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Mucosal Melanoma Newly Diagnosed

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    HZol
    Participant
      Hello, My name is Heidi and I’m very new. I had a tumor removed from my vaginal area last month…for 3 months we thought it was a cyst and waited for it to go away, well it more than tripled in size in the month of March so on April 15th, had it surgically removed and biopsied by my gyno. The next week, we got the call…vulvar mucosal melanoma. Since then, its been oncologists and pet scans and brain MRIs. Pet scan…negative. Brain MRI negative. The tumor level was T4b which apparently is deep so they are doing a sentinel node biopsy as its “probable there could be node involvement”. June 6th is radical vulvectomy for clear margins and node biopsy to stage me and create treatment regiment..my situation is extremely unique as I just had my right leg amputated last summer (from a role swing accident)…and the cancer is on my right side, therefore node biopsy will be on right… originally my oncologist was concerned how node involvement would affect my limb (lymphedema) and future prosthetic wear so they suggested I wait for biospy…then another oncologist suggested due to depth of tumor, we should biospy. We eventually decided to just do the biopsy during the cancer resecction surgery, as this mucosal stuff can be microscopically present and not be detected by the pet scan. … What questions should I ask at this point? Our heads are spinning and not straight so I don’t want to miss things. Any input would be greatly appreciated.
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        jyc
        Participant

          Hi Heidi, my father has been wrestling with mucosal melanoma since 2007.  One tip I can share is to ask the oncologist to see if what sort of genentic testing on the tissue they're removing.  For instance, there's a mutation called cKit that appears more frequently in mucosal melanoma than other forms which can be used in treatment.  I would also suggest, if you weren't already, seek treatment at a major cancer center because the doctors there have wider access to treatments and facilities and knowledge and experience.  Hope those tips help.

          J

          jyc
          Participant

            Hi Heidi, my father has been wrestling with mucosal melanoma since 2007.  One tip I can share is to ask the oncologist to see if what sort of genentic testing on the tissue they're removing.  For instance, there's a mutation called cKit that appears more frequently in mucosal melanoma than other forms which can be used in treatment.  I would also suggest, if you weren't already, seek treatment at a major cancer center because the doctors there have wider access to treatments and facilities and knowledge and experience.  Hope those tips help.

            J

              HZol
              Participant
                Thank you so much for the info. Everything helps at this point and I appreciate your input. I am at a cancer center across state that has treated this cancer numerous times …I have a multi specialty team with four oncologists involved so I am in great hands.
                HZol
                Participant
                  Thank you so much for the info. Everything helps at this point and I appreciate your input. I am at a cancer center across state that has treated this cancer numerous times …I have a multi specialty team with four oncologists involved so I am in great hands.
                  HZol
                  Participant
                    Thank you so much for the info. Everything helps at this point and I appreciate your input. I am at a cancer center across state that has treated this cancer numerous times …I have a multi specialty team with four oncologists involved so I am in great hands.
                  jyc
                  Participant

                    Hi Heidi, my father has been wrestling with mucosal melanoma since 2007.  One tip I can share is to ask the oncologist to see if what sort of genentic testing on the tissue they're removing.  For instance, there's a mutation called cKit that appears more frequently in mucosal melanoma than other forms which can be used in treatment.  I would also suggest, if you weren't already, seek treatment at a major cancer center because the doctors there have wider access to treatments and facilities and knowledge and experience.  Hope those tips help.

                    J

                    Lori Ann
                    Participant

                      Hi Heidi!  My name is Lori and I was diagnosed in December, 2014 with mucosal melanoma of the nasal/sinus cavity.  I had a polyp removed in my right nostril which turned out to be the melanoma.  I underwent 6 weeks of radiation.  As you say, this stuff can be microscopic and I had a PET scan in December that didn't show anything.  In April, I had my next PET scan and there was another tumor at the back of my nose and there was concern about some lymph nodes in my neck.  The tumor was removed and 16 lymph nodes – the lymph nodes were negative.  I just got back from my doctor who is recommending immunotherapy.  It's 4 infusions – one every 3 weeks.  Originally, I went on the American Cancer Society website under Finding Support and Treatment there are lists of questions to ask your doctor.  I asked my doctor how many cases of mucosal melanoma has he treated, since it's so rare.  I asked him how those patients are doing now.  Did they have the same immunotherapy treatment?  I always ask my doctor if he would recommend this treatment/surgery to a family member.  I think whatever "pops" into your head, you ask.  You have to be your own advocate.  I asked about what side effects go away and what may be permanent.  What are they recommending for adjuvant treament?  What happens if you don't follow their recommendation?  I try to write up a list of questions and then, whatever pops into my head I ask too.  Make sur eyou have someone with you too.  It helps to have an extra set of ears….  Sometimes I don't quite understand what he's explaining.  cheeky

                        HZol
                        Participant
                          They have suggested id receive immunotherapy but we are still staging, so its all dependent on what we find. You’ve made some wonderful suggestions. I’m screenshotting your questions to ask…thanking you!!!!
                          HZol
                          Participant
                            They have suggested id receive immunotherapy but we are still staging, so its all dependent on what we find. You’ve made some wonderful suggestions. I’m screenshotting your questions to ask…thanking you!!!!
                            HZol
                            Participant
                              They have suggested id receive immunotherapy but we are still staging, so its all dependent on what we find. You’ve made some wonderful suggestions. I’m screenshotting your questions to ask…thanking you!!!!
                            Lori Ann
                            Participant

                              Hi Heidi!  My name is Lori and I was diagnosed in December, 2014 with mucosal melanoma of the nasal/sinus cavity.  I had a polyp removed in my right nostril which turned out to be the melanoma.  I underwent 6 weeks of radiation.  As you say, this stuff can be microscopic and I had a PET scan in December that didn't show anything.  In April, I had my next PET scan and there was another tumor at the back of my nose and there was concern about some lymph nodes in my neck.  The tumor was removed and 16 lymph nodes – the lymph nodes were negative.  I just got back from my doctor who is recommending immunotherapy.  It's 4 infusions – one every 3 weeks.  Originally, I went on the American Cancer Society website under Finding Support and Treatment there are lists of questions to ask your doctor.  I asked my doctor how many cases of mucosal melanoma has he treated, since it's so rare.  I asked him how those patients are doing now.  Did they have the same immunotherapy treatment?  I always ask my doctor if he would recommend this treatment/surgery to a family member.  I think whatever "pops" into your head, you ask.  You have to be your own advocate.  I asked about what side effects go away and what may be permanent.  What are they recommending for adjuvant treament?  What happens if you don't follow their recommendation?  I try to write up a list of questions and then, whatever pops into my head I ask too.  Make sur eyou have someone with you too.  It helps to have an extra set of ears….  Sometimes I don't quite understand what he's explaining.  cheeky

                              Lori Ann
                              Participant

                                Hi Heidi!  My name is Lori and I was diagnosed in December, 2014 with mucosal melanoma of the nasal/sinus cavity.  I had a polyp removed in my right nostril which turned out to be the melanoma.  I underwent 6 weeks of radiation.  As you say, this stuff can be microscopic and I had a PET scan in December that didn't show anything.  In April, I had my next PET scan and there was another tumor at the back of my nose and there was concern about some lymph nodes in my neck.  The tumor was removed and 16 lymph nodes – the lymph nodes were negative.  I just got back from my doctor who is recommending immunotherapy.  It's 4 infusions – one every 3 weeks.  Originally, I went on the American Cancer Society website under Finding Support and Treatment there are lists of questions to ask your doctor.  I asked my doctor how many cases of mucosal melanoma has he treated, since it's so rare.  I asked him how those patients are doing now.  Did they have the same immunotherapy treatment?  I always ask my doctor if he would recommend this treatment/surgery to a family member.  I think whatever "pops" into your head, you ask.  You have to be your own advocate.  I asked about what side effects go away and what may be permanent.  What are they recommending for adjuvant treament?  What happens if you don't follow their recommendation?  I try to write up a list of questions and then, whatever pops into my head I ask too.  Make sur eyou have someone with you too.  It helps to have an extra set of ears….  Sometimes I don't quite understand what he's explaining.  cheeky

                                CHD
                                Participant

                                  Hi Heidi,

                                  I have had 3 vulvectomies since 2013 for vulvar mucosal melanoma, the first right sided radical with clitorectomy, and the second two left.  I did write something on vulvectomy over at Cancer Forums (CheriD is my user name there) if you are interested.  I started that thread hoping to help other women going through vulvectomies, so it is my experience through the 3 surgeries basically.

                                  My melanoma was superficial spreading and fairly thin (1 mm) but I also had regression, which means there is no way to know how deep it may have been.  It had probably been there years before I finally discovered it.  I had bilateral sentinel lymph node inguinal biopsies and both were clear, and my last PET CT in June last year was clear.  A year after my first radical vulvectomy, melanoma in situ was discovered on the opposite side so I had a partial left side vulvectomy in 2014.  A few weeks ago I celebrated my third year, since initial diagnosis, of having no sign of disease.

                                  I agree with the recommendation to be seen at melanoma specialty center if at all possible.  A resource for this: http://melanomainternational.org/web-resources/cancer-centers/

                                  As far as questions, I can't think of anything you haven't already mentioned, but in addition to being seen by a melanoma specialist, my recommendation, in hindsight, is to realize that you may be called on to advocate for yourself and will sometimes need to be assertive.  You are your own best advocate!  Make sure you are getting results back in a timely manner, that followup appointments are made, that it is clear who will be following you and how often.  So far, it sounds like your care has been excellent.  I was lucky and overall, with a few little glitches, mine was, too.   As above, you may want to ask about the C-kit mutation and what other things might be considered now in case you need treatment in the future,  The fact that your PET and MRI are clear is very good!  I hope your nodes will be clear as well, in which case there are people here who have been followed closely for quite a few years with mucosal melanoma with such a diagnosis.  As I said, I am at 3 years as of May 6.  And in fact, there are people on this forum who have done well for years now with lymph node involvement/stage 3 at initial diagnosis, and it seems to me that this is a more hopeful time than ever before in the treatment of melanoma of any type.

                                  Good luck to you! 

                                  Cheri

                                  CHD
                                  Participant

                                    Hi Heidi,

                                    I have had 3 vulvectomies since 2013 for vulvar mucosal melanoma, the first right sided radical with clitorectomy, and the second two left.  I did write something on vulvectomy over at Cancer Forums (CheriD is my user name there) if you are interested.  I started that thread hoping to help other women going through vulvectomies, so it is my experience through the 3 surgeries basically.

                                    My melanoma was superficial spreading and fairly thin (1 mm) but I also had regression, which means there is no way to know how deep it may have been.  It had probably been there years before I finally discovered it.  I had bilateral sentinel lymph node inguinal biopsies and both were clear, and my last PET CT in June last year was clear.  A year after my first radical vulvectomy, melanoma in situ was discovered on the opposite side so I had a partial left side vulvectomy in 2014.  A few weeks ago I celebrated my third year, since initial diagnosis, of having no sign of disease.

                                    I agree with the recommendation to be seen at melanoma specialty center if at all possible.  A resource for this: http://melanomainternational.org/web-resources/cancer-centers/

                                    As far as questions, I can't think of anything you haven't already mentioned, but in addition to being seen by a melanoma specialist, my recommendation, in hindsight, is to realize that you may be called on to advocate for yourself and will sometimes need to be assertive.  You are your own best advocate!  Make sure you are getting results back in a timely manner, that followup appointments are made, that it is clear who will be following you and how often.  So far, it sounds like your care has been excellent.  I was lucky and overall, with a few little glitches, mine was, too.   As above, you may want to ask about the C-kit mutation and what other things might be considered now in case you need treatment in the future,  The fact that your PET and MRI are clear is very good!  I hope your nodes will be clear as well, in which case there are people here who have been followed closely for quite a few years with mucosal melanoma with such a diagnosis.  As I said, I am at 3 years as of May 6.  And in fact, there are people on this forum who have done well for years now with lymph node involvement/stage 3 at initial diagnosis, and it seems to me that this is a more hopeful time than ever before in the treatment of melanoma of any type.

                                    Good luck to you! 

                                    Cheri

                                    CHD
                                    Participant

                                      Hi Heidi,

                                      I have had 3 vulvectomies since 2013 for vulvar mucosal melanoma, the first right sided radical with clitorectomy, and the second two left.  I did write something on vulvectomy over at Cancer Forums (CheriD is my user name there) if you are interested.  I started that thread hoping to help other women going through vulvectomies, so it is my experience through the 3 surgeries basically.

                                      My melanoma was superficial spreading and fairly thin (1 mm) but I also had regression, which means there is no way to know how deep it may have been.  It had probably been there years before I finally discovered it.  I had bilateral sentinel lymph node inguinal biopsies and both were clear, and my last PET CT in June last year was clear.  A year after my first radical vulvectomy, melanoma in situ was discovered on the opposite side so I had a partial left side vulvectomy in 2014.  A few weeks ago I celebrated my third year, since initial diagnosis, of having no sign of disease.

                                      I agree with the recommendation to be seen at melanoma specialty center if at all possible.  A resource for this: http://melanomainternational.org/web-resources/cancer-centers/

                                      As far as questions, I can't think of anything you haven't already mentioned, but in addition to being seen by a melanoma specialist, my recommendation, in hindsight, is to realize that you may be called on to advocate for yourself and will sometimes need to be assertive.  You are your own best advocate!  Make sure you are getting results back in a timely manner, that followup appointments are made, that it is clear who will be following you and how often.  So far, it sounds like your care has been excellent.  I was lucky and overall, with a few little glitches, mine was, too.   As above, you may want to ask about the C-kit mutation and what other things might be considered now in case you need treatment in the future,  The fact that your PET and MRI are clear is very good!  I hope your nodes will be clear as well, in which case there are people here who have been followed closely for quite a few years with mucosal melanoma with such a diagnosis.  As I said, I am at 3 years as of May 6.  And in fact, there are people on this forum who have done well for years now with lymph node involvement/stage 3 at initial diagnosis, and it seems to me that this is a more hopeful time than ever before in the treatment of melanoma of any type.

                                      Good luck to you! 

                                      Cheri

                                        HZol
                                        Participant
                                          Oh Cheri…thank you for all your honest and hopeful input. I can’t imagine all you’ve been through but its sounds like you are an optimist and maneuvering well with all of this. We must stay in touch.
                                          HZol
                                          Participant
                                            Oh Cheri…thank you for all your honest and hopeful input. I can’t imagine all you’ve been through but its sounds like you are an optimist and maneuvering well with all of this. We must stay in touch.
                                            HZol
                                            Participant
                                              Oh Cheri…thank you for all your honest and hopeful input. I can’t imagine all you’ve been through but its sounds like you are an optimist and maneuvering well with all of this. We must stay in touch.
                                            mary1233
                                            Participant

                                              Hello Heidi – I am sorry about your diagnosis.

                                              I was diagnosed with vaginal mucosal melanoma in 2012, local lymphnode involvement. I had surgery and chemotherapy and have not had a recurrence. 

                                              At this point you are a member of a very small club. The oncologist who diagnosed my cancer said that he was not qualified to treat it and he referred me to Memorial Sloan Kettering which is the type of institution that we are talking about when we say that you should be going to a major cancer center where they treat the rare cases. Other such institutions include Dana Farber, Moffitt, MD Anderson, Johns Hopkins, Mayo and others of that nature. These are the places where they are involved in the research. My oncologist at MSK told me that he has seen mucosal melanoma – not often – but he has seen it and treated it. The oncologist at the local "cancer center" who referred me on to MSK had only seen it twice in his career and had never treated it.

                                              The most valuable thing that the oncologist at the local "cancer center" did for me was to have his staff make the appointment at MSK so I could be seen right away. At that point, I had never even heard of mucosal melanoma and I am grateful for his intervention.

                                              Mucosal melanoma, as I am sure you know already, is a different disease than melanoma skin cancer. The specifications about depth and margins are not relevant to you – Your goal is to get the disease  out of your body surgically and treat it adjuvantly to keep it from coming back. You deserve to be treated by someone who has actually done this.

                                              Anyone on this sight knows of the shock you have experienced when you first researched this diagnosis on the internet. Please know that so much has changed in the last three years alone – what you see on the internet is old and not relevant to you. There actually is a lot of encouraging news out there – and you will get quite good at finding it. Please just give yourself the advantage of being treated in a place where they get the news first.

                                              I wish you all the best. Please reach out to us with any questions or concerns.

                                              Mary

                                              mary1233
                                              Participant

                                                Hello Heidi – I am sorry about your diagnosis.

                                                I was diagnosed with vaginal mucosal melanoma in 2012, local lymphnode involvement. I had surgery and chemotherapy and have not had a recurrence. 

                                                At this point you are a member of a very small club. The oncologist who diagnosed my cancer said that he was not qualified to treat it and he referred me to Memorial Sloan Kettering which is the type of institution that we are talking about when we say that you should be going to a major cancer center where they treat the rare cases. Other such institutions include Dana Farber, Moffitt, MD Anderson, Johns Hopkins, Mayo and others of that nature. These are the places where they are involved in the research. My oncologist at MSK told me that he has seen mucosal melanoma – not often – but he has seen it and treated it. The oncologist at the local "cancer center" who referred me on to MSK had only seen it twice in his career and had never treated it.

                                                The most valuable thing that the oncologist at the local "cancer center" did for me was to have his staff make the appointment at MSK so I could be seen right away. At that point, I had never even heard of mucosal melanoma and I am grateful for his intervention.

                                                Mucosal melanoma, as I am sure you know already, is a different disease than melanoma skin cancer. The specifications about depth and margins are not relevant to you – Your goal is to get the disease  out of your body surgically and treat it adjuvantly to keep it from coming back. You deserve to be treated by someone who has actually done this.

                                                Anyone on this sight knows of the shock you have experienced when you first researched this diagnosis on the internet. Please know that so much has changed in the last three years alone – what you see on the internet is old and not relevant to you. There actually is a lot of encouraging news out there – and you will get quite good at finding it. Please just give yourself the advantage of being treated in a place where they get the news first.

                                                I wish you all the best. Please reach out to us with any questions or concerns.

                                                Mary

                                                  berrygerry-358
                                                  Participant

                                                    Hello Heidi and Mary,  I too was diagnosed with mucosal melanoma in Feb. of  2014.  I had gone to the gyno because I thought that my bladder had dropped.  She thought I had a carunckle and ordered surgery before the biopsy.  A uralogist performed the surgery and everyone was surprised when the diagnosis came back Mucosal Melonoma!  They didn't know what to do with me.  My daughter searched the internet and found a doctor who specialized in melanoma at a cancer hospital and had seen patients with mucosal melanoma.  We are very small in numbers.  I had a second surgery to clear the margins of the first surgery and then 30 sessions of radiation.  I did not have any lymph nodes checked at the time of the first surgery but subsequent PET/CT scans have shown no recurrence.  My scans are now six months apart from every three months and I feel fine.  I go to Dana Farber Cancer Institute in Boston.  

                                                    berrygerry-358
                                                    Participant

                                                      Hello Heidi and Mary,  I too was diagnosed with mucosal melanoma in Feb. of  2014.  I had gone to the gyno because I thought that my bladder had dropped.  She thought I had a carunckle and ordered surgery before the biopsy.  A uralogist performed the surgery and everyone was surprised when the diagnosis came back Mucosal Melonoma!  They didn't know what to do with me.  My daughter searched the internet and found a doctor who specialized in melanoma at a cancer hospital and had seen patients with mucosal melanoma.  We are very small in numbers.  I had a second surgery to clear the margins of the first surgery and then 30 sessions of radiation.  I did not have any lymph nodes checked at the time of the first surgery but subsequent PET/CT scans have shown no recurrence.  My scans are now six months apart from every three months and I feel fine.  I go to Dana Farber Cancer Institute in Boston.  

                                                      berrygerry-358
                                                      Participant

                                                        Hello Heidi and Mary,  I too was diagnosed with mucosal melanoma in Feb. of  2014.  I had gone to the gyno because I thought that my bladder had dropped.  She thought I had a carunckle and ordered surgery before the biopsy.  A uralogist performed the surgery and everyone was surprised when the diagnosis came back Mucosal Melonoma!  They didn't know what to do with me.  My daughter searched the internet and found a doctor who specialized in melanoma at a cancer hospital and had seen patients with mucosal melanoma.  We are very small in numbers.  I had a second surgery to clear the margins of the first surgery and then 30 sessions of radiation.  I did not have any lymph nodes checked at the time of the first surgery but subsequent PET/CT scans have shown no recurrence.  My scans are now six months apart from every three months and I feel fine.  I go to Dana Farber Cancer Institute in Boston.  

                                                        HZol
                                                        Participant
                                                          Hi Mary…thank you for all the wonderful input. This all helps to keep my mind straight and also helps me feel not so alone. I’m at a cancer center who treats this cancer about 2-3 times per year, so though its few and far between, they’ve seen it, treated it and had success. I have a multi specialty team of 4 oncologists and a handful of nurses, social workers and coordinators for my care. I’m in great hands. But sometimes I feel they are ready for questions, but I’m not fluent enough in all this as to what to ask….all these suggestions above are so helpful! They’ve suggested immunotherapy after surgery, but we are still in the staging process. Thank you again.
                                                          HZol
                                                          Participant
                                                            Hi Mary…thank you for all the wonderful input. This all helps to keep my mind straight and also helps me feel not so alone. I’m at a cancer center who treats this cancer about 2-3 times per year, so though its few and far between, they’ve seen it, treated it and had success. I have a multi specialty team of 4 oncologists and a handful of nurses, social workers and coordinators for my care. I’m in great hands. But sometimes I feel they are ready for questions, but I’m not fluent enough in all this as to what to ask….all these suggestions above are so helpful! They’ve suggested immunotherapy after surgery, but we are still in the staging process. Thank you again.
                                                            mary1233
                                                            Participant

                                                              Heidi – you will be seeing a lot of these people. You have more than one opportunity to ask questions. There aren't any right questions. If you need to know something, that is a good enough reason to ask.

                                                              One of the things that helped me a lot was a nurse that was assigned by my insurance company to check in with me by phone. I could ask her anything and I could just talk about anything at all. It was very comforting.

                                                              I noticed that no one addressed your lymphedema question. One thing you will find about mucosal melanoma patients is they rarely offer medical advice. I don't because I know I am not qualified. On the lymphedema, I had been warned that this might become an issue and I obtained a referral ahead of time to a physical therapist who treats women with lymphedema. She gave me three strategies to use to control it. It is a daily ordeal but it is manageable. You already know that you are a special case.

                                                              All the best.

                                                              Mary

                                                               

                                                               

                                                              mary1233
                                                              Participant

                                                                Heidi – you will be seeing a lot of these people. You have more than one opportunity to ask questions. There aren't any right questions. If you need to know something, that is a good enough reason to ask.

                                                                One of the things that helped me a lot was a nurse that was assigned by my insurance company to check in with me by phone. I could ask her anything and I could just talk about anything at all. It was very comforting.

                                                                I noticed that no one addressed your lymphedema question. One thing you will find about mucosal melanoma patients is they rarely offer medical advice. I don't because I know I am not qualified. On the lymphedema, I had been warned that this might become an issue and I obtained a referral ahead of time to a physical therapist who treats women with lymphedema. She gave me three strategies to use to control it. It is a daily ordeal but it is manageable. You already know that you are a special case.

                                                                All the best.

                                                                Mary

                                                                 

                                                                 

                                                                mary1233
                                                                Participant

                                                                  Heidi – you will be seeing a lot of these people. You have more than one opportunity to ask questions. There aren't any right questions. If you need to know something, that is a good enough reason to ask.

                                                                  One of the things that helped me a lot was a nurse that was assigned by my insurance company to check in with me by phone. I could ask her anything and I could just talk about anything at all. It was very comforting.

                                                                  I noticed that no one addressed your lymphedema question. One thing you will find about mucosal melanoma patients is they rarely offer medical advice. I don't because I know I am not qualified. On the lymphedema, I had been warned that this might become an issue and I obtained a referral ahead of time to a physical therapist who treats women with lymphedema. She gave me three strategies to use to control it. It is a daily ordeal but it is manageable. You already know that you are a special case.

                                                                  All the best.

                                                                  Mary

                                                                   

                                                                   

                                                                  HZol
                                                                  Participant
                                                                    Hi Mary…thank you for all the wonderful input. This all helps to keep my mind straight and also helps me feel not so alone. I’m at a cancer center who treats this cancer about 2-3 times per year, so though its few and far between, they’ve seen it, treated it and had success. I have a multi specialty team of 4 oncologists and a handful of nurses, social workers and coordinators for my care. I’m in great hands. But sometimes I feel they are ready for questions, but I’m not fluent enough in all this as to what to ask….all these suggestions above are so helpful! They’ve suggested immunotherapy after surgery, but we are still in the staging process. Thank you again.
                                                                  mary1233
                                                                  Participant

                                                                    Hello Heidi – I am sorry about your diagnosis.

                                                                    I was diagnosed with vaginal mucosal melanoma in 2012, local lymphnode involvement. I had surgery and chemotherapy and have not had a recurrence. 

                                                                    At this point you are a member of a very small club. The oncologist who diagnosed my cancer said that he was not qualified to treat it and he referred me to Memorial Sloan Kettering which is the type of institution that we are talking about when we say that you should be going to a major cancer center where they treat the rare cases. Other such institutions include Dana Farber, Moffitt, MD Anderson, Johns Hopkins, Mayo and others of that nature. These are the places where they are involved in the research. My oncologist at MSK told me that he has seen mucosal melanoma – not often – but he has seen it and treated it. The oncologist at the local "cancer center" who referred me on to MSK had only seen it twice in his career and had never treated it.

                                                                    The most valuable thing that the oncologist at the local "cancer center" did for me was to have his staff make the appointment at MSK so I could be seen right away. At that point, I had never even heard of mucosal melanoma and I am grateful for his intervention.

                                                                    Mucosal melanoma, as I am sure you know already, is a different disease than melanoma skin cancer. The specifications about depth and margins are not relevant to you – Your goal is to get the disease  out of your body surgically and treat it adjuvantly to keep it from coming back. You deserve to be treated by someone who has actually done this.

                                                                    Anyone on this sight knows of the shock you have experienced when you first researched this diagnosis on the internet. Please know that so much has changed in the last three years alone – what you see on the internet is old and not relevant to you. There actually is a lot of encouraging news out there – and you will get quite good at finding it. Please just give yourself the advantage of being treated in a place where they get the news first.

                                                                    I wish you all the best. Please reach out to us with any questions or concerns.

                                                                    Mary

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