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Pete is in hospice care at home

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    • May 27, 2015 at 11:24 pm
    yazziemac
    Participant

      Hi

      I just wanted to update you that my husband, Pete, is receiving "hospice at home" care and that there is no longer any hope for treating his cancer.  It has spread through his cerebrospinal fluid and he has tumours everywhere.  He is currently on a pain pump and has ports to receive his other medications.  We have much support from our palliative care community at home and he is currently not in pain, although he sleeps the vast majority of the day.  We did everything we could to try to combat this beast, but it just wasn't possible.  At this point, I am praying for a merciful, quick passing for him.  He is paralysed from the waist down due to spinal tumours and I am hoping that he passes before the upper spine tumours cause him more complete immobilization.  Thankfully, he is quite lucid when he is awake, so we are able to communicate with him in a meaningful way. 

      Yasmin

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        • May 28, 2015 at 1:44 am
        Bubbles
        Participant

          Holding you both in my heart, Yasmin.  You have been amazing.  Much love, c

          • May 28, 2015 at 1:44 am
          Bubbles
          Participant

            Holding you both in my heart, Yasmin.  You have been amazing.  Much love, c

            • May 28, 2015 at 1:44 am
            Bubbles
            Participant

              Holding you both in my heart, Yasmin.  You have been amazing.  Much love, c

              • May 28, 2015 at 1:45 am
              casagrayson
              Participant

                Bless your heart, Yasmin.  He fought it hard, and you were right there beside him.  I hope that all of you find peace in the coming days.

                 

                • May 28, 2015 at 1:45 am
                casagrayson
                Participant

                  Bless your heart, Yasmin.  He fought it hard, and you were right there beside him.  I hope that all of you find peace in the coming days.

                   

                  • May 28, 2015 at 1:45 am
                  casagrayson
                  Participant

                    Bless your heart, Yasmin.  He fought it hard, and you were right there beside him.  I hope that all of you find peace in the coming days.

                     

                    • May 28, 2015 at 2:15 am
                    ncdaniel
                    Participant

                      Went through the same experience 9 months ago with my wife at home with hospice help. Best thing I could ever do for her and family was to have her home. I know how difficult this is and will certainly be praying for you and your husband. 

                       

                      • May 28, 2015 at 2:15 am
                      ncdaniel
                      Participant

                        Went through the same experience 9 months ago with my wife at home with hospice help. Best thing I could ever do for her and family was to have her home. I know how difficult this is and will certainly be praying for you and your husband. 

                         

                        • May 28, 2015 at 2:15 am
                        ncdaniel
                        Participant

                          Went through the same experience 9 months ago with my wife at home with hospice help. Best thing I could ever do for her and family was to have her home. I know how difficult this is and will certainly be praying for you and your husband. 

                           

                          • May 28, 2015 at 3:05 am
                          jbronicki
                          Participant

                            So very sorry to hear this. but will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers in the days to come.  My best to you all.

                            • May 28, 2015 at 3:05 am
                            jbronicki
                            Participant

                              So very sorry to hear this. but will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers in the days to come.  My best to you all.

                              • May 28, 2015 at 3:05 am
                              jbronicki
                              Participant

                                So very sorry to hear this. but will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers in the days to come.  My best to you all.

                                • May 28, 2015 at 12:06 pm
                                JoshF
                                Participant

                                  Always at a loss for words when I hear this. Praying for peace & comfort for you all.

                                  Josh

                                  • May 28, 2015 at 12:06 pm
                                  JoshF
                                  Participant

                                    Always at a loss for words when I hear this. Praying for peace & comfort for you all.

                                    Josh

                                    • May 28, 2015 at 12:06 pm
                                    JoshF
                                    Participant

                                      Always at a loss for words when I hear this. Praying for peace & comfort for you all.

                                      Josh

                                      • May 28, 2015 at 12:42 pm
                                      BrianP
                                      Participant

                                        So sorry to hear this Yasmin.  Prayers for Pete, you, and your loved ones.  You two have fought so valiantly together. 

                                        Brian

                                        • May 28, 2015 at 12:42 pm
                                        BrianP
                                        Participant

                                          So sorry to hear this Yasmin.  Prayers for Pete, you, and your loved ones.  You two have fought so valiantly together. 

                                          Brian

                                          • May 28, 2015 at 12:42 pm
                                          BrianP
                                          Participant

                                            So sorry to hear this Yasmin.  Prayers for Pete, you, and your loved ones.  You two have fought so valiantly together. 

                                            Brian

                                            • May 28, 2015 at 7:14 pm
                                            arthurjedi007
                                            Participant

                                              I don't know what to say. Stupid awful disease 🙁

                                              Artie

                                              • May 28, 2015 at 7:14 pm
                                              arthurjedi007
                                              Participant

                                                I don't know what to say. Stupid awful disease 🙁

                                                Artie

                                                • May 28, 2015 at 7:14 pm
                                                arthurjedi007
                                                Participant

                                                  I don't know what to say. Stupid awful disease 🙁

                                                  Artie

                                                  • May 28, 2015 at 7:27 pm
                                                  s wife
                                                  Participant

                                                    I am so sad to hear this…

                                                    i lost my husband to melanoma 8 months ago. I just want you to know that you and your family are in my prayers…

                                                    susannah

                                                    • May 28, 2015 at 7:27 pm
                                                    s wife
                                                    Participant

                                                      I am so sad to hear this…

                                                      i lost my husband to melanoma 8 months ago. I just want you to know that you and your family are in my prayers…

                                                      susannah

                                                      • May 28, 2015 at 7:27 pm
                                                      s wife
                                                      Participant

                                                        I am so sad to hear this…

                                                        i lost my husband to melanoma 8 months ago. I just want you to know that you and your family are in my prayers…

                                                        susannah

                                                        • May 30, 2015 at 4:02 am
                                                        SABKLYN
                                                        Participant

                                                          So difficult.  Prayers for you and your family

                                                          • May 30, 2015 at 4:02 am
                                                          SABKLYN
                                                          Participant

                                                            So difficult.  Prayers for you and your family

                                                            • May 30, 2015 at 4:02 am
                                                            SABKLYN
                                                            Participant

                                                              So difficult.  Prayers for you and your family

                                                              • May 30, 2015 at 11:29 pm
                                                              _Paul_
                                                              Participant

                                                                I'm really sad to hear this Yasmin. I am praying for both of you. I know it's not very much consolation, but it is good to hear that he is not in pain.

                                                                – Paul.

                                                                • May 30, 2015 at 11:29 pm
                                                                _Paul_
                                                                Participant

                                                                  I'm really sad to hear this Yasmin. I am praying for both of you. I know it's not very much consolation, but it is good to hear that he is not in pain.

                                                                  – Paul.

                                                                  • May 30, 2015 at 11:29 pm
                                                                  _Paul_
                                                                  Participant

                                                                    I'm really sad to hear this Yasmin. I am praying for both of you. I know it's not very much consolation, but it is good to hear that he is not in pain.

                                                                    – Paul.

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