanamaranto22
                            Participant
                              No I plan on getting a copy on Tuesday. I really don’t think a doctor can accurately staged from a biopsy alone. I tried to question this and the doctor agreed but stated all the factors are poor (the thickness is over 8mm, the mitotic rate was extremely high and its ulcerated). Even with all the factors working against me, I still don’t see how he could give it a stage rating. It could just be bad in my foot. Without a PET and/or CT Scan and a lymph node biopsy there is no 100% certainty that it has spread beyond my foot. They did say because of the location of the tumor/melanoma being on my inner ankle with thin skin the surgery is going to be a very invasive. I’m hoping that doesn’t mean they’ll be taking my entire foot. But I guess if its my foot or my life- the foot is gone. I just don’t believe they can accurately stage a melanoma from just a biopsy.

                              My only concern is the symptoms of metastasized stage 4 melanoma are exactly what I have. However, my Synthroid medication or if my thyroid hormone level is off some of the symptoms are the same. I have extreme bouts with fatigue, severe memory problems, dizziness and constant lightheaded, severe headaches, difficulty swallowing and my vision is getting worse. So now I’m worried if thats related to my TSH level is off or melanoma. I’m not going to find peace until I find out for certainty and that is approximately a week and a half away.

                              One other question, when they do my foot surgery will they also do the tests to find out if it has spread? Sorry but I’m just an emotional wreck right now.

                              Thank you for responding so quickly.

                              Alanamaranto22
                              Participant
                                No I plan on getting a copy on Tuesday. I really don’t think a doctor can accurately staged from a biopsy alone. I tried to question this and the doctor agreed but stated all the factors are poor (the thickness is over 8mm, the mitotic rate was extremely high and its ulcerated). Even with all the factors working against me, I still don’t see how he could give it a stage rating. It could just be bad in my foot. Without a PET and/or CT Scan and a lymph node biopsy there is no 100% certainty that it has spread beyond my foot. They did say because of the location of the tumor/melanoma being on my inner ankle with thin skin the surgery is going to be a very invasive. I’m hoping that doesn’t mean they’ll be taking my entire foot. But I guess if its my foot or my life- the foot is gone. I just don’t believe they can accurately stage a melanoma from just a biopsy.

                                My only concern is the symptoms of metastasized stage 4 melanoma are exactly what I have. However, my Synthroid medication or if my thyroid hormone level is off some of the symptoms are the same. I have extreme bouts with fatigue, severe memory problems, dizziness and constant lightheaded, severe headaches, difficulty swallowing and my vision is getting worse. So now I’m worried if thats related to my TSH level is off or melanoma. I’m not going to find peace until I find out for certainty and that is approximately a week and a half away.

                                One other question, when they do my foot surgery will they also do the tests to find out if it has spread? Sorry but I’m just an emotional wreck right now.

                                Thank you for responding so quickly.

                              MattF
                              Participant

                                Well I'm absolutely not a Doctor and there are a lot of people here who probably know a lot more.

                                But like you i started learning upon diagnosis.

                                To my knowledge I thought they could anly actually stage you I or II from a melanoma pathology report as they have not biopsied any regional lymph nodes for stage III or had any scans for distant organs stage IV.

                                Now I will say they could assume by size that it is going to be the worst.

                                Did you get a copy of the pathology report…there should be a place on there where it states Clinical Stage: etc etc etc.

                                Harry in Fair Oaks
                                Participant

                                  You cannot be diagnosed Stage IV unless there is confirmed metastasis to distant organs.   If you have not had any CT/MRI scans yet, there is no reason for such a diagnosis.   Are you confusing this with LEVEL 4? (a completely different issue).  Are you sure about the dimensions of your tumor?  Perhaps you are confusing inches with milimeters?  3 inches seems a huge depth to biopsy – a major surgery, not a simple skin biopsy.  It's good your dermatologist set you up with an oncologist at Hopkins.  It was stupid of your Dr. to say you are "very likely" to die from this.  Get rid of him, the sooner the better.

                                  Best wishes,

                                  Harry

                                  Harry in Fair Oaks
                                  Participant

                                    You cannot be diagnosed Stage IV unless there is confirmed metastasis to distant organs.   If you have not had any CT/MRI scans yet, there is no reason for such a diagnosis.   Are you confusing this with LEVEL 4? (a completely different issue).  Are you sure about the dimensions of your tumor?  Perhaps you are confusing inches with milimeters?  3 inches seems a huge depth to biopsy – a major surgery, not a simple skin biopsy.  It's good your dermatologist set you up with an oncologist at Hopkins.  It was stupid of your Dr. to say you are "very likely" to die from this.  Get rid of him, the sooner the better.

                                    Best wishes,

                                    Harry

                                    Harry in Fair Oaks
                                    Participant

                                      You cannot be diagnosed Stage IV unless there is confirmed metastasis to distant organs.   If you have not had any CT/MRI scans yet, there is no reason for such a diagnosis.   Are you confusing this with LEVEL 4? (a completely different issue).  Are you sure about the dimensions of your tumor?  Perhaps you are confusing inches with milimeters?  3 inches seems a huge depth to biopsy – a major surgery, not a simple skin biopsy.  It's good your dermatologist set you up with an oncologist at Hopkins.  It was stupid of your Dr. to say you are "very likely" to die from this.  Get rid of him, the sooner the better.

                                      Best wishes,

                                      Harry

                                        Alanamaranto22
                                        Participant
                                          No, it is inches. That’s why he was so shocked when he first examined it. He said he never seen one that size. He measured and photographed it. He took the tumor that was above the skin surface in addition to tissue literally to the bone. I’m including the tumors height above the skin with the entire depth. That’s the reason he kept saying, “It’s extremely bad” and “the worst he’s seen in years.” Oh, believe me, my husband really laid into him. I receive this horrible news and I have to drive myself and my grandson home.

                                          I am no longer dealing with him now. I’m set up with a team of oncologists at Hopkins but it still scares me only because I just battled cancer and I waited two years before having this checked (which is another thing he was so rude about).

                                          Alanamaranto22
                                          Participant
                                            No, it is inches. That’s why he was so shocked when he first examined it. He said he never seen one that size. He measured and photographed it. He took the tumor that was above the skin surface in addition to tissue literally to the bone. I’m including the tumors height above the skin with the entire depth. That’s the reason he kept saying, “It’s extremely bad” and “the worst he’s seen in years.” Oh, believe me, my husband really laid into him. I receive this horrible news and I have to drive myself and my grandson home.

                                            I am no longer dealing with him now. I’m set up with a team of oncologists at Hopkins but it still scares me only because I just battled cancer and I waited two years before having this checked (which is another thing he was so rude about).

                                            Alanamaranto22
                                            Participant
                                              No, it is inches. That’s why he was so shocked when he first examined it. He said he never seen one that size. He measured and photographed it. He took the tumor that was above the skin surface in addition to tissue literally to the bone. I’m including the tumors height above the skin with the entire depth. That’s the reason he kept saying, “It’s extremely bad” and “the worst he’s seen in years.” Oh, believe me, my husband really laid into him. I receive this horrible news and I have to drive myself and my grandson home.

                                              I am no longer dealing with him now. I’m set up with a team of oncologists at Hopkins but it still scares me only because I just battled cancer and I waited two years before having this checked (which is another thing he was so rude about).

                                              Alanamaranto22
                                              Participant
                                                No, it is inches. That’s why he was so shocked when he first examined it. He said he never seen one that size. He measured and photographed it. He took the tumor that was above the skin surface in addition to tissue literally to the bone. I’m including the tumors height above the skin with the entire depth. That’s the reason he kept saying, “It’s extremely bad” and “the worst he’s seen in years.” Oh, believe me, my husband really laid into him. I receive this horrible news and I have to drive myself and my grandson home.

                                                I am no longer dealing with him now. I’m set up with a team of oncologists at Hopkins but it still scares me only because I just battled cancer and I waited two years before having this checked (which is another thing he was so rude about).

                                                Alanamaranto22
                                                Participant
                                                  No, it is inches. That’s why he was so shocked when he first examined it. He said he never seen one that size. He measured and photographed it. He took the tumor that was above the skin surface in addition to tissue literally to the bone. I’m including the tumors height above the skin with the entire depth. That’s the reason he kept saying, “It’s extremely bad” and “the worst he’s seen in years.” Oh, believe me, my husband really laid into him. I receive this horrible news and I have to drive myself and my grandson home.

                                                  I am no longer dealing with him now. I’m set up with a team of oncologists at Hopkins but it still scares me only because I just battled cancer and I waited two years before having this checked (which is another thing he was so rude about).

                                                  Alanamaranto22
                                                  Participant
                                                    No, it is inches. That’s why he was so shocked when he first examined it. He said he never seen one that size. He measured and photographed it. He took the tumor that was above the skin surface in addition to tissue literally to the bone. I’m including the tumors height above the skin with the entire depth. That’s the reason he kept saying, “It’s extremely bad” and “the worst he’s seen in years.” Oh, believe me, my husband really laid into him. I receive this horrible news and I have to drive myself and my grandson home.

                                                    I am no longer dealing with him now. I’m set up with a team of oncologists at Hopkins but it still scares me only because I just battled cancer and I waited two years before having this checked (which is another thing he was so rude about).

                                                    Alanamaranto22
                                                    Participant
                                                      No, it is inches. That’s why he was so shocked when he first examined it. He said he never seen one that size. He measured and photographed it. He took the tumor that was above the skin surface in addition to tissue literally to the bone. I’m including the tumors height above the skin with the entire depth. That’s the reason he kept saying, “It’s extremely bad” and “the worst he’s seen in years.” Oh, believe me, my husband really laid into him. I receive this horrible news and I have to drive myself and my grandson home.

                                                      I am no longer dealing with him now. I’m set up with a team of oncologists at Hopkins but it still scares me only because I just battled cancer and I waited two years before having this checked (which is another thing he was so rude about).

                                                      Alanamaranto22
                                                      Participant
                                                        No, it is inches. That’s why he was so shocked when he first examined it. He said he never seen one that size. He measured and photographed it. He took the tumor that was above the skin surface in addition to tissue literally to the bone. I’m including the tumors height above the skin with the entire depth. That’s the reason he kept saying, “It’s extremely bad” and “the worst he’s seen in years.” Oh, believe me, my husband really laid into him. I receive this horrible news and I have to drive myself and my grandson home.

                                                        I am no longer dealing with him now. I’m set up with a team of oncologists at Hopkins but it still scares me only because I just battled cancer and I waited two years before having this checked (which is another thing he was so rude about).

                                                        Alanamaranto22
                                                        Participant
                                                          No, it is inches. That’s why he was so shocked when he first examined it. He said he never seen one that size. He measured and photographed it. He took the tumor that was above the skin surface in addition to tissue literally to the bone. I’m including the tumors height above the skin with the entire depth. That’s the reason he kept saying, “It’s extremely bad” and “the worst he’s seen in years.” Oh, believe me, my husband really laid into him. I receive this horrible news and I have to drive myself and my grandson home.

                                                          I am no longer dealing with him now. I’m set up with a team of oncologists at Hopkins but it still scares me only because I just battled cancer and I waited two years before having this checked (which is another thing he was so rude about).

                                                          Alanamaranto22
                                                          Participant
                                                            Sorry for the multiple responses. I’m using my cell phone. My apologies.
                                                            Alanamaranto22
                                                            Participant
                                                              Sorry for the multiple responses. I’m using my cell phone. My apologies.
                                                              Alanamaranto22
                                                              Participant
                                                                Sorry for the multiple responses. I’m using my cell phone. My apologies.
                                                              POW
                                                              Participant

                                                                You (and Harry from Fair Oaks) are correct– in order to be diagnosed with Stage IV melanoma you have to have some type of imaging study that reveals tumors in areas other than your foot or its associated lymph nodes. For various reasons, MRIs are usually used for the brain, CT scans for your head/neck/trunk, and PET scans for your limbs. Since your doctor scared you so badly (with or without reason), why don't you get at least a CT scan in your home town right now? Then you can bring those scan results (a CD containing the images plus the written report) with you to Johns Hopkins. 

                                                                As for the foot surgery, you might want to think about that before agreeing. It sounds like the foot surgery will be major and might require a skin graft, bandages, a long recovery where it will be difficult for you to walk, and perhaps some physical therapy. Meanwhile, if you really are Stage IV with mets in your organs, what would be the point of only removing the tumor on your foot? You would still need some type of treatment, probably some systemic treatment, for those tumors. If the systemic treatment works, I suspect that it will take care of the foot tumor as well as the internal tumors. 

                                                                So you might want to wait until you get your imaging results before deciding whether or not to have the foot surgery. That's another good reason to get a CT scan now rather than waiting until you get to JH. The scan results will help you decide about the foot. 

                                                                The other thing you might do ASAP is get your biopsy tissue analyzed for the BRAF and c-KIT mutations. That can take a couple of weeks and the results may be important for your future treatment decisions. 

                                                                POW
                                                                Participant

                                                                  You (and Harry from Fair Oaks) are correct– in order to be diagnosed with Stage IV melanoma you have to have some type of imaging study that reveals tumors in areas other than your foot or its associated lymph nodes. For various reasons, MRIs are usually used for the brain, CT scans for your head/neck/trunk, and PET scans for your limbs. Since your doctor scared you so badly (with or without reason), why don't you get at least a CT scan in your home town right now? Then you can bring those scan results (a CD containing the images plus the written report) with you to Johns Hopkins. 

                                                                  As for the foot surgery, you might want to think about that before agreeing. It sounds like the foot surgery will be major and might require a skin graft, bandages, a long recovery where it will be difficult for you to walk, and perhaps some physical therapy. Meanwhile, if you really are Stage IV with mets in your organs, what would be the point of only removing the tumor on your foot? You would still need some type of treatment, probably some systemic treatment, for those tumors. If the systemic treatment works, I suspect that it will take care of the foot tumor as well as the internal tumors. 

                                                                  So you might want to wait until you get your imaging results before deciding whether or not to have the foot surgery. That's another good reason to get a CT scan now rather than waiting until you get to JH. The scan results will help you decide about the foot. 

                                                                  The other thing you might do ASAP is get your biopsy tissue analyzed for the BRAF and c-KIT mutations. That can take a couple of weeks and the results may be important for your future treatment decisions. 

                                                                  POW
                                                                  Participant

                                                                    You (and Harry from Fair Oaks) are correct– in order to be diagnosed with Stage IV melanoma you have to have some type of imaging study that reveals tumors in areas other than your foot or its associated lymph nodes. For various reasons, MRIs are usually used for the brain, CT scans for your head/neck/trunk, and PET scans for your limbs. Since your doctor scared you so badly (with or without reason), why don't you get at least a CT scan in your home town right now? Then you can bring those scan results (a CD containing the images plus the written report) with you to Johns Hopkins. 

                                                                    As for the foot surgery, you might want to think about that before agreeing. It sounds like the foot surgery will be major and might require a skin graft, bandages, a long recovery where it will be difficult for you to walk, and perhaps some physical therapy. Meanwhile, if you really are Stage IV with mets in your organs, what would be the point of only removing the tumor on your foot? You would still need some type of treatment, probably some systemic treatment, for those tumors. If the systemic treatment works, I suspect that it will take care of the foot tumor as well as the internal tumors. 

                                                                    So you might want to wait until you get your imaging results before deciding whether or not to have the foot surgery. That's another good reason to get a CT scan now rather than waiting until you get to JH. The scan results will help you decide about the foot. 

                                                                    The other thing you might do ASAP is get your biopsy tissue analyzed for the BRAF and c-KIT mutations. That can take a couple of weeks and the results may be important for your future treatment decisions. 

                                                                    hbecker
                                                                    Participant

                                                                      Hi Alana, so sorry you've had to join us here. You'll usually find knowledgeable people here who are willing to share their expertise and help you cope as best they can. It may take a day or two to get responses from the people with the most knowledge. (One of them is POW, who has already responded.)

                                                                      I have some somewhat contrary advice about the scans. My husband has had them done here in DC at two different hospitals as well as at Hopkins. In my opinion Hopkins is the best – and even if you have to wait a week, I think it's worth the wait. If you have the scans done locally this week, they won't want to repeat them at Hopkins next week. But perhaps if you call the oncologist's office at Hopkins they will be able to schedule you to have scans done June 4. I know it's not that far to Baltimore, but you will want to have them done as quickly as possible so they can figure out what you're dealing with.

                                                                      My husband was also diagnosed Stage 4 in the pathology report, but now the two oncologists we have consulted at Hopkins  (Dr. Sharfman and Dr. Lipson, both melanoma specialists) have staged him at 2B. Sometimes the pathologist doesn't get it right, so you are not off base to question. However, the depth of the lesion makes it high risk, particularly coupled with the high mitotic rate. My guess is that they will want to remove more tissue to try to get clear margins, and perhaps also do a sentinel node biopsy – though I'm not sure how the position on your ankle affects any of this.

                                                                      So – my advice is, hang on for now. Do what you can to deal with your anxiety – do you practice yoga or another discipline like it? Tough it out until you are able to get more accurate information and meet with the experts who can help you figure out what's going on.

                                                                      Feel free to be in touch with me by using the Contact tab on my profile page if you want to communicate off-list.

                                                                      Good luck!

                                                                      Hazel

                                                                      hbecker
                                                                      Participant

                                                                        Hi Alana, so sorry you've had to join us here. You'll usually find knowledgeable people here who are willing to share their expertise and help you cope as best they can. It may take a day or two to get responses from the people with the most knowledge. (One of them is POW, who has already responded.)

                                                                        I have some somewhat contrary advice about the scans. My husband has had them done here in DC at two different hospitals as well as at Hopkins. In my opinion Hopkins is the best – and even if you have to wait a week, I think it's worth the wait. If you have the scans done locally this week, they won't want to repeat them at Hopkins next week. But perhaps if you call the oncologist's office at Hopkins they will be able to schedule you to have scans done June 4. I know it's not that far to Baltimore, but you will want to have them done as quickly as possible so they can figure out what you're dealing with.

                                                                        My husband was also diagnosed Stage 4 in the pathology report, but now the two oncologists we have consulted at Hopkins  (Dr. Sharfman and Dr. Lipson, both melanoma specialists) have staged him at 2B. Sometimes the pathologist doesn't get it right, so you are not off base to question. However, the depth of the lesion makes it high risk, particularly coupled with the high mitotic rate. My guess is that they will want to remove more tissue to try to get clear margins, and perhaps also do a sentinel node biopsy – though I'm not sure how the position on your ankle affects any of this.

                                                                        So – my advice is, hang on for now. Do what you can to deal with your anxiety – do you practice yoga or another discipline like it? Tough it out until you are able to get more accurate information and meet with the experts who can help you figure out what's going on.

                                                                        Feel free to be in touch with me by using the Contact tab on my profile page if you want to communicate off-list.

                                                                        Good luck!

                                                                        Hazel

                                                                        hbecker
                                                                        Participant

                                                                          Hi Alana, so sorry you've had to join us here. You'll usually find knowledgeable people here who are willing to share their expertise and help you cope as best they can. It may take a day or two to get responses from the people with the most knowledge. (One of them is POW, who has already responded.)

                                                                          I have some somewhat contrary advice about the scans. My husband has had them done here in DC at two different hospitals as well as at Hopkins. In my opinion Hopkins is the best – and even if you have to wait a week, I think it's worth the wait. If you have the scans done locally this week, they won't want to repeat them at Hopkins next week. But perhaps if you call the oncologist's office at Hopkins they will be able to schedule you to have scans done June 4. I know it's not that far to Baltimore, but you will want to have them done as quickly as possible so they can figure out what you're dealing with.

                                                                          My husband was also diagnosed Stage 4 in the pathology report, but now the two oncologists we have consulted at Hopkins  (Dr. Sharfman and Dr. Lipson, both melanoma specialists) have staged him at 2B. Sometimes the pathologist doesn't get it right, so you are not off base to question. However, the depth of the lesion makes it high risk, particularly coupled with the high mitotic rate. My guess is that they will want to remove more tissue to try to get clear margins, and perhaps also do a sentinel node biopsy – though I'm not sure how the position on your ankle affects any of this.

                                                                          So – my advice is, hang on for now. Do what you can to deal with your anxiety – do you practice yoga or another discipline like it? Tough it out until you are able to get more accurate information and meet with the experts who can help you figure out what's going on.

                                                                          Feel free to be in touch with me by using the Contact tab on my profile page if you want to communicate off-list.

                                                                          Good luck!

                                                                          Hazel

                                                                          Charlie S
                                                                          Participant

                                                                            This doctor took what I call a SWAG——Scientific Wild Ass Guess.  You are correct, a pathology report of the type you received is not alone scientific evidence of Stage IV Melanoma.

                                                                            Here is a link to AJCC Clinical Guidelines for Melanoma Staging.  http://www.cancerstaging.org/staging/posters/melanoma12x15.pdf

                                                                            As you can see in the chart, there are three seperate criteria that must ALL be present  for Stage IV patient pathologic staging—-AnyT, AnyN,M1,,  At present you do not meet all the scientifically documented criteria, so yes, your Doctor was wrong.

                                                                            What would have been a more appropriate statement is due to the size and depth of the removed lesion that still presents with involved surgical margins, it is worrisome for metastisis and requires a full radiological workup of CT/PET and Brain MRI scans with and without contrast, a full blood workup and a surgical consult.

                                                                            As far as his death comment, though I don't have his name, I was able to get his photo so that other people may avoid him

                                                                            http://www.wayodd.com/head-up-your-ass/v/4735/

                                                                            Unfortunately, this board is littered with stories of doctors like this, but the important thing for you now is to simply accept you got a rotten apple, move forward and work the problem as it is scientifically presented to you with clear evidence and a treatment plan for you to evaluate.

                                                                            To close, I have been Stage IV since 1996 with seven recurrences and I look pretty good for a dead guy.

                                                                            Hang in there.  You should be in pretty good hands at Hopkins.

                                                                            Cheers,

                                                                            Charlie S

                                                                            Charlie S
                                                                            Participant

                                                                              This doctor took what I call a SWAG——Scientific Wild Ass Guess.  You are correct, a pathology report of the type you received is not alone scientific evidence of Stage IV Melanoma.

                                                                              Here is a link to AJCC Clinical Guidelines for Melanoma Staging.  http://www.cancerstaging.org/staging/posters/melanoma12x15.pdf

                                                                              As you can see in the chart, there are three seperate criteria that must ALL be present  for Stage IV patient pathologic staging—-AnyT, AnyN,M1,,  At present you do not meet all the scientifically documented criteria, so yes, your Doctor was wrong.

                                                                              What would have been a more appropriate statement is due to the size and depth of the removed lesion that still presents with involved surgical margins, it is worrisome for metastisis and requires a full radiological workup of CT/PET and Brain MRI scans with and without contrast, a full blood workup and a surgical consult.

                                                                              As far as his death comment, though I don't have his name, I was able to get his photo so that other people may avoid him

                                                                              http://www.wayodd.com/head-up-your-ass/v/4735/

                                                                              Unfortunately, this board is littered with stories of doctors like this, but the important thing for you now is to simply accept you got a rotten apple, move forward and work the problem as it is scientifically presented to you with clear evidence and a treatment plan for you to evaluate.

                                                                              To close, I have been Stage IV since 1996 with seven recurrences and I look pretty good for a dead guy.

                                                                              Hang in there.  You should be in pretty good hands at Hopkins.

                                                                              Cheers,

                                                                              Charlie S

                                                                                Alanamaranto22
                                                                                Participant
                                                                                  The skin specialist is Dr. Orsini in Easton, Maryland. The doctor I have listed is the Oncologist who he has me set up with. Dr. Orsini is the one who gave me the Stage IV diagnosis and told me its very likely I’m going to die.

                                                                                  Just want to make sure you’re warning about the correct doctor.

                                                                                  Alanamaranto22
                                                                                  Participant
                                                                                    The skin specialist is Dr. Orsini in Easton, Maryland. The doctor I have listed is the Oncologist who he has me set up with. Dr. Orsini is the one who gave me the Stage IV diagnosis and told me its very likely I’m going to die.

                                                                                    Just want to make sure you’re warning about the correct doctor.

                                                                                    Alanamaranto22
                                                                                    Participant
                                                                                      The skin specialist is Dr. Orsini in Easton, Maryland. The doctor I have listed is the Oncologist who he has me set up with. Dr. Orsini is the one who gave me the Stage IV diagnosis and told me its very likely I’m going to die.

                                                                                      Just want to make sure you’re warning about the correct doctor.

                                                                                      Alanamaranto22
                                                                                      Participant
                                                                                        Nevermind…lol. I just viewed the picture. That is the first time I’ve laughed in a week. Thank you! 🙂
                                                                                        Alanamaranto22
                                                                                        Participant
                                                                                          Nevermind…lol. I just viewed the picture. That is the first time I’ve laughed in a week. Thank you! 🙂
                                                                                          Alanamaranto22
                                                                                          Participant
                                                                                            Nevermind…lol. I just viewed the picture. That is the first time I’ve laughed in a week. Thank you! 🙂
                                                                                          Charlie S
                                                                                          Participant

                                                                                            This doctor took what I call a SWAG——Scientific Wild Ass Guess.  You are correct, a pathology report of the type you received is not alone scientific evidence of Stage IV Melanoma.

                                                                                            Here is a link to AJCC Clinical Guidelines for Melanoma Staging.  http://www.cancerstaging.org/staging/posters/melanoma12x15.pdf

                                                                                            As you can see in the chart, there are three seperate criteria that must ALL be present  for Stage IV patient pathologic staging—-AnyT, AnyN,M1,,  At present you do not meet all the scientifically documented criteria, so yes, your Doctor was wrong.

                                                                                            What would have been a more appropriate statement is due to the size and depth of the removed lesion that still presents with involved surgical margins, it is worrisome for metastisis and requires a full radiological workup of CT/PET and Brain MRI scans with and without contrast, a full blood workup and a surgical consult.

                                                                                            As far as his death comment, though I don't have his name, I was able to get his photo so that other people may avoid him

                                                                                            http://www.wayodd.com/head-up-your-ass/v/4735/

                                                                                            Unfortunately, this board is littered with stories of doctors like this, but the important thing for you now is to simply accept you got a rotten apple, move forward and work the problem as it is scientifically presented to you with clear evidence and a treatment plan for you to evaluate.

                                                                                            To close, I have been Stage IV since 1996 with seven recurrences and I look pretty good for a dead guy.

                                                                                            Hang in there.  You should be in pretty good hands at Hopkins.

                                                                                            Cheers,

                                                                                            Charlie S

                                                                                            Janner
                                                                                            Participant

                                                                                              Depth and width alone does not mean stage IV.  I know several with lesions over 8mm deep who are not stage IV.  Take this one step at a time.  Get the path report, get the scans and THEN you will know what you are dealing with.  Charlie's right, the SWAG was not appropriate and you need to get real documentation on all aspects so you really know where you stand.

                                                                                              Janner

                                                                                              Janner
                                                                                              Participant

                                                                                                Depth and width alone does not mean stage IV.  I know several with lesions over 8mm deep who are not stage IV.  Take this one step at a time.  Get the path report, get the scans and THEN you will know what you are dealing with.  Charlie's right, the SWAG was not appropriate and you need to get real documentation on all aspects so you really know where you stand.

                                                                                                Janner

                                                                                                  NYKaren
                                                                                                  Participant
                                                                                                    Sorry to meet you this way..but this is a good place for support and guidance. Kudos to you for keeping it together enough to get home safely with your grand baby in tow! That doctor is a jerk, unfortunately there are many others out there just like him.
                                                                                                    Please keep us posted, take it one day at a time, and don’t read anything on the Internet posted before 2012. There have been great advances in the treatment of melanoma in a few short years, and new treatments are becoming available rapidly.
                                                                                                    karen
                                                                                                    NYKaren
                                                                                                    Participant
                                                                                                      Sorry to meet you this way..but this is a good place for support and guidance. Kudos to you for keeping it together enough to get home safely with your grand baby in tow! That doctor is a jerk, unfortunately there are many others out there just like him.
                                                                                                      Please keep us posted, take it one day at a time, and don’t read anything on the Internet posted before 2012. There have been great advances in the treatment of melanoma in a few short years, and new treatments are becoming available rapidly.
                                                                                                      karen
                                                                                                      NYKaren
                                                                                                      Participant
                                                                                                        Sorry to meet you this way..but this is a good place for support and guidance. Kudos to you for keeping it together enough to get home safely with your grand baby in tow! That doctor is a jerk, unfortunately there are many others out there just like him.
                                                                                                        Please keep us posted, take it one day at a time, and don’t read anything on the Internet posted before 2012. There have been great advances in the treatment of melanoma in a few short years, and new treatments are becoming available rapidly.
                                                                                                        karen
                                                                                                      Janner
                                                                                                      Participant

                                                                                                        Depth and width alone does not mean stage IV.  I know several with lesions over 8mm deep who are not stage IV.  Take this one step at a time.  Get the path report, get the scans and THEN you will know what you are dealing with.  Charlie's right, the SWAG was not appropriate and you need to get real documentation on all aspects so you really know where you stand.

                                                                                                        Janner

                                                                                                        palmspringswalt
                                                                                                        Participant

                                                                                                          I'm sorry to read about your path report and the experience with your oncologist.  I certainly would

                                                                                                          find another immediately.

                                                                                                          I also had nodular melanoma which came as a big surprise.  As you are doing you need to see medical and surgical oncologists at a major melanoma center.  It's a personal decision but you might also consider a second opinion since you will have some difficult choices ahead.  My melanoma had spread to many lymph nodes (as shown by a PET scan and biopsy) so I elected not to have additional surgery beyond the original biopsy.  Instead I elected for systemic treatment and joined the Merck Phase I PD1 clinical trial and have been a responder.  The quality of my life has been good.  There are many melanoma clinical trails available.

                                                                                                          As you learn more about your own situtation (rather than guessing) there is a lot of information on this board.  I wish you the best.

                                                                                                           

                                                                                                          palmspringswalt
                                                                                                          Participant

                                                                                                            I'm sorry to read about your path report and the experience with your oncologist.  I certainly would

                                                                                                            find another immediately.

                                                                                                            I also had nodular melanoma which came as a big surprise.  As you are doing you need to see medical and surgical oncologists at a major melanoma center.  It's a personal decision but you might also consider a second opinion since you will have some difficult choices ahead.  My melanoma had spread to many lymph nodes (as shown by a PET scan and biopsy) so I elected not to have additional surgery beyond the original biopsy.  Instead I elected for systemic treatment and joined the Merck Phase I PD1 clinical trial and have been a responder.  The quality of my life has been good.  There are many melanoma clinical trails available.

                                                                                                            As you learn more about your own situtation (rather than guessing) there is a lot of information on this board.  I wish you the best.

                                                                                                             

                                                                                                            palmspringswalt
                                                                                                            Participant

                                                                                                              I'm sorry to read about your path report and the experience with your oncologist.  I certainly would

                                                                                                              find another immediately.

                                                                                                              I also had nodular melanoma which came as a big surprise.  As you are doing you need to see medical and surgical oncologists at a major melanoma center.  It's a personal decision but you might also consider a second opinion since you will have some difficult choices ahead.  My melanoma had spread to many lymph nodes (as shown by a PET scan and biopsy) so I elected not to have additional surgery beyond the original biopsy.  Instead I elected for systemic treatment and joined the Merck Phase I PD1 clinical trial and have been a responder.  The quality of my life has been good.  There are many melanoma clinical trails available.

                                                                                                              As you learn more about your own situtation (rather than guessing) there is a lot of information on this board.  I wish you the best.

                                                                                                               

                                                                                                                Alanamaranto22
                                                                                                                Participant
                                                                                                                  I must not have been clear in my first post. Forgive me, I’m just having a hard time taking all of this in. My primary physician sent me to a skin/plastic surgeon (Dr. Orsini) for the biopsy. He is the doctor who staged me and informed me the I was likely going to die from this. The Oncologist from Hopkins, Dr. Tufaro I have not seen yet. I will see him on the 4th. I just wanted to clear that misinformation up. I apologize for not writing clearer. I’m not thinking very clear at this point. I’ve been through a great deal within the past 15 months so its been quite overwhelming. The Oncologist is supposed to be one of the best so I’m sure when I do see him, he will provide me with all of the accurate information and diagnosis. However, when the PA from Hopkins called about coming in on the 4th, she did let me know the pathology report looked very bad. However, she did say I was in good hands. She also informed me they would be doing the scans and lymph node removal/biopsy? I’m still not clear on everything. It was alot to try and take in. But yes, I studied nursing and know a little about the medical field and I was pretty certain Dr. Orsini could not stage me simply from a biopsy. I knew they could say if it was cancerous and what type of cancer but that’s about it. Even so, I’m still worried. I will just wait it out.

                                                                                                                  Thank you all so much for your support and kind words.

                                                                                                                  Alana

                                                                                                                  Alanamaranto22
                                                                                                                  Participant
                                                                                                                    I must not have been clear in my first post. Forgive me, I’m just having a hard time taking all of this in. My primary physician sent me to a skin/plastic surgeon (Dr. Orsini) for the biopsy. He is the doctor who staged me and informed me the I was likely going to die from this. The Oncologist from Hopkins, Dr. Tufaro I have not seen yet. I will see him on the 4th. I just wanted to clear that misinformation up. I apologize for not writing clearer. I’m not thinking very clear at this point. I’ve been through a great deal within the past 15 months so its been quite overwhelming. The Oncologist is supposed to be one of the best so I’m sure when I do see him, he will provide me with all of the accurate information and diagnosis. However, when the PA from Hopkins called about coming in on the 4th, she did let me know the pathology report looked very bad. However, she did say I was in good hands. She also informed me they would be doing the scans and lymph node removal/biopsy? I’m still not clear on everything. It was alot to try and take in. But yes, I studied nursing and know a little about the medical field and I was pretty certain Dr. Orsini could not stage me simply from a biopsy. I knew they could say if it was cancerous and what type of cancer but that’s about it. Even so, I’m still worried. I will just wait it out.

                                                                                                                    Thank you all so much for your support and kind words.

                                                                                                                    Alana

                                                                                                                    Alanamaranto22
                                                                                                                    Participant
                                                                                                                      I must not have been clear in my first post. Forgive me, I’m just having a hard time taking all of this in. My primary physician sent me to a skin/plastic surgeon (Dr. Orsini) for the biopsy. He is the doctor who staged me and informed me the I was likely going to die from this. The Oncologist from Hopkins, Dr. Tufaro I have not seen yet. I will see him on the 4th. I just wanted to clear that misinformation up. I apologize for not writing clearer. I’m not thinking very clear at this point. I’ve been through a great deal within the past 15 months so its been quite overwhelming. The Oncologist is supposed to be one of the best so I’m sure when I do see him, he will provide me with all of the accurate information and diagnosis. However, when the PA from Hopkins called about coming in on the 4th, she did let me know the pathology report looked very bad. However, she did say I was in good hands. She also informed me they would be doing the scans and lymph node removal/biopsy? I’m still not clear on everything. It was alot to try and take in. But yes, I studied nursing and know a little about the medical field and I was pretty certain Dr. Orsini could not stage me simply from a biopsy. I knew they could say if it was cancerous and what type of cancer but that’s about it. Even so, I’m still worried. I will just wait it out.

                                                                                                                      Thank you all so much for your support and kind words.

                                                                                                                      Alana

                                                                                                                      Linny
                                                                                                                      Participant

                                                                                                                        Hi Alana,

                                                                                                                        Sorry you're going through al this stress. But as was pointed out, you should be in good hands at Hopkins. I go there as well and am quite happy with their melanoma team. I'm not sure who Dr. Turfaro is, but after checking their web site, he does plastic and reconstructive surgery for the melanoma clinic. If you're meeting with a surgeon, it sounds like they want to go back in and make sure they got it all. Then once you heal up, you'll meet with either Dr. Scharfman or Dr. Lipson, who will discuss treatment options.

                                                                                                                        Do yourself a favor and don't go back to that numbskul who told you that you had Stage IV melanoma. It's clear this guy doesn't look at melanomas on a frequent basis. The nice thing about a place like Hopkins is that these specialsts see melanomas DAILY. They'll have an answer for you and hopefully be able to ease your fears.

                                                                                                                        Alanamaranto22
                                                                                                                        Participant
                                                                                                                          I’m not sure. I know he is doing my surgery but the information I gatherered from the hospital was that he specializes in both oncology (melanoma being one area of expertise) and surgery/reconstructive surgery. I do vaguely remember her saying thats the good thing about Dr Tufaro, he specializes in cancer and surgery to remove cancer. I’m not positive but I guess I should research more cause I read the one post about avoiding surgery and getting the treatment if it has metastisized. They said the surgery would be very invasive because of the location and there not being much skin in that area. If it’s already that bad, I’d rather keep my foot and just go for the treatment.

                                                                                                                          Now that I think of it, she did advise me that a team of oncologists will be working with me but my appointment for the consult is with Dr. Tufaro. I’ll have to research a little cause I thought she told me he specializes in melanoma and head and neck cancers. Who knows, I was still in complete shock and total denial that I don’t even remember everything she said. I just remember the words “extremely serious” “don’t worry a team of oncologists will be working with you” ” Dr. Tufaro is one of the best because he not only works with the cancer treatment but he also does the surgery to remove cancers” and “the skin specialist reviewed the pathology report in addition to speaking with the pathologist about my case because the results were so severe.” That is pretty much all I can remember about our phone conversation. I wanted so many answers that she couldn’t really give me, but she did say they would be going back in my foot and trying to get all or as much as the cancer tissue left, they would also be doing PET and CT scans and removing some lymphnodes. But in pretty positive she said the foot surgery will be first because they want to re-biopsy the tissue at their center as like a second opinion to be sure of exactly what they’re dealing with and how much they’re dealing with.

                                                                                                                          This is why I’m a nervous wreck because I don’t like waiting. I want to know now to put my mind at ease. Even if its not what I want to hear at least I’ll know for sure and try to prepare myself.

                                                                                                                          Thank you for your response. I’m glad I decided to join because all of you are so very nice, informative and supportive. It makes me feel like I’m not alone or crazy.

                                                                                                                          POW
                                                                                                                          Participant

                                                                                                                            Alana, you are bringing up a very important point. Melanoma is a very complex disease, the field is full of jargon and the various treatment options are very complex, too. It's almost impossible for one shell-shocked patient to take in, understand, and remember it all while talking to your doctors. Then, when you get home after your appointments, you kick yourself for not asking certain questions or for not understanding something the doctor said. From now on, I suggest that you:

                                                                                                                            1. Bring another person with you to every doctor's appointment. Someone who is not personally facing cancer has a cooler head and a better memory than does the patient.

                                                                                                                            2. Before every doctor's appointment, make a list of the questions you want to ask and BE SURE to pull out the list and read it in front of the doctor (i.e., don't be embarassed to read from your list)

                                                                                                                            3. If possible, record your meetings with your doctors. Most cell phones, iPods, etc. have a "record" function. You may not need to listen to the conversation again, but its nice to have it if you need it.

                                                                                                                            4. Always get copies of EVERY report and lab test and a CD of all scan images (PET, CT, MRI, etc.) and keep them for yourself. In the first place, you often learn more and understand better when you can take your time and read the results yourself. In the second place, if you need to go someplace for a consult you don't have to panic if your records don't get sent from one institution to another quickly enough. If necessary, you can bring your records with you (but DON'T give anyone your personal set of records. They can copy them but not keep them.)

                                                                                                                            POW
                                                                                                                            Participant

                                                                                                                              Alana, you are bringing up a very important point. Melanoma is a very complex disease, the field is full of jargon and the various treatment options are very complex, too. It's almost impossible for one shell-shocked patient to take in, understand, and remember it all while talking to your doctors. Then, when you get home after your appointments, you kick yourself for not asking certain questions or for not understanding something the doctor said. From now on, I suggest that you:

                                                                                                                              1. Bring another person with you to every doctor's appointment. Someone who is not personally facing cancer has a cooler head and a better memory than does the patient.

                                                                                                                              2. Before every doctor's appointment, make a list of the questions you want to ask and BE SURE to pull out the list and read it in front of the doctor (i.e., don't be embarassed to read from your list)

                                                                                                                              3. If possible, record your meetings with your doctors. Most cell phones, iPods, etc. have a "record" function. You may not need to listen to the conversation again, but its nice to have it if you need it.

                                                                                                                              4. Always get copies of EVERY report and lab test and a CD of all scan images (PET, CT, MRI, etc.) and keep them for yourself. In the first place, you often learn more and understand better when you can take your time and read the results yourself. In the second place, if you need to go someplace for a consult you don't have to panic if your records don't get sent from one institution to another quickly enough. If necessary, you can bring your records with you (but DON'T give anyone your personal set of records. They can copy them but not keep them.)

                                                                                                                              POW
                                                                                                                              Participant

                                                                                                                                Alana, you are bringing up a very important point. Melanoma is a very complex disease, the field is full of jargon and the various treatment options are very complex, too. It's almost impossible for one shell-shocked patient to take in, understand, and remember it all while talking to your doctors. Then, when you get home after your appointments, you kick yourself for not asking certain questions or for not understanding something the doctor said. From now on, I suggest that you:

                                                                                                                                1. Bring another person with you to every doctor's appointment. Someone who is not personally facing cancer has a cooler head and a better memory than does the patient.

                                                                                                                                2. Before every doctor's appointment, make a list of the questions you want to ask and BE SURE to pull out the list and read it in front of the doctor (i.e., don't be embarassed to read from your list)

                                                                                                                                3. If possible, record your meetings with your doctors. Most cell phones, iPods, etc. have a "record" function. You may not need to listen to the conversation again, but its nice to have it if you need it.

                                                                                                                                4. Always get copies of EVERY report and lab test and a CD of all scan images (PET, CT, MRI, etc.) and keep them for yourself. In the first place, you often learn more and understand better when you can take your time and read the results yourself. In the second place, if you need to go someplace for a consult you don't have to panic if your records don't get sent from one institution to another quickly enough. If necessary, you can bring your records with you (but DON'T give anyone your personal set of records. They can copy them but not keep them.)

                                                                                                                                Linny
                                                                                                                                Participant

                                                                                                                                  The first people I saw at Hopkins were a dermatologist and then the surgeon. The visit with Dr. Wang, the dermatologist did not go well — he may be a good technician but his bedside manner left a lot to be desired, IMO. I left there pretty traumatized and then headed to my visit with Dr. Jacobs, my surgeon. Her specialty is breast cancer and melanoma. She's terrific. A little over a month after that visit I had surgery to remove all lymph nodes from under my left axilla. In between that time, Christmas, New Year's and my birthday passed. Needless to say it was a horrible month. But Mr. Celexa and Mr. Xanax helped. If your nerves are frayed and you're finding your diagnosis difficult to cope with, don't be afraid to ask your primary for something to get you through these times. About a month after the surgery I found I no longer needed Mr. Celexa and Mr. Xanax in my life so I ditched them. laugh

                                                                                                                                  My particular surgery was day surgery. They handle that in an interesting way at Hopkins. It was your basic cattle call, but very well run. They couldn't have assigned a more perfect nurse to me because we spent our entire time together laughing. Yes, laughing! Everyone else behind their respective curtains was talking in hushed tones but we were just the opposite, quite loud actually..LOL. My nurse's name was Victoria. Another nurse came over to see what was going on and ended up staying with us — as in joining the "party". Anyway, they didn't wheel me into the OR in a gurney. Victoria escorted me there and I laid down on the table. After they gave me the anesthesia I didn't know anything until I was in recovery, which was very chaotic because I was not alone in there.

                                                                                                                                  I had my followup two weeks later. And about two weeks after that I saw Dr. Scharfmann and also got an opinion from the University of PA.

                                                                                                                                  Getting back to the surgeons, at major melanoma clinics like Hopkins, their areas are SO specialized that they should know EXACTLY what they're looking at, what to take out, and what to leave alone. They do this every day.

                                                                                                                                  Right now, everything is a blur for you and you're still getting over the shock of your diagnosis. It's a huge disruption to your normal routine. Sudden change is always stressful. But once you get established in your new routine you'll life will return to normal. It doesn't look that way now, but it really will return to normal.

                                                                                                                                  Linny
                                                                                                                                  Participant

                                                                                                                                    The first people I saw at Hopkins were a dermatologist and then the surgeon. The visit with Dr. Wang, the dermatologist did not go well — he may be a good technician but his bedside manner left a lot to be desired, IMO. I left there pretty traumatized and then headed to my visit with Dr. Jacobs, my surgeon. Her specialty is breast cancer and melanoma. She's terrific. A little over a month after that visit I had surgery to remove all lymph nodes from under my left axilla. In between that time, Christmas, New Year's and my birthday passed. Needless to say it was a horrible month. But Mr. Celexa and Mr. Xanax helped. If your nerves are frayed and you're finding your diagnosis difficult to cope with, don't be afraid to ask your primary for something to get you through these times. About a month after the surgery I found I no longer needed Mr. Celexa and Mr. Xanax in my life so I ditched them. laugh

                                                                                                                                    My particular surgery was day surgery. They handle that in an interesting way at Hopkins. It was your basic cattle call, but very well run. They couldn't have assigned a more perfect nurse to me because we spent our entire time together laughing. Yes, laughing! Everyone else behind their respective curtains was talking in hushed tones but we were just the opposite, quite loud actually..LOL. My nurse's name was Victoria. Another nurse came over to see what was going on and ended up staying with us — as in joining the "party". Anyway, they didn't wheel me into the OR in a gurney. Victoria escorted me there and I laid down on the table. After they gave me the anesthesia I didn't know anything until I was in recovery, which was very chaotic because I was not alone in there.

                                                                                                                                    I had my followup two weeks later. And about two weeks after that I saw Dr. Scharfmann and also got an opinion from the University of PA.

                                                                                                                                    Getting back to the surgeons, at major melanoma clinics like Hopkins, their areas are SO specialized that they should know EXACTLY what they're looking at, what to take out, and what to leave alone. They do this every day.

                                                                                                                                    Right now, everything is a blur for you and you're still getting over the shock of your diagnosis. It's a huge disruption to your normal routine. Sudden change is always stressful. But once you get established in your new routine you'll life will return to normal. It doesn't look that way now, but it really will return to normal.

                                                                                                                                    Linny
                                                                                                                                    Participant

                                                                                                                                      The first people I saw at Hopkins were a dermatologist and then the surgeon. The visit with Dr. Wang, the dermatologist did not go well — he may be a good technician but his bedside manner left a lot to be desired, IMO. I left there pretty traumatized and then headed to my visit with Dr. Jacobs, my surgeon. Her specialty is breast cancer and melanoma. She's terrific. A little over a month after that visit I had surgery to remove all lymph nodes from under my left axilla. In between that time, Christmas, New Year's and my birthday passed. Needless to say it was a horrible month. But Mr. Celexa and Mr. Xanax helped. If your nerves are frayed and you're finding your diagnosis difficult to cope with, don't be afraid to ask your primary for something to get you through these times. About a month after the surgery I found I no longer needed Mr. Celexa and Mr. Xanax in my life so I ditched them. laugh

                                                                                                                                      My particular surgery was day surgery. They handle that in an interesting way at Hopkins. It was your basic cattle call, but very well run. They couldn't have assigned a more perfect nurse to me because we spent our entire time together laughing. Yes, laughing! Everyone else behind their respective curtains was talking in hushed tones but we were just the opposite, quite loud actually..LOL. My nurse's name was Victoria. Another nurse came over to see what was going on and ended up staying with us — as in joining the "party". Anyway, they didn't wheel me into the OR in a gurney. Victoria escorted me there and I laid down on the table. After they gave me the anesthesia I didn't know anything until I was in recovery, which was very chaotic because I was not alone in there.

                                                                                                                                      I had my followup two weeks later. And about two weeks after that I saw Dr. Scharfmann and also got an opinion from the University of PA.

                                                                                                                                      Getting back to the surgeons, at major melanoma clinics like Hopkins, their areas are SO specialized that they should know EXACTLY what they're looking at, what to take out, and what to leave alone. They do this every day.

                                                                                                                                      Right now, everything is a blur for you and you're still getting over the shock of your diagnosis. It's a huge disruption to your normal routine. Sudden change is always stressful. But once you get established in your new routine you'll life will return to normal. It doesn't look that way now, but it really will return to normal.

                                                                                                                                      Alanamaranto22
                                                                                                                                      Participant
                                                                                                                                        I’m not sure. I know he is doing my surgery but the information I gatherered from the hospital was that he specializes in both oncology (melanoma being one area of expertise) and surgery/reconstructive surgery. I do vaguely remember her saying thats the good thing about Dr Tufaro, he specializes in cancer and surgery to remove cancer. I’m not positive but I guess I should research more cause I read the one post about avoiding surgery and getting the treatment if it has metastisized. They said the surgery would be very invasive because of the location and there not being much skin in that area. If it’s already that bad, I’d rather keep my foot and just go for the treatment.

                                                                                                                                        Now that I think of it, she did advise me that a team of oncologists will be working with me but my appointment for the consult is with Dr. Tufaro. I’ll have to research a little cause I thought she told me he specializes in melanoma and head and neck cancers. Who knows, I was still in complete shock and total denial that I don’t even remember everything she said. I just remember the words “extremely serious” “don’t worry a team of oncologists will be working with you” ” Dr. Tufaro is one of the best because he not only works with the cancer treatment but he also does the surgery to remove cancers” and “the skin specialist reviewed the pathology report in addition to speaking with the pathologist about my case because the results were so severe.” That is pretty much all I can remember about our phone conversation. I wanted so many answers that she couldn’t really give me, but she did say they would be going back in my foot and trying to get all or as much as the cancer tissue left, they would also be doing PET and CT scans and removing some lymphnodes. But in pretty positive she said the foot surgery will be first because they want to re-biopsy the tissue at their center as like a second opinion to be sure of exactly what they’re dealing with and how much they’re dealing with.

                                                                                                                                        This is why I’m a nervous wreck because I don’t like waiting. I want to know now to put my mind at ease. Even if its not what I want to hear at least I’ll know for sure and try to prepare myself.

                                                                                                                                        Thank you for your response. I’m glad I decided to join because all of you are so very nice, informative and supportive. It makes me feel like I’m not alone or crazy.

                                                                                                                                        Alanamaranto22
                                                                                                                                        Participant
                                                                                                                                          I’m not sure. I know he is doing my surgery but the information I gatherered from the hospital was that he specializes in both oncology (melanoma being one area of expertise) and surgery/reconstructive surgery. I do vaguely remember her saying thats the good thing about Dr Tufaro, he specializes in cancer and surgery to remove cancer. I’m not positive but I guess I should research more cause I read the one post about avoiding surgery and getting the treatment if it has metastisized. They said the surgery would be very invasive because of the location and there not being much skin in that area. If it’s already that bad, I’d rather keep my foot and just go for the treatment.

                                                                                                                                          Now that I think of it, she did advise me that a team of oncologists will be working with me but my appointment for the consult is with Dr. Tufaro. I’ll have to research a little cause I thought she told me he specializes in melanoma and head and neck cancers. Who knows, I was still in complete shock and total denial that I don’t even remember everything she said. I just remember the words “extremely serious” “don’t worry a team of oncologists will be working with you” ” Dr. Tufaro is one of the best because he not only works with the cancer treatment but he also does the surgery to remove cancers” and “the skin specialist reviewed the pathology report in addition to speaking with the pathologist about my case because the results were so severe.” That is pretty much all I can remember about our phone conversation. I wanted so many answers that she couldn’t really give me, but she did say they would be going back in my foot and trying to get all or as much as the cancer tissue left, they would also be doing PET and CT scans and removing some lymphnodes. But in pretty positive she said the foot surgery will be first because they want to re-biopsy the tissue at their center as like a second opinion to be sure of exactly what they’re dealing with and how much they’re dealing with.

                                                                                                                                          This is why I’m a nervous wreck because I don’t like waiting. I want to know now to put my mind at ease. Even if its not what I want to hear at least I’ll know for sure and try to prepare myself.

                                                                                                                                          Thank you for your response. I’m glad I decided to join because all of you are so very nice, informative and supportive. It makes me feel like I’m not alone or crazy.

                                                                                                                                          Linny
                                                                                                                                          Participant

                                                                                                                                            Hi Alana,

                                                                                                                                            Sorry you're going through al this stress. But as was pointed out, you should be in good hands at Hopkins. I go there as well and am quite happy with their melanoma team. I'm not sure who Dr. Turfaro is, but after checking their web site, he does plastic and reconstructive surgery for the melanoma clinic. If you're meeting with a surgeon, it sounds like they want to go back in and make sure they got it all. Then once you heal up, you'll meet with either Dr. Scharfman or Dr. Lipson, who will discuss treatment options.

                                                                                                                                            Do yourself a favor and don't go back to that numbskul who told you that you had Stage IV melanoma. It's clear this guy doesn't look at melanomas on a frequent basis. The nice thing about a place like Hopkins is that these specialsts see melanomas DAILY. They'll have an answer for you and hopefully be able to ease your fears.

                                                                                                                                            Linny
                                                                                                                                            Participant

                                                                                                                                              Hi Alana,

                                                                                                                                              Sorry you're going through al this stress. But as was pointed out, you should be in good hands at Hopkins. I go there as well and am quite happy with their melanoma team. I'm not sure who Dr. Turfaro is, but after checking their web site, he does plastic and reconstructive surgery for the melanoma clinic. If you're meeting with a surgeon, it sounds like they want to go back in and make sure they got it all. Then once you heal up, you'll meet with either Dr. Scharfman or Dr. Lipson, who will discuss treatment options.

                                                                                                                                              Do yourself a favor and don't go back to that numbskul who told you that you had Stage IV melanoma. It's clear this guy doesn't look at melanomas on a frequent basis. The nice thing about a place like Hopkins is that these specialsts see melanomas DAILY. They'll have an answer for you and hopefully be able to ease your fears.

                                                                                                                                            Lori C
                                                                                                                                            Participant

                                                                                                                                              As Charlie and others have said, the doctor is taking a guess based on the likelihood, but it's not a proper diagnosis, obviously, and even if some of them can't come to terms with it, doctors are not always correct.  It sounds like you are getting excellent advice here and I don't have a lot to add except that there are an awful lot of people here who are living with Stage IV melanoma as a chronic condition for years.  It's an incredible source of help, this board, and you found it a lot earlier than I did, you obviously know how to look for the best!  It's a truly crappy situation to have to deal with but it can be dealt with, and as far as I can tell, you are doing a great job in lining things up properly.  Someone suggested organizing b-raf and c-kit testing of your biopsy sample and I'd echo that, it can save a lot of time having it done asap.  I hope that the doctor ends up being quite wrong but in the chance that he is correct, there are still very likely many options for you for effective treatment.

                                                                                                                                               

                                                                                                                                              Lori, caregiver to Will

                                                                                                                                              Lori C
                                                                                                                                              Participant

                                                                                                                                                As Charlie and others have said, the doctor is taking a guess based on the likelihood, but it's not a proper diagnosis, obviously, and even if some of them can't come to terms with it, doctors are not always correct.  It sounds like you are getting excellent advice here and I don't have a lot to add except that there are an awful lot of people here who are living with Stage IV melanoma as a chronic condition for years.  It's an incredible source of help, this board, and you found it a lot earlier than I did, you obviously know how to look for the best!  It's a truly crappy situation to have to deal with but it can be dealt with, and as far as I can tell, you are doing a great job in lining things up properly.  Someone suggested organizing b-raf and c-kit testing of your biopsy sample and I'd echo that, it can save a lot of time having it done asap.  I hope that the doctor ends up being quite wrong but in the chance that he is correct, there are still very likely many options for you for effective treatment.

                                                                                                                                                 

                                                                                                                                                Lori, caregiver to Will

                                                                                                                                                Lori C
                                                                                                                                                Participant

                                                                                                                                                  As Charlie and others have said, the doctor is taking a guess based on the likelihood, but it's not a proper diagnosis, obviously, and even if some of them can't come to terms with it, doctors are not always correct.  It sounds like you are getting excellent advice here and I don't have a lot to add except that there are an awful lot of people here who are living with Stage IV melanoma as a chronic condition for years.  It's an incredible source of help, this board, and you found it a lot earlier than I did, you obviously know how to look for the best!  It's a truly crappy situation to have to deal with but it can be dealt with, and as far as I can tell, you are doing a great job in lining things up properly.  Someone suggested organizing b-raf and c-kit testing of your biopsy sample and I'd echo that, it can save a lot of time having it done asap.  I hope that the doctor ends up being quite wrong but in the chance that he is correct, there are still very likely many options for you for effective treatment.

                                                                                                                                                   

                                                                                                                                                  Lori, caregiver to Will

                                                                                                                                                  Rebecca and Bob
                                                                                                                                                  Participant

                                                                                                                                                    My husband got a call on his cell phone on on his way home and the derm told him he had melanoma and that it was really bad. She proceeded to tell him on the phone how bad it really was while he was driving with the clarks level 4 and it was amelanotic nodular melanoma a rare one. They seem to be pink or skin toned. I sometimes think these doctors are not really thinking when they are saying what they are saying. I was lucky my husband drove home and not into a tree, he was a wreck when he did get home. It did however make us move really fast to figure out what to do next. We went to Johns Hopkins as well and doctor Julie Lange did the surgery. I don't know if she is still there but she was a great surgeon, she is very agressive. You may want to research their site and read about the surgeons and medical staff. They may do a PetScan before your surgery which is what my husband did and then they did the lymphnode surgery. I'm sorry you are going through this and so much in the past. My husband was also 40 when diagnosed and it's not a fun ride but you can do it – he did. 

                                                                                                                                                    Good luck!

                                                                                                                                                    Rebecca

                                                                                                                                                    Rebecca and Bob
                                                                                                                                                    Participant

                                                                                                                                                      My husband got a call on his cell phone on on his way home and the derm told him he had melanoma and that it was really bad. She proceeded to tell him on the phone how bad it really was while he was driving with the clarks level 4 and it was amelanotic nodular melanoma a rare one. They seem to be pink or skin toned. I sometimes think these doctors are not really thinking when they are saying what they are saying. I was lucky my husband drove home and not into a tree, he was a wreck when he did get home. It did however make us move really fast to figure out what to do next. We went to Johns Hopkins as well and doctor Julie Lange did the surgery. I don't know if she is still there but she was a great surgeon, she is very agressive. You may want to research their site and read about the surgeons and medical staff. They may do a PetScan before your surgery which is what my husband did and then they did the lymphnode surgery. I'm sorry you are going through this and so much in the past. My husband was also 40 when diagnosed and it's not a fun ride but you can do it – he did. 

                                                                                                                                                      Good luck!

                                                                                                                                                      Rebecca

                                                                                                                                                      Rebecca and Bob
                                                                                                                                                      Participant

                                                                                                                                                        My husband got a call on his cell phone on on his way home and the derm told him he had melanoma and that it was really bad. She proceeded to tell him on the phone how bad it really was while he was driving with the clarks level 4 and it was amelanotic nodular melanoma a rare one. They seem to be pink or skin toned. I sometimes think these doctors are not really thinking when they are saying what they are saying. I was lucky my husband drove home and not into a tree, he was a wreck when he did get home. It did however make us move really fast to figure out what to do next. We went to Johns Hopkins as well and doctor Julie Lange did the surgery. I don't know if she is still there but she was a great surgeon, she is very agressive. You may want to research their site and read about the surgeons and medical staff. They may do a PetScan before your surgery which is what my husband did and then they did the lymphnode surgery. I'm sorry you are going through this and so much in the past. My husband was also 40 when diagnosed and it's not a fun ride but you can do it – he did. 

                                                                                                                                                        Good luck!

                                                                                                                                                        Rebecca

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