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Here we go again

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    btcedarr
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      I had a Stage 1b melanoma removed in October followed by a WLE and negative SLNB. I have been going to my dermatologist every 3 months. Last week she noticed a mole on my back that looked a bit inflamed and removed it for biopsy. She thinks it's "nothing", I heard that before! Lol! But, with my history she removed it. I keep reading that inflammation is a sign of melanoma. Is this always the case? And if it wasn't pink around the border 3 months ago, shouldn't be anything too advanced if it is, correct?

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        Janner
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          It isn't melanoma until they say it is.  Don't jump to conclusions!

          Janner
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            It isn't melanoma until they say it is.  Don't jump to conclusions!

            Janner
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              It isn't melanoma until they say it is.  Don't jump to conclusions!

              stars
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                Look, I think your reaction is perfectly normal – once you've been through the whole circus of an excision, diagnosis, WLE and in your case SLNB; it's only natural to feel very nervous at every biopsy. I remember being terrifed after every subsequent biopsy I had after I was diagnosed with melanoma. It's kind of a perfect storm where

                a) you're still a bit traumatised by all the cutting and worry just a few months earlier… thinking 'here we go again', just as you named your post

                b) the doctor is far more likely to excise/threshold of doubt is much lower, creating many more many opportunities for anxiety

                c) you've lost confidence in your body and know now that things can go wrong… so you're no longer a Pollyanna about these things

                However, realistically, it's more than likely nothing, like your doctor says. And if it is something, it's only three months worth of something, so something very early and treatable. You must be just days away from getting your biopsy results, I'm sure you'll be sighing a huge sigh of relief. Until then, there's not much you can do except keep busy and try keep your mind off it.

                  btcedarr
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                    Thank for the boost of confidence. I am hoping for the best and as you say, if anything, caught early….I called yesterday and they said the biopsy could take 3 weeks. I am trying not to think about it, but everytime my shirt brushes across that biopsy site, it is a reminder. 🙁

                    btcedarr
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                      Just heard from the dermatologist. Moderate to Severe Atypical Mole, but she got clear margins with the shave biopsy. Will go back for a punch to get 2mm margins just as a precaution.  Very relieved!!

                      keepthefaith11
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                        So glad to hear this! Now go and enjoy your weekend!

                        Annie

                        keepthefaith11
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                          So glad to hear this! Now go and enjoy your weekend!

                          Annie

                          keepthefaith11
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                            So glad to hear this! Now go and enjoy your weekend!

                            Annie

                            btcedarr
                            Participant

                              Thank you! You, too!

                              btcedarr
                              Participant

                                Thank you! You, too!

                                stars
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                                  Excellent. It will get easier over time. It's always a nightmare getting biopsies then waiting. Go enjoy life!

                                  stars
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                                    Excellent. It will get easier over time. It's always a nightmare getting biopsies then waiting. Go enjoy life!

                                    Mkelley1
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                                      You will be fine. I am also a stage 1b patient diagnosed last April.  If u ever want to discuss anything let me know, i think its good as patients to have pther people in your shoes going through the same thing.  My email is [email protected]

                                      Mkelley1
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                                        You will be fine. I am also a stage 1b patient diagnosed last April.  If u ever want to discuss anything let me know, i think its good as patients to have pther people in your shoes going through the same thing.  My email is [email protected]

                                        Mkelley1
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                                          You will be fine. I am also a stage 1b patient diagnosed last April.  If u ever want to discuss anything let me know, i think its good as patients to have pther people in your shoes going through the same thing.  My email is [email protected]

                                          stars
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                                            Excellent. It will get easier over time. It's always a nightmare getting biopsies then waiting. Go enjoy life!

                                            btcedarr
                                            Participant

                                              Thank you! You, too!

                                              btcedarr
                                              Participant

                                                Just heard from the dermatologist. Moderate to Severe Atypical Mole, but she got clear margins with the shave biopsy. Will go back for a punch to get 2mm margins just as a precaution.  Very relieved!!

                                                btcedarr
                                                Participant

                                                  Just heard from the dermatologist. Moderate to Severe Atypical Mole, but she got clear margins with the shave biopsy. Will go back for a punch to get 2mm margins just as a precaution.  Very relieved!!

                                                  btcedarr
                                                  Participant

                                                    Thank for the boost of confidence. I am hoping for the best and as you say, if anything, caught early….I called yesterday and they said the biopsy could take 3 weeks. I am trying not to think about it, but everytime my shirt brushes across that biopsy site, it is a reminder. 🙁

                                                    btcedarr
                                                    Participant

                                                      Thank for the boost of confidence. I am hoping for the best and as you say, if anything, caught early….I called yesterday and they said the biopsy could take 3 weeks. I am trying not to think about it, but everytime my shirt brushes across that biopsy site, it is a reminder. 🙁

                                                    stars
                                                    Participant

                                                      Look, I think your reaction is perfectly normal – once you've been through the whole circus of an excision, diagnosis, WLE and in your case SLNB; it's only natural to feel very nervous at every biopsy. I remember being terrifed after every subsequent biopsy I had after I was diagnosed with melanoma. It's kind of a perfect storm where

                                                      a) you're still a bit traumatised by all the cutting and worry just a few months earlier… thinking 'here we go again', just as you named your post

                                                      b) the doctor is far more likely to excise/threshold of doubt is much lower, creating many more many opportunities for anxiety

                                                      c) you've lost confidence in your body and know now that things can go wrong… so you're no longer a Pollyanna about these things

                                                      However, realistically, it's more than likely nothing, like your doctor says. And if it is something, it's only three months worth of something, so something very early and treatable. You must be just days away from getting your biopsy results, I'm sure you'll be sighing a huge sigh of relief. Until then, there's not much you can do except keep busy and try keep your mind off it.

                                                      stars
                                                      Participant

                                                        Look, I think your reaction is perfectly normal – once you've been through the whole circus of an excision, diagnosis, WLE and in your case SLNB; it's only natural to feel very nervous at every biopsy. I remember being terrifed after every subsequent biopsy I had after I was diagnosed with melanoma. It's kind of a perfect storm where

                                                        a) you're still a bit traumatised by all the cutting and worry just a few months earlier… thinking 'here we go again', just as you named your post

                                                        b) the doctor is far more likely to excise/threshold of doubt is much lower, creating many more many opportunities for anxiety

                                                        c) you've lost confidence in your body and know now that things can go wrong… so you're no longer a Pollyanna about these things

                                                        However, realistically, it's more than likely nothing, like your doctor says. And if it is something, it's only three months worth of something, so something very early and treatable. You must be just days away from getting your biopsy results, I'm sure you'll be sighing a huge sigh of relief. Until then, there's not much you can do except keep busy and try keep your mind off it.

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