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    • October 30, 2011 at 1:46 pm
    nickmac56
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      Melanoma presents in nasty and unpredictable ways. Yesterday my wife had severe headache and it couldn’t be controlled through pain meds, especially when she became nauseous. When you are multi-symptomatic and have multiple areas of cancer involvement and treatment its really hard to figure out cause and effect. Eventually I got her to ER, where a CT scan revealed overly large ventricles due to excess spinal fluid – water on the brain. After a horrible pain filled evening she’s now resting and the pain is under control through IV drip.

      So our Sunday now turns to how to relieve the pressure (lumbar tap?), what is causing it (cancer cells in spinal fluid, one of her new tumors?), and how to address (different chemo, direct chemo to spinal fluid, shunt to drain fluid). Difficult issues the neurosurgeon, neurologist and oncologist will tackle. Its complicated by her low blood counts from chemo.

      An ugly turn of events.

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        • October 30, 2011 at 3:34 pm
        MichaelFL
        Participant

          I really feel for the two of you, this really does not want to give her a break.

          • October 30, 2011 at 3:34 pm
          MichaelFL
          Participant

            I really feel for the two of you, this really does not want to give her a break.

              • October 30, 2011 at 3:49 pm
              Gene_S
              Participant

                So sorry to hear.  I hope they can find something to help her quickly.  Plus a treatment that will work to help her overcome this nasty beast.  Prayers being sent your way for the family and her.

                • October 30, 2011 at 3:49 pm
                Gene_S
                Participant

                  So sorry to hear.  I hope they can find something to help her quickly.  Plus a treatment that will work to help her overcome this nasty beast.  Prayers being sent your way for the family and her.

                  • October 30, 2011 at 3:49 pm
                  Gene_S
                  Participant

                    So sorry to hear.  I hope they can find something to help her quickly.  Plus a treatment that will work to help her overcome this nasty beast.  Prayers being sent your way for the family and her.

                  • October 30, 2011 at 3:34 pm
                  MichaelFL
                  Participant

                    I really feel for the two of you, this really does not want to give her a break.

                    • October 30, 2011 at 8:09 pm
                    jax2007gxp
                    Participant

                      So many prayers for her relief and a solution!

                      • October 30, 2011 at 8:09 pm
                      jax2007gxp
                      Participant

                        So many prayers for her relief and a solution!

                        • October 30, 2011 at 8:09 pm
                        jax2007gxp
                        Participant

                          So many prayers for her relief and a solution!

                          • October 30, 2011 at 9:05 pm
                          CarolA
                          Participant

                            Just another post of caring and concern over your wife's situation.    I think someone  has said it best that there just doesn't seem to be a break coming your way.    I offer my prayers for your wife, and for her medical team's guidance to help her, to gain some kind of control ahead of this cruel beast.

                            Carol A – Stage III

                            Amherst, NY

                              • October 30, 2011 at 10:03 pm
                              NYKaren
                              Participant

                                Please know that I too am thinking of you both.

                                 

                                karen

                                • October 30, 2011 at 10:03 pm
                                NYKaren
                                Participant

                                  Please know that I too am thinking of you both.

                                   

                                  karen

                                  • October 30, 2011 at 10:03 pm
                                  NYKaren
                                  Participant

                                    Please know that I too am thinking of you both.

                                     

                                    karen

                                    • October 31, 2011 at 12:09 am
                                    deardad
                                    Participant

                                      Im sorry to hear how much you and your wife are going through.

                                      My thoughts are with you.

                                      Nahmi from Melbourne

                                      • October 31, 2011 at 12:09 am
                                      deardad
                                      Participant

                                        Im sorry to hear how much you and your wife are going through.

                                        My thoughts are with you.

                                        Nahmi from Melbourne

                                        • October 31, 2011 at 2:33 am
                                        nickmac56
                                        Participant
                                          Thank you all for your care, concern and support.
                                          • October 31, 2011 at 2:33 am
                                          nickmac56
                                          Participant
                                            Thank you all for your care, concern and support.
                                            • October 31, 2011 at 2:33 am
                                            nickmac56
                                            Participant
                                              Thank you all for your care, concern and support.
                                              • October 31, 2011 at 12:09 am
                                              deardad
                                              Participant

                                                Im sorry to hear how much you and your wife are going through.

                                                My thoughts are with you.

                                                Nahmi from Melbourne

                                              • October 30, 2011 at 9:05 pm
                                              CarolA
                                              Participant

                                                Just another post of caring and concern over your wife's situation.    I think someone  has said it best that there just doesn't seem to be a break coming your way.    I offer my prayers for your wife, and for her medical team's guidance to help her, to gain some kind of control ahead of this cruel beast.

                                                Carol A – Stage III

                                                Amherst, NY

                                                • October 30, 2011 at 9:05 pm
                                                CarolA
                                                Participant

                                                  Just another post of caring and concern over your wife's situation.    I think someone  has said it best that there just doesn't seem to be a break coming your way.    I offer my prayers for your wife, and for her medical team's guidance to help her, to gain some kind of control ahead of this cruel beast.

                                                  Carol A – Stage III

                                                  Amherst, NY

                                                  • October 31, 2011 at 3:12 am
                                                  jag
                                                  Participant

                                                    Nicmac, 

                                                    I am sorry that things don't seem to be getting better, but it is good that you have hope.

                                                    You both are in my prayers.

                                                    John

                                                    • October 31, 2011 at 3:12 am
                                                    jag
                                                    Participant

                                                      Nicmac, 

                                                      I am sorry that things don't seem to be getting better, but it is good that you have hope.

                                                      You both are in my prayers.

                                                      John

                                                      • October 31, 2011 at 3:12 am
                                                      jag
                                                      Participant

                                                        Nicmac, 

                                                        I am sorry that things don't seem to be getting better, but it is good that you have hope.

                                                        You both are in my prayers.

                                                        John

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