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Do you ever just want to quit the drugs???

Forums General Melanoma Community Do you ever just want to quit the drugs???

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    jaco
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      I'm having one of those days where I'm just tired of all the drugs- I'm Stage 4 and they have me on the Combo drugs.  I'm into my 3rd month and yes they have reduced the tumor under my arm.  But now eating a hole in my stomach- ulcer.  The pain I get with that is nuts!! Burning, nothing seems to help.  They have me on an ulcer med- not working – I see my Oncologist this week so we will try something else.  I just hate all the drugs.  I was never one to grab a pill, tried to stay away.  I just get mad, oh ya don't you just hate cancer it sucks  Do you ever wonder what would happen if we just quit it all, yes I know what would happen, but eventually we all die. I'm just having a "pitty party" and tomorrow will be better.  Sometimes just hard to say to my family that I just want to quit, I now you will understand.  Tomorrow will be great!!! Thanks for letting me vent.

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        gregor913
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          No keep on fighting. End your pity party. Remember your a melanoma warriars and warriars don’t quit.
            Scooby123
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              I agree never nerver give up . Keep fighting.

              scooby

              Scooby123
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                I agree never nerver give up . Keep fighting.

                scooby

                Scooby123
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                  I agree never nerver give up . Keep fighting.

                  scooby

                gregor913
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                  No keep on fighting. End your pity party. Remember your a melanoma warriars and warriars don’t quit.
                  gregor913
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                    No keep on fighting. End your pity party. Remember your a melanoma warriars and warriars don’t quit.
                    mjanssentx
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                      Jaco – I hear you bud.  I am probably the last guy on the planet to still be doing Interferon (and for those newbies here…Interferon was the only approved treatment a year ago for Stage 3A patients with the primary clinical benefit of delaying reoccurrence by 6 months).  

                      I have 5 more shots to go…and it hasn't been fun (I can probably name off 20 side effects without even trying hard).  BUT I made the decision to do something and set my site on completing the task and so far I am NED 13 months later.  

                      Make sure you are talking to your doctors and nurses…let them help you through the process but in the end you have to own the process.

                      Keep up the good fight.

                      Michel

                      mjanssentx
                      Participant

                        Jaco – I hear you bud.  I am probably the last guy on the planet to still be doing Interferon (and for those newbies here…Interferon was the only approved treatment a year ago for Stage 3A patients with the primary clinical benefit of delaying reoccurrence by 6 months).  

                        I have 5 more shots to go…and it hasn't been fun (I can probably name off 20 side effects without even trying hard).  BUT I made the decision to do something and set my site on completing the task and so far I am NED 13 months later.  

                        Make sure you are talking to your doctors and nurses…let them help you through the process but in the end you have to own the process.

                        Keep up the good fight.

                        Michel

                        mjanssentx
                        Participant

                          Jaco – I hear you bud.  I am probably the last guy on the planet to still be doing Interferon (and for those newbies here…Interferon was the only approved treatment a year ago for Stage 3A patients with the primary clinical benefit of delaying reoccurrence by 6 months).  

                          I have 5 more shots to go…and it hasn't been fun (I can probably name off 20 side effects without even trying hard).  BUT I made the decision to do something and set my site on completing the task and so far I am NED 13 months later.  

                          Make sure you are talking to your doctors and nurses…let them help you through the process but in the end you have to own the process.

                          Keep up the good fight.

                          Michel

                          JustMeInCA
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                            My dad chose to stop his infusions because the side effects were severely affecting his quality of life, and after three rounds of Ipi, four of Keytruda and two of Opdivo, the cancer was still growing. That was nine months ago that he stopped, and he's still here, though he never fully recovered from all those treatments. So, I do think it's a legitimate question. But obviously, if the drugs are working, then it's a no-brainer.

                            JustMeInCA
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                              My dad chose to stop his infusions because the side effects were severely affecting his quality of life, and after three rounds of Ipi, four of Keytruda and two of Opdivo, the cancer was still growing. That was nine months ago that he stopped, and he's still here, though he never fully recovered from all those treatments. So, I do think it's a legitimate question. But obviously, if the drugs are working, then it's a no-brainer.

                              JustMeInCA
                              Participant

                                My dad chose to stop his infusions because the side effects were severely affecting his quality of life, and after three rounds of Ipi, four of Keytruda and two of Opdivo, the cancer was still growing. That was nine months ago that he stopped, and he's still here, though he never fully recovered from all those treatments. So, I do think it's a legitimate question. But obviously, if the drugs are working, then it's a no-brainer.

                                Squash
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                                  You always have to way up the pros and cons of treatments.

                                  I would quit Keytruda if the quality of life was degraded to the point where i couldnt enjoy a near normal life style.

                                  No one knows how much time they have left whether they take the drugs or dont take them so you need to take this into account.

                                   

                                   

                                   

                                   

                                  Squash
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                                    You always have to way up the pros and cons of treatments.

                                    I would quit Keytruda if the quality of life was degraded to the point where i couldnt enjoy a near normal life style.

                                    No one knows how much time they have left whether they take the drugs or dont take them so you need to take this into account.

                                     

                                     

                                     

                                     

                                    Squash
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                                      You always have to way up the pros and cons of treatments.

                                      I would quit Keytruda if the quality of life was degraded to the point where i couldnt enjoy a near normal life style.

                                      No one knows how much time they have left whether they take the drugs or dont take them so you need to take this into account.

                                       

                                       

                                       

                                       

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