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    Sara.Alexander
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      In August of 2009 I had my annual full-body skin check. My doctor chose to biopsy 4 moles as a precaution but told me I had nothing to worry about. The results were not expected as 1 was melanoma, 1 was pre-cancer, and 2 were severe atypia. Based on those, she did another biopsy which came back as melanoma insitu. I’ve since had over 50 biopsies with everyone coming back atypical. I just had my 6 month skin check and I pointed out 2 moles that concerned me. The doctor was not concerned but did biopsy one of them as a precaution. Needless to say it was melanoma insitu. So I’ve now had 3 melanomas in 6 years and I just turned 37. I have also been diagnosed with dysplastic nevi syndrome. I go back for my 3 month skin check in 2 weeks and I’m scared. I feel like there’s more I can or should be doing. I’m the only patient like me for my dermatologist. I love her and don’t want to leaver her practice, but I wonder if I should see someone else in addition as none of my moles looked like melanoma and the doctor was surprised by the pathology results. I live about 50 miles from Baltimore and Washington DC. I plan to discuss this with my doctor, but would appreciate feedback and suggestions on doctors as well as how to proceed prior to seeing her.

      Thank you in advance,
      Sara

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        Bobman
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          Hi Sara,

          I also have DNS,and can relate to your experience .  I have had 9 primaries  to date ,and not one of them looked like the classic  pictures  of melanoma  either. Out of the 9, 7 were found by me. I have learned to push for biopsies on what I feel  to be changing , or new lesions , even when whoever  is looking  at it thinks it's nothing  to worry  about .  After nine wide excisions  I   have a pretty  good idea of what is "normal  " for me.  None of my practitioners  have seen anything  like I am producing  either.

          I have had to change dermatologist  before , as one wouldn't  remove  what I wanted off,and that's fine. If they won't  work with you,find someone  who will. It sounds like you have that in place though. I actually  get more biopsies  done these days from my nurse practitioner , who knows me well. When I call her and say I need a biopsy , or two, it's done within a few days , and if need be I'm on the surgeons  table a few days  after that. So having someone  who knows  you,and will listen to you is crucial  on this road. I still go to a dermatologist every few months , but in between  visits  with new lesions  coming up,I'm quick to get to my NP.  Also   the nearest  dermatologist  that accepts  my insurance  is on a different  island , so it's not very convenient  to fly over for to Oahu for a biopsy  when I can get that where I live.

          Aloha , 

          Bob

          Bobman
          Participant

            Hi Sara,

            I also have DNS,and can relate to your experience .  I have had 9 primaries  to date ,and not one of them looked like the classic  pictures  of melanoma  either. Out of the 9, 7 were found by me. I have learned to push for biopsies on what I feel  to be changing , or new lesions , even when whoever  is looking  at it thinks it's nothing  to worry  about .  After nine wide excisions  I   have a pretty  good idea of what is "normal  " for me.  None of my practitioners  have seen anything  like I am producing  either.

            I have had to change dermatologist  before , as one wouldn't  remove  what I wanted off,and that's fine. If they won't  work with you,find someone  who will. It sounds like you have that in place though. I actually  get more biopsies  done these days from my nurse practitioner , who knows me well. When I call her and say I need a biopsy , or two, it's done within a few days , and if need be I'm on the surgeons  table a few days  after that. So having someone  who knows  you,and will listen to you is crucial  on this road. I still go to a dermatologist every few months , but in between  visits  with new lesions  coming up,I'm quick to get to my NP.  Also   the nearest  dermatologist  that accepts  my insurance  is on a different  island , so it's not very convenient  to fly over for to Oahu for a biopsy  when I can get that where I live.

            Aloha , 

            Bob

            Bobman
            Participant

              Hi Sara,

              I also have DNS,and can relate to your experience .  I have had 9 primaries  to date ,and not one of them looked like the classic  pictures  of melanoma  either. Out of the 9, 7 were found by me. I have learned to push for biopsies on what I feel  to be changing , or new lesions , even when whoever  is looking  at it thinks it's nothing  to worry  about .  After nine wide excisions  I   have a pretty  good idea of what is "normal  " for me.  None of my practitioners  have seen anything  like I am producing  either.

              I have had to change dermatologist  before , as one wouldn't  remove  what I wanted off,and that's fine. If they won't  work with you,find someone  who will. It sounds like you have that in place though. I actually  get more biopsies  done these days from my nurse practitioner , who knows me well. When I call her and say I need a biopsy , or two, it's done within a few days , and if need be I'm on the surgeons  table a few days  after that. So having someone  who knows  you,and will listen to you is crucial  on this road. I still go to a dermatologist every few months , but in between  visits  with new lesions  coming up,I'm quick to get to my NP.  Also   the nearest  dermatologist  that accepts  my insurance  is on a different  island , so it's not very convenient  to fly over for to Oahu for a biopsy  when I can get that where I live.

              Aloha , 

              Bob

              Bobman
              Participant

                P.S.

                My surgeon  gave me some good advice  about the DNS…."surveillance , surveillance , surveillance . ….and biopsy  anything  that even thinks of changing!" It's what I live by these days .  Even with hundreds  of  spots to monitor , some just grab your  attention . ..and those gotta go. 

                Sounds to me like you are doing just that. Stay vigilant ! 

                Bob

                Bobman
                Participant

                  P.S.

                  My surgeon  gave me some good advice  about the DNS…."surveillance , surveillance , surveillance . ….and biopsy  anything  that even thinks of changing!" It's what I live by these days .  Even with hundreds  of  spots to monitor , some just grab your  attention . ..and those gotta go. 

                  Sounds to me like you are doing just that. Stay vigilant ! 

                  Bob

                  Bobman
                  Participant

                    P.S.

                    My surgeon  gave me some good advice  about the DNS…."surveillance , surveillance , surveillance . ….and biopsy  anything  that even thinks of changing!" It's what I live by these days .  Even with hundreds  of  spots to monitor , some just grab your  attention . ..and those gotta go. 

                    Sounds to me like you are doing just that. Stay vigilant ! 

                    Bob

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                      Hi – I only count two melanomas, both in situ – 'pre cancer' means nothing, it's either in situ melanoma or it's not. Anyway, you are not alone – plenty of MRF MPIPers have had more than one thin melanoma – Janner for one, myself for another. Both of your melanomas have been in situ with NO repeat NO metastatic potential. This is great news! Best option: no melanoma. Second best: in situ. Be positive!

                      Your action plan, gold standard:

                      regular skin checks – done!

                      watch for change – done!

                      watch your mind for unhelpful thinking/consider counselling for anxiety – not done – maybe something for you to consider.

                      You could at a certain point request genetic testing to see if you have some high probability of continually developing melanoma – but if you can explain your melanoma through childhood sun exposure (which I can), then why bother? Janner has had this testing and (I hope I'm not wrong) she is not a huge advocate for it because it doesn't really change the game plan at all.

                      You really are on top of this situation. It's not an ideal situation but it's the cross we bear. For peace of mind, go get a second opinion/2nd full skin check – this will give you EITHER peace of mind OR a conclusive idea about the need to change to another doctor/derm.

                      stars
                      Participant

                        Hi – I only count two melanomas, both in situ – 'pre cancer' means nothing, it's either in situ melanoma or it's not. Anyway, you are not alone – plenty of MRF MPIPers have had more than one thin melanoma – Janner for one, myself for another. Both of your melanomas have been in situ with NO repeat NO metastatic potential. This is great news! Best option: no melanoma. Second best: in situ. Be positive!

                        Your action plan, gold standard:

                        regular skin checks – done!

                        watch for change – done!

                        watch your mind for unhelpful thinking/consider counselling for anxiety – not done – maybe something for you to consider.

                        You could at a certain point request genetic testing to see if you have some high probability of continually developing melanoma – but if you can explain your melanoma through childhood sun exposure (which I can), then why bother? Janner has had this testing and (I hope I'm not wrong) she is not a huge advocate for it because it doesn't really change the game plan at all.

                        You really are on top of this situation. It's not an ideal situation but it's the cross we bear. For peace of mind, go get a second opinion/2nd full skin check – this will give you EITHER peace of mind OR a conclusive idea about the need to change to another doctor/derm.

                        stars
                        Participant

                          Hi – I only count two melanomas, both in situ – 'pre cancer' means nothing, it's either in situ melanoma or it's not. Anyway, you are not alone – plenty of MRF MPIPers have had more than one thin melanoma – Janner for one, myself for another. Both of your melanomas have been in situ with NO repeat NO metastatic potential. This is great news! Best option: no melanoma. Second best: in situ. Be positive!

                          Your action plan, gold standard:

                          regular skin checks – done!

                          watch for change – done!

                          watch your mind for unhelpful thinking/consider counselling for anxiety – not done – maybe something for you to consider.

                          You could at a certain point request genetic testing to see if you have some high probability of continually developing melanoma – but if you can explain your melanoma through childhood sun exposure (which I can), then why bother? Janner has had this testing and (I hope I'm not wrong) she is not a huge advocate for it because it doesn't really change the game plan at all.

                          You really are on top of this situation. It's not an ideal situation but it's the cross we bear. For peace of mind, go get a second opinion/2nd full skin check – this will give you EITHER peace of mind OR a conclusive idea about the need to change to another doctor/derm.

                          Everymoment
                          Participant
                            It took me a long time to change dermatologist. I had this weird loyalty because I don’t want to disappoint. Well, I got over that after going through some tough times!!!! Now I have an awesome dermatologist who is one step ahead. Keep changing until you find that dermatologist!
                            Everymoment
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                              It took me a long time to change dermatologist. I had this weird loyalty because I don’t want to disappoint. Well, I got over that after going through some tough times!!!! Now I have an awesome dermatologist who is one step ahead. Keep changing until you find that dermatologist!
                              Everymoment
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                                It took me a long time to change dermatologist. I had this weird loyalty because I don’t want to disappoint. Well, I got over that after going through some tough times!!!! Now I have an awesome dermatologist who is one step ahead. Keep changing until you find that dermatologist!
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