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Post Surgery

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    Lilylove414
    Participant
      I had my surgery yesterday. I checked in at 7:45, and at 8:30ish they called me back to prep me. Very different from Lewis Gale. At Carilion, there’s a big nurse station facing a semicircle of beds separated by curtains. Of course that’s where I had to strip down. I was worried someone would see me naked, and sure enough one nurse opened the curtain to get my urine sample. I didn’t even try to cover myself at that point I was just thinking, ” Well at least I’m not as big as I used to be!” Haha, so I put on this thick paper gown that attaches to a hose that heats it up.

      I had my surgery yesterday. I checked in at 7:45, and at 8:30ish they called me back to prep me. Very different from Lewis Gale. At Carilion, there’s a big nurse station facing a semicircle of beds separated by curtains. Of course that’s where I had to strip down. I was worried someone would see me naked, and sure enough one nurse opened the curtain to get my urine sample. I didn’t even try to cover myself at that point I was just thinking, ” Well at least I’m not as big as I used to be!” Haha, so I put on this thick paper gown that attaches to a hose that heats it up. Pretty awesome until it makes you look HUGE!

      I was pretty nervous and at first my blood pressure was 142 over…something. but the heat in the gown helped me relax and it went down to 114 over 70. This super nice anetheseologist came in and gave me something to calm me down. It made my vision blurry but I was grinning from ear to ear! So after my family wished me luck they rolled me on back there and I remember saying something kind of sarcastically and then I was out.

      After I woke up, holy Jesus I was nauseus! I never threw up but I had a close call. I had the hardest time staying awake until after I fell asleep at home, too. But lucky me gets to wear a drain until Feb. 7th. I have decided not to see any friends until it’s gone. It grosses me out, I’m sure they don’t want to see it sticking out of my pocket at dinner.

      Well now I’m pretty sore, a teeny weeny bit nauseus, but hoping this is my last cancer related surgery! Thank you everyone and God bless!

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        scots
        Participant

          What is the doctors name that did you surgery at Carillion? I always have a problem with being  nauseus after surgery. Have they talked to you about the next step? Hope your recovery goes well.

          scot

          scots
          Participant

            What is the doctors name that did you surgery at Carillion? I always have a problem with being  nauseus after surgery. Have they talked to you about the next step? Hope your recovery goes well.

            scot

            scots
            Participant

              What is the doctors name that did you surgery at Carillion? I always have a problem with being  nauseus after surgery. Have they talked to you about the next step? Hope your recovery goes well.

              scot

                Lilylove414
                Participant
                  Dr. Long. No, not really. I’m starting interferon on Feb. 6th so I think right now that’s the next step. And of course I have the 3 month checkups for 5 years. Thank you for your support Scot! I appreciate it!
                  God bless!
                  Lilylove414
                  Participant
                    Dr. Long. No, not really. I’m starting interferon on Feb. 6th so I think right now that’s the next step. And of course I have the 3 month checkups for 5 years. Thank you for your support Scot! I appreciate it!
                    God bless!
                    Lilylove414
                    Participant
                      Dr. Long. No, not really. I’m starting interferon on Feb. 6th so I think right now that’s the next step. And of course I have the 3 month checkups for 5 years. Thank you for your support Scot! I appreciate it!
                      God bless!
                    washoegal
                    Participant

                      Glad everything went well for you.  I eventually figured out how to hide my drain and even went out to lunch with a neighbor who had just had back surgery.  Our husbands took us out for a gimps lunch out….what a sight we were.  We both laughed so hard, our stiches felt like they were going to burst.  But boy was it theraputic.  My best advice is don't let that little ole' drain shut you completely off.

                      Take care,

                      Mary

                      Stage 3

                      washoegal
                      Participant

                        Glad everything went well for you.  I eventually figured out how to hide my drain and even went out to lunch with a neighbor who had just had back surgery.  Our husbands took us out for a gimps lunch out….what a sight we were.  We both laughed so hard, our stiches felt like they were going to burst.  But boy was it theraputic.  My best advice is don't let that little ole' drain shut you completely off.

                        Take care,

                        Mary

                        Stage 3

                        washoegal
                        Participant

                          Glad everything went well for you.  I eventually figured out how to hide my drain and even went out to lunch with a neighbor who had just had back surgery.  Our husbands took us out for a gimps lunch out….what a sight we were.  We both laughed so hard, our stiches felt like they were going to burst.  But boy was it theraputic.  My best advice is don't let that little ole' drain shut you completely off.

                          Take care,

                          Mary

                          Stage 3

                          lhaley
                          Participant

                            If you every have surgery again, make sure and tell them that you have nauseus issues. They will give you something before the surgery and it solves the issue!

                            I made a little cloth pocketbook and lined it with plastic. I had no issues with the drain and went out to walk, shop and lunch!  Even when I had my bladder issue I rigged my clothes and we went out to lunch.  Don't make yourself a shut in! Of course don't over due it.

                            Don't count on the 7th.  They remove it when you no longer are draining.  That's so important to wait until it's ready to be out, will prevent problems in the future. 

                            Take care,

                            Linda

                              vickykay
                              Participant

                                Hi, I always have to laugh when I read what you post. You sound like a person I would love to be around. I am sorry you have to go through this, but I believe you will come out a winner. God does not give us more than we can handle. I will pray for you like I do for everyone in this group. No matter what , God is with us.       I had 3 drain tubes , and had to (wear) them for 3 weeks.  Not as bad as it sounds, some people have to keep them in for months. I had a friend that made them take hers out after 2 weeks, and  now she has to go back every week to have her chest drained. So please leave it in until the Dr wants to take it out.    The best thing I did for myself through all this, I just keep laughing.  Take good care of yourself.                                                     

                                vickykay
                                Participant

                                  Hi, I always have to laugh when I read what you post. You sound like a person I would love to be around. I am sorry you have to go through this, but I believe you will come out a winner. God does not give us more than we can handle. I will pray for you like I do for everyone in this group. No matter what , God is with us.       I had 3 drain tubes , and had to (wear) them for 3 weeks.  Not as bad as it sounds, some people have to keep them in for months. I had a friend that made them take hers out after 2 weeks, and  now she has to go back every week to have her chest drained. So please leave it in until the Dr wants to take it out.    The best thing I did for myself through all this, I just keep laughing.  Take good care of yourself.                                                     

                                  vickykay
                                  Participant

                                    Hi, I always have to laugh when I read what you post. You sound like a person I would love to be around. I am sorry you have to go through this, but I believe you will come out a winner. God does not give us more than we can handle. I will pray for you like I do for everyone in this group. No matter what , God is with us.       I had 3 drain tubes , and had to (wear) them for 3 weeks.  Not as bad as it sounds, some people have to keep them in for months. I had a friend that made them take hers out after 2 weeks, and  now she has to go back every week to have her chest drained. So please leave it in until the Dr wants to take it out.    The best thing I did for myself through all this, I just keep laughing.  Take good care of yourself.                                                     

                                  lhaley
                                  Participant

                                    If you every have surgery again, make sure and tell them that you have nauseus issues. They will give you something before the surgery and it solves the issue!

                                    I made a little cloth pocketbook and lined it with plastic. I had no issues with the drain and went out to walk, shop and lunch!  Even when I had my bladder issue I rigged my clothes and we went out to lunch.  Don't make yourself a shut in! Of course don't over due it.

                                    Don't count on the 7th.  They remove it when you no longer are draining.  That's so important to wait until it's ready to be out, will prevent problems in the future. 

                                    Take care,

                                    Linda

                                    lhaley
                                    Participant

                                      If you every have surgery again, make sure and tell them that you have nauseus issues. They will give you something before the surgery and it solves the issue!

                                      I made a little cloth pocketbook and lined it with plastic. I had no issues with the drain and went out to walk, shop and lunch!  Even when I had my bladder issue I rigged my clothes and we went out to lunch.  Don't make yourself a shut in! Of course don't over due it.

                                      Don't count on the 7th.  They remove it when you no longer are draining.  That's so important to wait until it's ready to be out, will prevent problems in the future. 

                                      Take care,

                                      Linda

                                      mcanova
                                      Participant

                                        Were you only there a single day?  Did you not even spend the night?  Wow.  That was fast.  I was in hospital (MCV/VCU) for 4 nights.  Has everyone else's complete groin lymphadectomy been that fast too? 

                                        Take it easy for the next few days.  No dancing for at least a week.

                                         

                                        Mike from Richmond

                                        mcanova
                                        Participant

                                          Were you only there a single day?  Did you not even spend the night?  Wow.  That was fast.  I was in hospital (MCV/VCU) for 4 nights.  Has everyone else's complete groin lymphadectomy been that fast too? 

                                          Take it easy for the next few days.  No dancing for at least a week.

                                           

                                          Mike from Richmond

                                          mcanova
                                          Participant

                                            Were you only there a single day?  Did you not even spend the night?  Wow.  That was fast.  I was in hospital (MCV/VCU) for 4 nights.  Has everyone else's complete groin lymphadectomy been that fast too? 

                                            Take it easy for the next few days.  No dancing for at least a week.

                                             

                                            Mike from Richmond

                                              Lilylove414
                                              Participant
                                                Haha Mike I got my lymphadectomy under my left arm so they said as soo as I could hold down food and pee I was good to go. Thanks Vicky! I could probably dance, but definitely don’t feel like it yet. πŸ™‚ I hope it stops draining by the 7th, but I do appreciate the advice to keepp it longer if it doesn’t stop just yet. The nurse who said I only need to drain twice a day is a liar haha. I’m doing it 4 times today. Oh, and hiding it when outside is a great idea, I could use some fresh air! Thanks for the pointers everyone! I’m sure I’ll be keeping y’all updated!

                                                God bless!

                                                Lilylove414
                                                Participant
                                                  Haha Mike I got my lymphadectomy under my left arm so they said as soo as I could hold down food and pee I was good to go. Thanks Vicky! I could probably dance, but definitely don’t feel like it yet. πŸ™‚ I hope it stops draining by the 7th, but I do appreciate the advice to keepp it longer if it doesn’t stop just yet. The nurse who said I only need to drain twice a day is a liar haha. I’m doing it 4 times today. Oh, and hiding it when outside is a great idea, I could use some fresh air! Thanks for the pointers everyone! I’m sure I’ll be keeping y’all updated!

                                                  God bless!

                                                  Linny
                                                  Participant

                                                    That drain is a pain in butt. My surgeon gave me a mastectomy bra and I was able to keep that drain in the pouch that came withe the bra. If your doc didn't give you one and you can get in and out of a sports bra or stretchy cami you can use them to help keep the drain in place.

                                                    You'll be emptying that drain less and less as time goes on. πŸ™‚  My drain was removed at my two-week followup visit.

                                                    Linda

                                                    Linny
                                                    Participant

                                                      That drain is a pain in butt. My surgeon gave me a mastectomy bra and I was able to keep that drain in the pouch that came withe the bra. If your doc didn't give you one and you can get in and out of a sports bra or stretchy cami you can use them to help keep the drain in place.

                                                      You'll be emptying that drain less and less as time goes on. πŸ™‚  My drain was removed at my two-week followup visit.

                                                      Linda

                                                      Linny
                                                      Participant

                                                        That drain is a pain in butt. My surgeon gave me a mastectomy bra and I was able to keep that drain in the pouch that came withe the bra. If your doc didn't give you one and you can get in and out of a sports bra or stretchy cami you can use them to help keep the drain in place.

                                                        You'll be emptying that drain less and less as time goes on. πŸ™‚  My drain was removed at my two-week followup visit.

                                                        Linda

                                                        Lilylove414
                                                        Participant
                                                          Haha Mike I got my lymphadectomy under my left arm so they said as soo as I could hold down food and pee I was good to go. Thanks Vicky! I could probably dance, but definitely don’t feel like it yet. πŸ™‚ I hope it stops draining by the 7th, but I do appreciate the advice to keepp it longer if it doesn’t stop just yet. The nurse who said I only need to drain twice a day is a liar haha. I’m doing it 4 times today. Oh, and hiding it when outside is a great idea, I could use some fresh air! Thanks for the pointers everyone! I’m sure I’ll be keeping y’all updated!

                                                          God bless!

                                                        wolfpac
                                                        Participant
                                                          Wishing you well in your recovery. My prayers will be with you. I have to remember that God only gives me today, and I want to live it to the fullest!

                                                          Al in Sunny Florida

                                                          wolfpac
                                                          Participant
                                                            Wishing you well in your recovery. My prayers will be with you. I have to remember that God only gives me today, and I want to live it to the fullest!

                                                            Al in Sunny Florida

                                                            wolfpac
                                                            Participant
                                                              Wishing you well in your recovery. My prayers will be with you. I have to remember that God only gives me today, and I want to live it to the fullest!

                                                              Al in Sunny Florida

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