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Got some bad news this Christmas

Forums General Melanoma Community Got some bad news this Christmas

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    Nemesis
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      Hello everybody,

       

      After reading this forum, I thought I'd introduce myself. I was diagnosed with melanoma last week. It is 0.94 mm deep (and not 0.94 cm as I was told over the phone). So stage 1, but barely. According to my doctor, no ulceration and not aggresive (I take that to mean that the mitotic division was low). Going in for SNB next week.

       

      I am 34 and got a 6 month old baby at home. Was going to have one more, but it seems that pregnancy may make melanoma come back. Don't know. All is new and scary.

       

      Wish me god luck! I am sorry we have connected under such circumstances.

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        Nemesis
        Participant

          I forgot to add that doctor think I've got about 10% chances of the melanoma having spread to the lymph node.

          Nemesis
          Participant

            I forgot to add that doctor think I've got about 10% chances of the melanoma having spread to the lymph node.

              Kenkussions
              Participant

                So sorry to hear about your diagnosis. I just received my first ever diagnosis on  12/19/2016 and have a little one at home as well. I go in for a wle on Tuesday and am praying that will be the end of it. I've been so sad/ nervous this week so I know what you are going through but this forum has already helped me feel a little better. My thoughts and prayers will be with you.

                Dreaf01
                Participant

                  I also got my diagnosis on the 19th and am scheduled for a WLE on Thursday also. I am scared out of my mind about the end results as I am a new mommy to a 7month old :-(. I feel your pain. I think I am making myself physically sick with worry.

                   

                  Dreaf01
                  Participant

                    I also got my diagnosis on the 19th and am scheduled for a WLE on Thursday also. I am scared out of my mind about the end results as I am a new mommy to a 7month old :-(. I feel your pain. I think I am making myself physically sick with worry.

                     

                    Dreaf01
                    Participant

                      I also got my diagnosis on the 19th and am scheduled for a WLE on Thursday also. I am scared out of my mind about the end results as I am a new mommy to a 7month old :-(. I feel your pain. I think I am making myself physically sick with worry.

                       

                      Nemesis
                      Participant

                        Really makes you wonder if there is a connection between pregnancy and melanoma.

                        Nemesis
                        Participant

                          Really makes you wonder if there is a connection between pregnancy and melanoma.

                          Nemesis
                          Participant

                            Really makes you wonder if there is a connection between pregnancy and melanoma.

                            Kenkussions
                            Participant

                              So sorry to hear about your diagnosis. I just received my first ever diagnosis on  12/19/2016 and have a little one at home as well. I go in for a wle on Tuesday and am praying that will be the end of it. I've been so sad/ nervous this week so I know what you are going through but this forum has already helped me feel a little better. My thoughts and prayers will be with you.

                              Kenkussions
                              Participant

                                So sorry to hear about your diagnosis. I just received my first ever diagnosis on  12/19/2016 and have a little one at home as well. I go in for a wle on Tuesday and am praying that will be the end of it. I've been so sad/ nervous this week so I know what you are going through but this forum has already helped me feel a little better. My thoughts and prayers will be with you.

                              Nemesis
                              Participant

                                I forgot to add that doctor think I've got about 10% chances of the melanoma having spread to the lymph node.

                                Janner
                                Participant

                                  Stage Ib goes to 2mm as long as you don't have ulceration.  You are well within stage I.  Sorry you have to join us here and good luck on the SNB.

                                    Sophietx
                                    Participant

                                      Sorry for the bad news! But great that all of you are stage 1. I also wonder between the connection of pregnancy and melanoma. I was diagnosed with melanoma in Situ last month. Looking back on photos – my melanoma was on my upper chest so I could see it on a lot of photos. It started as a black dot shortly after my 2nd pregnancy and remained in situ for 12 years. We have no other history in our family. My almost 13 year old has a lot of moles including a large dark mole in his belly button that we can't monitor. So we are having it removed next week. I have already done genetic testing for other reasons early this year. Funny it included all the possible genetic links (currently known) for melanoma and nothing came up. At that point I have had annual skin check ups with local dermatologist. And she didn't catch my mole. Luckily I had a breast cancer screening at cancer hospital due to strong family history. And my wonderful breast cancer surgeon knew right away that this mole needs to go out.  I haven't told my old dermatologist that she missed a melanoma all these years. I even question her visit one time few years ago. I felt like she hardly looked at me. I asked her why she is done so fast. She replied that she knows what she is looking for. My mole looked the same all these years – large, round but black. Should I let her know? I told some of my friends who goes to her and one family switched to my hospital – dermatologist and just was diagnosed as well. Is that so common? Not to diagnosed skin cancer? I am from Europe but living in TX.

                                      Sophietx
                                      Participant

                                        Sorry for the bad news! But great that all of you are stage 1. I also wonder between the connection of pregnancy and melanoma. I was diagnosed with melanoma in Situ last month. Looking back on photos – my melanoma was on my upper chest so I could see it on a lot of photos. It started as a black dot shortly after my 2nd pregnancy and remained in situ for 12 years. We have no other history in our family. My almost 13 year old has a lot of moles including a large dark mole in his belly button that we can't monitor. So we are having it removed next week. I have already done genetic testing for other reasons early this year. Funny it included all the possible genetic links (currently known) for melanoma and nothing came up. At that point I have had annual skin check ups with local dermatologist. And she didn't catch my mole. Luckily I had a breast cancer screening at cancer hospital due to strong family history. And my wonderful breast cancer surgeon knew right away that this mole needs to go out.  I haven't told my old dermatologist that she missed a melanoma all these years. I even question her visit one time few years ago. I felt like she hardly looked at me. I asked her why she is done so fast. She replied that she knows what she is looking for. My mole looked the same all these years – large, round but black. Should I let her know? I told some of my friends who goes to her and one family switched to my hospital – dermatologist and just was diagnosed as well. Is that so common? Not to diagnosed skin cancer? I am from Europe but living in TX.

                                        Sophietx
                                        Participant

                                          Sorry for the bad news! But great that all of you are stage 1. I also wonder between the connection of pregnancy and melanoma. I was diagnosed with melanoma in Situ last month. Looking back on photos – my melanoma was on my upper chest so I could see it on a lot of photos. It started as a black dot shortly after my 2nd pregnancy and remained in situ for 12 years. We have no other history in our family. My almost 13 year old has a lot of moles including a large dark mole in his belly button that we can't monitor. So we are having it removed next week. I have already done genetic testing for other reasons early this year. Funny it included all the possible genetic links (currently known) for melanoma and nothing came up. At that point I have had annual skin check ups with local dermatologist. And she didn't catch my mole. Luckily I had a breast cancer screening at cancer hospital due to strong family history. And my wonderful breast cancer surgeon knew right away that this mole needs to go out.  I haven't told my old dermatologist that she missed a melanoma all these years. I even question her visit one time few years ago. I felt like she hardly looked at me. I asked her why she is done so fast. She replied that she knows what she is looking for. My mole looked the same all these years – large, round but black. Should I let her know? I told some of my friends who goes to her and one family switched to my hospital – dermatologist and just was diagnosed as well. Is that so common? Not to diagnosed skin cancer? I am from Europe but living in TX.

                                        Janner
                                        Participant

                                          Stage Ib goes to 2mm as long as you don't have ulceration.  You are well within stage I.  Sorry you have to join us here and good luck on the SNB.

                                          Janner
                                          Participant

                                            Stage Ib goes to 2mm as long as you don't have ulceration.  You are well within stage I.  Sorry you have to join us here and good luck on the SNB.

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