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- January 10, 2011 at 4:03 pm
I'm bored for the moment, and out of sheer curiousity, I'm only asking this to a few people (they know who they are), because I believe, to the majority, it never even crossed their minds.
* Who of you were *itching* and ready to go on the warpath, expecting I would post "My First Christmas In Heaven" on the main board?
* If you had seen where I had posted it, would you have replied, like you did last year, with negative contempt and criticism?
I'm bored for the moment, and out of sheer curiousity, I'm only asking this to a few people (they know who they are), because I believe, to the majority, it never even crossed their minds.
* Who of you were *itching* and ready to go on the warpath, expecting I would post "My First Christmas In Heaven" on the main board?
* If you had seen where I had posted it, would you have replied, like you did last year, with negative contempt and criticism?
* If you had seen it posted by someone else, would you have replied, like you did last year, with negative contempt and criticism?
* if you had seen it posted anonymously, would you have assumed it was ME?
* If you had seen it posted anonymously, AND assumed it was me, would you have replied, like you did last year, with negative contempt and criticism?
* If you had seen it posted anonymously, and didn't assume it was me (maybe thought it MIGHT be me)—- but knew it could be anybody, would you have replied, like you did last year, with negative contempt and criticism?
* Were you disappointed I didn't post it, because you wanted to reply, like you did last year, with negative contempt and criticism?
* After a year, did you not give a rat either way whether I (or anyone) posted the poem or not?
* After a year, did you reailize posting the simple poem was no biggy? At least not big enough to reply with negative contempt and criticism, and start a "war" on the main board and have it removed TWICE because it was posted? Did you realize a LOT of people were comforted by it, and decided, "Hey—if it helps others—or even ONE person, I'm not gonna start any crap."?
Like I said, just bored and curious. The thought DID cross my mind that IF it had been posted anonymously, how many of you would've assumed it was ME?
Laterz!
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- January 10, 2011 at 7:18 pm
I think about the only thing I can say is …. Get over it
I don't agree with any of the reaction from next year. but let it go.
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- January 10, 2011 at 7:18 pm
I think about the only thing I can say is …. Get over it
I don't agree with any of the reaction from next year. but let it go.
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- January 10, 2011 at 9:51 pm
Bwahahahahahah !!! Another blast from the past…the special kind of crazy that would bring out those with a knack for witty response. Ah, if i only could have saved all of their fun comments in a storage box 🙂
Carry on you crazy girl-you're something else, for sure. As my Mom used to say, " a real piece of work ".
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- January 10, 2011 at 9:51 pm
Bwahahahahahah !!! Another blast from the past…the special kind of crazy that would bring out those with a knack for witty response. Ah, if i only could have saved all of their fun comments in a storage box 🙂
Carry on you crazy girl-you're something else, for sure. As my Mom used to say, " a real piece of work ".
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- January 10, 2011 at 9:56 pm
I didn't read it last year. I wouldn't have read it this year. Your self centered ego is exceeded only by your waist line. Bah humbug to the xmas bs anyway. Was it Bill Clinton that said you can take a pig out of Arkansas, but its still a pig. hahaha
Bet you really miss me. Post all the screw ball shit you want. I probably won't read it but I always laugh at the reactions. And at the fact that you are too ignorant to understand why you get those reactions. Reality must be distorted in the Barbie Doll Universe.
Thank you for sticking your piggy toes back in the pile. I missed you. Really. Naw. Not really. Maybe a teeny bit.
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- January 10, 2011 at 9:56 pm
I didn't read it last year. I wouldn't have read it this year. Your self centered ego is exceeded only by your waist line. Bah humbug to the xmas bs anyway. Was it Bill Clinton that said you can take a pig out of Arkansas, but its still a pig. hahaha
Bet you really miss me. Post all the screw ball shit you want. I probably won't read it but I always laugh at the reactions. And at the fact that you are too ignorant to understand why you get those reactions. Reality must be distorted in the Barbie Doll Universe.
Thank you for sticking your piggy toes back in the pile. I missed you. Really. Naw. Not really. Maybe a teeny bit.
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- January 12, 2011 at 3:58 pm
Get over yourself darling, really.
In your post you used the word "I" seven times and the word "me" six.
Grow a brain and get a clue – Christmas isn't about I/ME or even you.
And as for the poem, I find it rather depressing but I wouldn't have given a fig if it had been posted or not.
Truly, it's the New Year – get over your old self.
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- January 12, 2011 at 3:58 pm
Get over yourself darling, really.
In your post you used the word "I" seven times and the word "me" six.
Grow a brain and get a clue – Christmas isn't about I/ME or even you.
And as for the poem, I find it rather depressing but I wouldn't have given a fig if it had been posted or not.
Truly, it's the New Year – get over your old self.
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- January 13, 2011 at 1:07 am
It is and was a bad poem and I would have said so again. I do not care who posted it!!!!
It seems to me when Ii posted a parady of it on the dark side some people jump me for it and that just posted on the dark side. So yes it still is a bad poem with overtones I find supid and would say so again and again and again.
Allan
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- January 13, 2011 at 1:07 am
It is and was a bad poem and I would have said so again. I do not care who posted it!!!!
It seems to me when Ii posted a parady of it on the dark side some people jump me for it and that just posted on the dark side. So yes it still is a bad poem with overtones I find supid and would say so again and again and again.
Allan
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- January 14, 2011 at 2:09 pm
Why can't all you DS'ers create your own site and GET LOST!
You are not wanted here, truly!
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- January 14, 2011 at 3:32 pm
I is sooooo glad you guys know what you are talking about. or who you are talking about. Man do things go way over my poor shunted head.
BUT my earlid is still sticking on maybe sort of precariously but non the less with a little help from some new goop all shall be well.
And let it be known….I have finally graduated to oncology skin checks by the PMH crew to 12 months (after 7 years) but still have to see local derm every six months (who is local and not all the way to the beeeeg evvvvil city) so I am still ever watchful.
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- January 14, 2011 at 3:32 pm
I is sooooo glad you guys know what you are talking about. or who you are talking about. Man do things go way over my poor shunted head.
BUT my earlid is still sticking on maybe sort of precariously but non the less with a little help from some new goop all shall be well.
And let it be known….I have finally graduated to oncology skin checks by the PMH crew to 12 months (after 7 years) but still have to see local derm every six months (who is local and not all the way to the beeeeg evvvvil city) so I am still ever watchful.
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- January 14, 2011 at 3:47 pm
As if Anon's petty bullshi% is important now that breaking news has come to light ( and good thing I didn't run out and get a tattoo)… apparently…brace yourselves… we've all shifted astrologically. Shocking. I bet this makes Anon forget all about those nasty Darksiders.
The news is cataclysmic, I know. Well, actually, I have no idea what it really means-I have never followed Astrology. Seems my life was falsely shaped as as a Cancer Leo cusp…only to find I'm actually a Gemini/ Cancer! As I don't know what any of it means …I hope it's good news. What do you do if your b-day falls in BOTH signs-end of Gemini and beginning of Cancer. A quick looks showed my choice of jewels has doubled- how bad can it be?
your sign 2,000 years ago up until today…
Aries: March 21 – April 19
Taurus: April 20 – May 20
Gemini: May 21 – June 20
Cancer: June 21 – July 22
Leo: July 23 – August 22
Virgo: August 23 – September 22
Libra: September 23 – October 22
Scorpio: October 23 – November 21
Sagittarius: November 22 – December 21
Capricorn: December 22 – January 19
Aquarius: January 20 – February 18
Pisces: February 19 – March 20THE NEW CHART.
The new dates would therefore be:
Capricorn: Jan. 20-Feb. 16
Aquarius: Feb. 16-March 11
Pisces: March 11-April 18
Aries: April 18-May 13
Taurus: May 13-June 21
Gemini: June 21-July 20
Cancer: July 20-Aug. 10
Leo: Aug. 10-Sept. 16
Virgo: Sept. 16-Oct. 30
Libra: Oct. 30-Nov. 23
Scorpio: Nov. 23-Dec. 17
Sagittarius: Dec. 17-Jan. 20 -
- January 14, 2011 at 3:47 pm
As if Anon's petty bullshi% is important now that breaking news has come to light ( and good thing I didn't run out and get a tattoo)… apparently…brace yourselves… we've all shifted astrologically. Shocking. I bet this makes Anon forget all about those nasty Darksiders.
The news is cataclysmic, I know. Well, actually, I have no idea what it really means-I have never followed Astrology. Seems my life was falsely shaped as as a Cancer Leo cusp…only to find I'm actually a Gemini/ Cancer! As I don't know what any of it means …I hope it's good news. What do you do if your b-day falls in BOTH signs-end of Gemini and beginning of Cancer. A quick looks showed my choice of jewels has doubled- how bad can it be?
your sign 2,000 years ago up until today…
Aries: March 21 – April 19
Taurus: April 20 – May 20
Gemini: May 21 – June 20
Cancer: June 21 – July 22
Leo: July 23 – August 22
Virgo: August 23 – September 22
Libra: September 23 – October 22
Scorpio: October 23 – November 21
Sagittarius: November 22 – December 21
Capricorn: December 22 – January 19
Aquarius: January 20 – February 18
Pisces: February 19 – March 20THE NEW CHART.
The new dates would therefore be:
Capricorn: Jan. 20-Feb. 16
Aquarius: Feb. 16-March 11
Pisces: March 11-April 18
Aries: April 18-May 13
Taurus: May 13-June 21
Gemini: June 21-July 20
Cancer: July 20-Aug. 10
Leo: Aug. 10-Sept. 16
Virgo: Sept. 16-Oct. 30
Libra: Oct. 30-Nov. 23
Scorpio: Nov. 23-Dec. 17
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- January 14, 2011 at 3:53 pm
OH great balls of fire: I do not know what to do!!! ROX help HELP H E L P you and I are in the same boat, and it may have sprung a leak. July 17th is me. dunno about cusps (arent they teeth?) does that mean that I have a evil twin lurking out there now? If I am a gemini? I mean I was always a cancer crab now?
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- January 14, 2011 at 3:53 pm
OH great balls of fire: I do not know what to do!!! ROX help HELP H E L P you and I are in the same boat, and it may have sprung a leak. July 17th is me. dunno about cusps (arent they teeth?) does that mean that I have a evil twin lurking out there now? If I am a gemini? I mean I was always a cancer crab now?
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- January 14, 2011 at 3:55 pm
Is it those pesky Mayans fiddling with the calendars? or perhaps the illuminate? woe is me, Now my DD is not the scale of justice she is a VIRGO (NOT) my son and his rapier wit is now the scale of justice? hmmm and dear hubby, who was always the water bearer is now a cob of corn? this cannot be!
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- January 14, 2011 at 3:55 pm
Is it those pesky Mayans fiddling with the calendars? or perhaps the illuminate? woe is me, Now my DD is not the scale of justice she is a VIRGO (NOT) my son and his rapier wit is now the scale of justice? hmmm and dear hubby, who was always the water bearer is now a cob of corn? this cannot be!
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- January 14, 2011 at 4:01 pm
Well, after re-reading my last sentence, I went back to the sign charts to see if I could hope for improvement in my grammar and typing skills – no. Bummer. I feel sorry for * yous guys*–at least I'll have the sparkle and shimmer of all my jewelry choices to keep me happy! Sorry 🙁
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- January 14, 2011 at 4:01 pm
Well, after re-reading my last sentence, I went back to the sign charts to see if I could hope for improvement in my grammar and typing skills – no. Bummer. I feel sorry for * yous guys*–at least I'll have the sparkle and shimmer of all my jewelry choices to keep me happy! Sorry 🙁
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- January 14, 2011 at 6:07 pm
Your "new" chart is different from the one that I found. THAT one had a new sign – Ophiuchus. According to this chart, I went from Sagittarius to Ophiuchus.
Ophiuchus is a sign in the Sidereal Zodiac or 13-sign Zodiac, which is a moving Zodiac, as opposed to the Western fixed Zodiac. This moving Zodiac that acknowledges Ophiuchus has shifted almost one full sign from the fixed Zodiac, hence the "new" astrological sign dates:
Capricorn: Jan. 20 – Feb. 16
Aquarius: Feb. 16 – March 11
Pisces: March 11- April 18
Aries: April 18- May 13
Taurus: May 13- June 21
Gemini: June 21- July 20
Cancer: July 20- Aug. 10
Leo: Aug. 10- Sept. 16
Virgo: Sept. 16- Oct. 30
Libra: Oct. 30- Nov. 23
Scorpio: Nov. 23- Nov. 29
Ophiuchus: Nov. 29- Dec. 17
Sagittarius: Dec. 17- Jan. 20 -
- January 14, 2011 at 6:07 pm
Your "new" chart is different from the one that I found. THAT one had a new sign – Ophiuchus. According to this chart, I went from Sagittarius to Ophiuchus.
Ophiuchus is a sign in the Sidereal Zodiac or 13-sign Zodiac, which is a moving Zodiac, as opposed to the Western fixed Zodiac. This moving Zodiac that acknowledges Ophiuchus has shifted almost one full sign from the fixed Zodiac, hence the "new" astrological sign dates:
Capricorn: Jan. 20 – Feb. 16
Aquarius: Feb. 16 – March 11
Pisces: March 11- April 18
Aries: April 18- May 13
Taurus: May 13- June 21
Gemini: June 21- July 20
Cancer: July 20- Aug. 10
Leo: Aug. 10- Sept. 16
Virgo: Sept. 16- Oct. 30
Libra: Oct. 30- Nov. 23
Scorpio: Nov. 23- Nov. 29
Ophiuchus: Nov. 29- Dec. 17
Sagittarius: Dec. 17- Jan. 20
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- January 19, 2011 at 3:37 am
Oh, Lord.
To answer your questions: yes, we would have thought it was you. No, we were not itching to go on the warpath. If it had been done anonymously, we would have assumed it was you. Yes, it remains as offensive and out-of-place as before. And, no, we are not interested in reveling in your martyrdom.
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- January 19, 2011 at 3:37 am
Oh, Lord.
To answer your questions: yes, we would have thought it was you. No, we were not itching to go on the warpath. If it had been done anonymously, we would have assumed it was you. Yes, it remains as offensive and out-of-place as before. And, no, we are not interested in reveling in your martyrdom.
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- February 3, 2011 at 4:06 pm
* Who of you were *itching* and ready to go on the warpath, expecting I would post "My First Christmas In Heaven" on the main board? — Not I.
* If you had seen where I had posted it, would you have replied, like you did last year, with negative contempt and criticism? – No, but I would have posted an inappropriate photo of my…
* If you had seen it posted by someone else, would you have replied, like you did last year, with negative contempt and criticism? – I didn't reply to it last year with negative contempt (is there any other kind?) and criticism.
* if you had seen it posted anonymously, would you have assumed it was ME? – No.
* If you had seen it posted anonymously, AND assumed it was me, would you have replied, like you did last year, with negative contempt and criticism? – I would have, but I'd have used BillMFL's name to do it.
* If you had seen it posted anonymously, and didn't assume it was me (maybe thought it MIGHT be me)—- but knew it could be anybody, would you have replied, like you did last year, with negative contempt and criticism? – See above answer.
* Were you disappointed I didn't post it, because you wanted to reply, like you did last year, with negative contempt and criticism? – Are you nagging me?
* After a year, did you not give a rat either way whether I (or anyone) posted the poem or not? – This.
* After a year, did you reailize posting the simple poem was no biggy? At least not big enough to reply with negative contempt and criticism, and start a "war" on the main board and have it removed TWICE because it was posted? Did you realize a LOT of people were comforted by it, and decided, "Hey—if it helps others—or even ONE person, I'm not gonna start any crap."? – Will you please just post it?
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- February 3, 2011 at 4:11 pm
well, Mr. Yawn, I don't have a actual reply to your reply to the orig post, but I am sooooo glad to see you post. I am sooooo glad that you are still in the land of the living, where that may be be-foggles my poor tired brain. Have missed your input all over the place.
Hope all is well, in what ever land you may be in.
yours in absolute confusion still
Bonnie Lea some say I may be as bright as their boots but I note with dismay they are wearing concrete ones.
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- February 3, 2011 at 4:11 pm
well, Mr. Yawn, I don't have a actual reply to your reply to the orig post, but I am sooooo glad to see you post. I am sooooo glad that you are still in the land of the living, where that may be be-foggles my poor tired brain. Have missed your input all over the place.
Hope all is well, in what ever land you may be in.
yours in absolute confusion still
Bonnie Lea some say I may be as bright as their boots but I note with dismay they are wearing concrete ones.
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- February 3, 2011 at 4:06 pm
* Who of you were *itching* and ready to go on the warpath, expecting I would post "My First Christmas In Heaven" on the main board? — Not I.
* If you had seen where I had posted it, would you have replied, like you did last year, with negative contempt and criticism? – No, but I would have posted an inappropriate photo of my…
* If you had seen it posted by someone else, would you have replied, like you did last year, with negative contempt and criticism? – I didn't reply to it last year with negative contempt (is there any other kind?) and criticism.
* if you had seen it posted anonymously, would you have assumed it was ME? – No.
* If you had seen it posted anonymously, AND assumed it was me, would you have replied, like you did last year, with negative contempt and criticism? – I would have, but I'd have used BillMFL's name to do it.
* If you had seen it posted anonymously, and didn't assume it was me (maybe thought it MIGHT be me)—- but knew it could be anybody, would you have replied, like you did last year, with negative contempt and criticism? – See above answer.
* Were you disappointed I didn't post it, because you wanted to reply, like you did last year, with negative contempt and criticism? – Are you nagging me?
* After a year, did you not give a rat either way whether I (or anyone) posted the poem or not? – This.
* After a year, did you reailize posting the simple poem was no biggy? At least not big enough to reply with negative contempt and criticism, and start a "war" on the main board and have it removed TWICE because it was posted? Did you realize a LOT of people were comforted by it, and decided, "Hey—if it helps others—or even ONE person, I'm not gonna start any crap."? – Will you please just post it?
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- February 3, 2011 at 7:52 pm
Hi Lisa!
My opinion would be just as unpopular as it was last year. I would WONDER IF it was you but I wouldn't assume it was. I DID think of the poem this year. I liked it..it made me think of those that were here and are no longer. I'm aware most (including my FRIENDS) don't agree with me and that's OK. What I REALLY think is that the Holy Wars from last year were better than what is here now. :~) But, good to see you! Happy New Year.
Marie
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- February 3, 2011 at 7:52 pm
Hi Lisa!
My opinion would be just as unpopular as it was last year. I would WONDER IF it was you but I wouldn't assume it was. I DID think of the poem this year. I liked it..it made me think of those that were here and are no longer. I'm aware most (including my FRIENDS) don't agree with me and that's OK. What I REALLY think is that the Holy Wars from last year were better than what is here now. :~) But, good to see you! Happy New Year.
Marie
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- February 3, 2011 at 7:52 pm
Hi Lisa!
My opinion would be just as unpopular as it was last year. I would WONDER IF it was you but I wouldn't assume it was. I DID think of the poem this year. I liked it..it made me think of those that were here and are no longer. I'm aware most (including my FRIENDS) don't agree with me and that's OK. What I REALLY think is that the Holy Wars from last year were better than what is here now. :~) But, good to see you! Happy New Year.
Marie
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- February 3, 2011 at 7:52 pm
Hi Lisa!
My opinion would be just as unpopular as it was last year. I would WONDER IF it was you but I wouldn't assume it was. I DID think of the poem this year. I liked it..it made me think of those that were here and are no longer. I'm aware most (including my FRIENDS) don't agree with me and that's OK. What I REALLY think is that the Holy Wars from last year were better than what is here now. :~) But, good to see you! Happy New Year.
Marie
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- March 16, 2011 at 3:25 pm
Look at this.!! All my favorite people in one post. I have been missing everyone and all the fights, laughs, argurments and stories. The good old days. I hope everyone is happy and healthy. And if by chance you have found a new Venue to vent, how about sharing the link.
Nancy ( fattie)
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- March 16, 2011 at 3:31 pm
OH NANCLEE why fattie? good to see you again. So happy was I to get your words. How are you feeling? if there is another place to vent, I have not heard about it. (doubt they would wish me there anyhow) hahah someone tried recently but oh you can read about it for yourself.
good to have you back.
BonnieLea
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- March 16, 2011 at 3:31 pm
OH NANCLEE why fattie? good to see you again. So happy was I to get your words. How are you feeling? if there is another place to vent, I have not heard about it. (doubt they would wish me there anyhow) hahah someone tried recently but oh you can read about it for yourself.
good to have you back.
BonnieLea
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- March 16, 2011 at 3:25 pm
Look at this.!! All my favorite people in one post. I have been missing everyone and all the fights, laughs, argurments and stories. The good old days. I hope everyone is happy and healthy. And if by chance you have found a new Venue to vent, how about sharing the link.
Nancy ( fattie)
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