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Feeling very isolated and abandoned…Any suggestions on what to do after Yervoy?

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    zaccarin
    Participant

      My husband had four infusions of Yervoy from September 9 to November 19, 2011. I will describe his situation with the hope that his story helps others and that someone might have some suggestions for him. At this point, we are truly in need of suggestions. We are in new York

      My husband had four infusions of Yervoy from September 9 to November 19, 2011. I will describe his situation with the hope that his story helps others and that someone might have some suggestions for him. At this point, we are truly in need of suggestions. We are in new York

      Diagnosed with a scalp melanoma 2003, my husband had a sentinel node biopsy January 2004 and subsequently, removal of 31 lymph nodes, with one contaminated. The doctor then suggested what was believed to be the standard of care at the time, Interferon, alpha, which he had from for ten months, from 2004 to 2005. When we went to Sloan Kettering in 2003, we were told that he had a 30% chance of surviving to 2008. He was NED until 2009. During this period, he did qigong, and we incorporated a lot of raw foods and juicing.

      My husband was very confident and happy that he had beat the melanoma, so he stopped doing qigong and let work responsibilities consume him. In fact, as he now has reduced his duties, three people are doing his job and having difficulty keeping up. This caught up with him, as in 2009, a PET scan revealed a one sub-centimeter lung nodule, an omental lesion of 15mm and a neck lesion in the area directly below the original scalp melanoma. He had surgery for omentum lesion 2009 and surgery for neck lesion on January 2010.

      His melanoma became more aggressive after the surgery. It was, as I was told now, "in transit." In May 2010, however, another neck lesion in nearby location (under original left scalp melanoma in May 2010) spontaneously resolved within days. I had read on "Life Extension' that Tagamet could reverse melanoma, gave him some, and it seemed to work. The PET scan revealed that it had "resolved."  All that remained were the lungs.

      The Daoist Doctor of Chinese medicine that my husband began to see in 2009 prescribed teas and food therapy that led my husband to have stable disease in the lungs until May 2011. It seemed to me that things only worked for short periods of time. Instead of one, now there were three sub-centimeter lung lesions appearing in the PET scan.  We then tried macrobiotics and a different form of qigong over the summer of 2011. The results were not good.  By August 2011, we saw the growth of three lung lesions and pleural thickening. The PET scan of August 15, 2011 indicated that there was a 10 cm. mass. Many suggestions, over the summer and after the PET scan that my husband should try Yervoy, so he began in September 2011 and he had his last infusion in November 2011. The November 22, 2011 scan indicated that the lung melanoma was now 17 cm. Terrible chest pain began after the 2nd infusion. The administering doctor told him that this pain was likely caused by inflammation caused by Yervoy.
      In December 19, 2011, my husband began radiation.

      I now understand that it would have been best to reduce the tumor load prior to beginning Yervoy. I know that there are late responders, and that these late responses can begin anywhere from six months to one year after Yervoy; however, if one does not have an increase in Absolute Lymphocytes and has an increase in tumor load that is greater than 25%, then it appears unlikely that one is a late responder. Additionally, while everyone I spoke with in the summer seemed to indicate that late response was the norm, I am now reading that it only happens in a minority of individuals. I am unclear about whether the 15-20% response rate to Yervoy takes into account late responders. I have not seen much literature or case studies on Yervoy late responders because it is so soon after FDA approval.

      Had we known what we know now in 2003, this is what we would have done:

      Obtain a molecular profiling test from Caris Medical, as this is covered by most insurance. http://www.carislifesciences.com/

      We did this in the midst of Yervoy treatment at the suggestion of a colleague of mine. We discovered that my husband has low MGMT and that his tumor has a poor ability to repair itself. Given this, a strong dose of chemo, rather than immunotherapy, would have helped at the outset, when the tumor was less aggressive. Now, it obviously has been allowed to grow, and aggressive tumors are very clever at transforming themselves, so temozolomide would likely not be a good chocie.

      Additionally, we discovered that my husband has high SPARC expression. This means that ablaxane, or nab-paclitaxel, might work. Studies for this on melanoma do not seem too promising, as it works on 14-20% of the study participants; however, it's not much different from Yervoy, so had we known this it would have likely been a better choice than Yervoy.

      Molecular profiling is available, and I urge everyone to take advantage of it so that they can make decisions that are more specifically suited to their profile.

      At this point, my husband is going to begin a radiation boost next week. We hope that the chest tumor, which is causing excruciating pain, will shrink and that the broken pieces of melanoma will cause the Yervoy to kick in, as this is what my husband's oncologist mentioned might be possible. He also has increasing vomiting. I hope that this is a late response to yervoy or related to his increasing use of painkillers. I noticed that Lisa13 mentioned that her oncologist believed that her nausea was related to a late response to Yervoy. I certainly hope this is true.

      If anyone has any light to shed on possible options after Yervoy or helpful comments, i would be most appreciative. Hearing your stories, and your encouragement to each other has been inspiring, as being a caregiver is so terribly isolating and sad. I also wrote this because I urge anyone who begins Yervoy to reduce their tumor load, either by simultaneously having radiation or chemo, which can help Yervoy work better.

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        FormerCaregiver
        Participant

          Welcome to our forum. Sorry to read of your husband's condition. I wonder if a surgical oncologist has been consulted about the chest tumour? I feel that surgery, if possible, is the preferred way to reduce tumour load and to ease symptoms.

          Possible options after Yervoy include IL-2 (interleukin-2), an anti PD-1 (MDX-1106) clinical trial or TIL treatment (adoptive cell therapy).

          Hope this helps

          Frank from Australia

            zaccarin
            Participant

              Hello Frank,

              We are planning on seeing a surgical oncologist soon, as it appears that the chest wall tumor mass has shrunk, providing some pain relief. It is no longer such a large bulge on his chest wall, and people have commented that it appears to be fluid instead of the hard mass that it was.

              I just saw these three wonderful responses, including yours, right now, because my husband had to be hospitalized and given a blood transfusion for low hemoglobin. 

               

              Since my husband's appetite is now poor, he has long weight, his counts are extremely low and his scans while in the hospital showed some bone metastasis, we made an appointment to see a cyberknife specialist about the bone mets. I have looked through pub med and found that melanoma responds well to cyberknife and it is very isolated radiation that does not have the side effects such as nausea and lowering of blood counts, that other forms of radiation have.

               

              I am most definitely looking into anti-PD-1 (MDX-1106) clinical trial or TIL treatment (adoptive cell therapy) and have asked Caris about the PD-1. Now that you mentioned TIL, I will ask about that as well. The thing is, how to weigh the  information from the molecular profiling report — that his tumor has high sparc and would respond to ablaxane, with the potential benefits of anti-pd1.

              The trial for anti-pd1at Mt. Sinai excludes those with compromised lungs, as it seeks to determine toxicity to lungs. Not all trials have this exclusion, I am told, so all these trials are different.  I had looked into the TIL before and will do so again.

              Thank you so much for these great ideas.

              zaccarin
              Participant

                Hello Frank,

                We are planning on seeing a surgical oncologist soon, as it appears that the chest wall tumor mass has shrunk, providing some pain relief. It is no longer such a large bulge on his chest wall, and people have commented that it appears to be fluid instead of the hard mass that it was.

                I just saw these three wonderful responses, including yours, right now, because my husband had to be hospitalized and given a blood transfusion for low hemoglobin. 

                 

                Since my husband's appetite is now poor, he has long weight, his counts are extremely low and his scans while in the hospital showed some bone metastasis, we made an appointment to see a cyberknife specialist about the bone mets. I have looked through pub med and found that melanoma responds well to cyberknife and it is very isolated radiation that does not have the side effects such as nausea and lowering of blood counts, that other forms of radiation have.

                 

                I am most definitely looking into anti-PD-1 (MDX-1106) clinical trial or TIL treatment (adoptive cell therapy) and have asked Caris about the PD-1. Now that you mentioned TIL, I will ask about that as well. The thing is, how to weigh the  information from the molecular profiling report — that his tumor has high sparc and would respond to ablaxane, with the potential benefits of anti-pd1.

                The trial for anti-pd1at Mt. Sinai excludes those with compromised lungs, as it seeks to determine toxicity to lungs. Not all trials have this exclusion, I am told, so all these trials are different.  I had looked into the TIL before and will do so again.

                Thank you so much for these great ideas.

                zaccarin
                Participant

                  Hello Frank,

                  We are planning on seeing a surgical oncologist soon, as it appears that the chest wall tumor mass has shrunk, providing some pain relief. It is no longer such a large bulge on his chest wall, and people have commented that it appears to be fluid instead of the hard mass that it was.

                  I just saw these three wonderful responses, including yours, right now, because my husband had to be hospitalized and given a blood transfusion for low hemoglobin. 

                   

                  Since my husband's appetite is now poor, he has long weight, his counts are extremely low and his scans while in the hospital showed some bone metastasis, we made an appointment to see a cyberknife specialist about the bone mets. I have looked through pub med and found that melanoma responds well to cyberknife and it is very isolated radiation that does not have the side effects such as nausea and lowering of blood counts, that other forms of radiation have.

                   

                  I am most definitely looking into anti-PD-1 (MDX-1106) clinical trial or TIL treatment (adoptive cell therapy) and have asked Caris about the PD-1. Now that you mentioned TIL, I will ask about that as well. The thing is, how to weigh the  information from the molecular profiling report — that his tumor has high sparc and would respond to ablaxane, with the potential benefits of anti-pd1.

                  The trial for anti-pd1at Mt. Sinai excludes those with compromised lungs, as it seeks to determine toxicity to lungs. Not all trials have this exclusion, I am told, so all these trials are different.  I had looked into the TIL before and will do so again.

                  Thank you so much for these great ideas.

                  sj541
                  Participant

                    Hi – I am very sorry to hear about what your husband is going through.  I know how you feel as my sister (45) did Yervoy at the same time as your husband (Sept to Nov 2011) and is now very weak, actually bedridden under hospice care.  We were really hoping to get her into an anti-pd 1 trial at Sloane Kettering in NYC or tcell at the NIH but right now it seems impossible.  We are trying to get her stronger but it's hard. You said your husband has lost weight, weak and vomitting.  My sister has a hard time eating/keeping food down as the melanoma has spread to her lungs and neck area.  She has lost a lot of weight and is down to about 100 pounds now.  We have tried everything – baby food, smoothies, carnation instant breakfast shakes, etc.   Is your husband still able to get around?  I ask because I felt so much hope when you said you were looking into clinical trials for him.  From what I have read about clinicial trials, you have to be ambulatory for half your waking hours so it doesn't give us much hope for our sister.  Any info you have around getting into clinical trials would be greatly appreciated. 

                    thank you

                    Stacie 

                    sj541
                    Participant

                      Hi – I am very sorry to hear about what your husband is going through.  I know how you feel as my sister (45) did Yervoy at the same time as your husband (Sept to Nov 2011) and is now very weak, actually bedridden under hospice care.  We were really hoping to get her into an anti-pd 1 trial at Sloane Kettering in NYC or tcell at the NIH but right now it seems impossible.  We are trying to get her stronger but it's hard. You said your husband has lost weight, weak and vomitting.  My sister has a hard time eating/keeping food down as the melanoma has spread to her lungs and neck area.  She has lost a lot of weight and is down to about 100 pounds now.  We have tried everything – baby food, smoothies, carnation instant breakfast shakes, etc.   Is your husband still able to get around?  I ask because I felt so much hope when you said you were looking into clinical trials for him.  From what I have read about clinicial trials, you have to be ambulatory for half your waking hours so it doesn't give us much hope for our sister.  Any info you have around getting into clinical trials would be greatly appreciated. 

                      thank you

                      Stacie 

                      sj541
                      Participant

                        Hi – I am very sorry to hear about what your husband is going through.  I know how you feel as my sister (45) did Yervoy at the same time as your husband (Sept to Nov 2011) and is now very weak, actually bedridden under hospice care.  We were really hoping to get her into an anti-pd 1 trial at Sloane Kettering in NYC or tcell at the NIH but right now it seems impossible.  We are trying to get her stronger but it's hard. You said your husband has lost weight, weak and vomitting.  My sister has a hard time eating/keeping food down as the melanoma has spread to her lungs and neck area.  She has lost a lot of weight and is down to about 100 pounds now.  We have tried everything – baby food, smoothies, carnation instant breakfast shakes, etc.   Is your husband still able to get around?  I ask because I felt so much hope when you said you were looking into clinical trials for him.  From what I have read about clinicial trials, you have to be ambulatory for half your waking hours so it doesn't give us much hope for our sister.  Any info you have around getting into clinical trials would be greatly appreciated. 

                        thank you

                        Stacie 

                        zaccarin
                        Participant

                           

                          I know of at least one case where a man who was not ambulatory at all got into the clinical trial for vemurafenib after his wife insisted. His melanoma reversed very quickly after a short while on the drug. When I look at the clinical trials, I do see that there are exclusions, and they are all different.  I have also noticed that some advanced cases were turned around by medical marijuana. I am not sure whether your state would allow this, but perhaps you could watch this video.

                          I hope this does not offend you or anyone else, but I thought I would offer this idea because it is a way of possibly addressing the appetite and pain issue while possibly moving in the direction of recovery. I am posting anonymously for this.

                          sj541
                          Participant

                            thank you, yes we are using medical marijuana to give her an appetitie.  Our biggest issue right now is that she's hungry but can't keep food down due to the cancer speading to her neck/esophagus area.  we are trying all sorts of liquids, I understand thicker liquids go down better.  We've already discussed the possiblity of a feeding tube but she doesn't want that.   so we keep trying with the food.

                            sj541
                            Participant

                              thank you, yes we are using medical marijuana to give her an appetitie.  Our biggest issue right now is that she's hungry but can't keep food down due to the cancer speading to her neck/esophagus area.  we are trying all sorts of liquids, I understand thicker liquids go down better.  We've already discussed the possiblity of a feeding tube but she doesn't want that.   so we keep trying with the food.

                              sj541
                              Participant

                                thank you, yes we are using medical marijuana to give her an appetitie.  Our biggest issue right now is that she's hungry but can't keep food down due to the cancer speading to her neck/esophagus area.  we are trying all sorts of liquids, I understand thicker liquids go down better.  We've already discussed the possiblity of a feeding tube but she doesn't want that.   so we keep trying with the food.

                                zaccarin
                                Participant

                                   

                                  I know of at least one case where a man who was not ambulatory at all got into the clinical trial for vemurafenib after his wife insisted. His melanoma reversed very quickly after a short while on the drug. When I look at the clinical trials, I do see that there are exclusions, and they are all different.  I have also noticed that some advanced cases were turned around by medical marijuana. I am not sure whether your state would allow this, but perhaps you could watch this video.

                                  I hope this does not offend you or anyone else, but I thought I would offer this idea because it is a way of possibly addressing the appetite and pain issue while possibly moving in the direction of recovery. I am posting anonymously for this.

                                  zaccarin
                                  Participant

                                     

                                    I know of at least one case where a man who was not ambulatory at all got into the clinical trial for vemurafenib after his wife insisted. His melanoma reversed very quickly after a short while on the drug. When I look at the clinical trials, I do see that there are exclusions, and they are all different.  I have also noticed that some advanced cases were turned around by medical marijuana. I am not sure whether your state would allow this, but perhaps you could watch this video.

                                    I hope this does not offend you or anyone else, but I thought I would offer this idea because it is a way of possibly addressing the appetite and pain issue while possibly moving in the direction of recovery. I am posting anonymously for this.

                                    zaccarin
                                    Participant

                                      Stacie,

                                      I am so sorry for your sister's situation right now. I was able to get my husband's weight up with copazine. He takes one pill a day now, along with nexium for the stomach ulcers. Before he was rushed to the E.R. he had gained five pounds. Now I will have to work hard to get him to put on more weight. I looked it up and see that copazine can be administered inother ways besides orally, so perhaps this might help?

                                      Also, as I posted above, you might consider molecular profiling, as this can be done through the oncologist, who would fill out paper work to have the pathology department where your sister was treated send the specimen to Caris (see website above). Emerging Med takes the results and matches her with clinical trials that would be suitable.

                                      I hope this helps somewhat. I will write again if I see anything else that might be helpful.

                                      You and your sister will be in my thoughts and prayers.

                                      Cristina

                                      zaccarin
                                      Participant

                                        Stacie,

                                        I am so sorry for your sister's situation right now. I was able to get my husband's weight up with copazine. He takes one pill a day now, along with nexium for the stomach ulcers. Before he was rushed to the E.R. he had gained five pounds. Now I will have to work hard to get him to put on more weight. I looked it up and see that copazine can be administered inother ways besides orally, so perhaps this might help?

                                        Also, as I posted above, you might consider molecular profiling, as this can be done through the oncologist, who would fill out paper work to have the pathology department where your sister was treated send the specimen to Caris (see website above). Emerging Med takes the results and matches her with clinical trials that would be suitable.

                                        I hope this helps somewhat. I will write again if I see anything else that might be helpful.

                                        You and your sister will be in my thoughts and prayers.

                                        Cristina

                                        zaccarin
                                        Participant

                                          Stacie,

                                          I am so sorry for your sister's situation right now. I was able to get my husband's weight up with copazine. He takes one pill a day now, along with nexium for the stomach ulcers. Before he was rushed to the E.R. he had gained five pounds. Now I will have to work hard to get him to put on more weight. I looked it up and see that copazine can be administered inother ways besides orally, so perhaps this might help?

                                          Also, as I posted above, you might consider molecular profiling, as this can be done through the oncologist, who would fill out paper work to have the pathology department where your sister was treated send the specimen to Caris (see website above). Emerging Med takes the results and matches her with clinical trials that would be suitable.

                                          I hope this helps somewhat. I will write again if I see anything else that might be helpful.

                                          You and your sister will be in my thoughts and prayers.

                                          Cristina

                                          sj541
                                          Participant

                                            thank you very much Cristina for your response and prayers.  Is copazine a drug for naseua?  Our issue is that the cancer has spread to her throat/esophagus so eating is very difficult.  She  wants to eat but can't.  We are trying all sorts of liquids, today she had a few bites of baby pears and pudding.  We keep trying.  Thank you for the molecular profiling info too. 

                                            sj541
                                            Participant

                                              thank you very much Cristina for your response and prayers.  Is copazine a drug for naseua?  Our issue is that the cancer has spread to her throat/esophagus so eating is very difficult.  She  wants to eat but can't.  We are trying all sorts of liquids, today she had a few bites of baby pears and pudding.  We keep trying.  Thank you for the molecular profiling info too. 

                                              sj541
                                              Participant

                                                thank you very much Cristina for your response and prayers.  Is copazine a drug for naseua?  Our issue is that the cancer has spread to her throat/esophagus so eating is very difficult.  She  wants to eat but can't.  We are trying all sorts of liquids, today she had a few bites of baby pears and pudding.  We keep trying.  Thank you for the molecular profiling info too. 

                                              FormerCaregiver
                                              Participant

                                                Welcome to our forum. Sorry to read of your husband's condition. I wonder if a surgical oncologist has been consulted about the chest tumour? I feel that surgery, if possible, is the preferred way to reduce tumour load and to ease symptoms.

                                                Possible options after Yervoy include IL-2 (interleukin-2), an anti PD-1 (MDX-1106) clinical trial or TIL treatment (adoptive cell therapy).

                                                Hope this helps

                                                Frank from Australia

                                                FormerCaregiver
                                                Participant

                                                  Welcome to our forum. Sorry to read of your husband's condition. I wonder if a surgical oncologist has been consulted about the chest tumour? I feel that surgery, if possible, is the preferred way to reduce tumour load and to ease symptoms.

                                                  Possible options after Yervoy include IL-2 (interleukin-2), an anti PD-1 (MDX-1106) clinical trial or TIL treatment (adoptive cell therapy).

                                                  Hope this helps

                                                  Frank from Australia

                                                  Theresa123
                                                  Participant

                                                    Hi,  I had no idea about molecular profiling, Thank you for the information.  I am a late responder to Yervoy, though it is not great, several of my tumors have shrunk slightly. 

                                                    God Bless, I hope you find something for your husband.  Melanoma is horrible.  It sure has bllighted my life.

                                                    Take heart.  something may crop up.  Have you thought of PD-1?  there are trials.  I heard it is pretty good.

                                                    Theresa 123

                                                    Stage IV

                                                    Theresa123
                                                    Participant

                                                      Hi,  I had no idea about molecular profiling, Thank you for the information.  I am a late responder to Yervoy, though it is not great, several of my tumors have shrunk slightly. 

                                                      God Bless, I hope you find something for your husband.  Melanoma is horrible.  It sure has bllighted my life.

                                                      Take heart.  something may crop up.  Have you thought of PD-1?  there are trials.  I heard it is pretty good.

                                                      Theresa 123

                                                      Stage IV

                                                      Theresa123
                                                      Participant

                                                        Hi,  I had no idea about molecular profiling, Thank you for the information.  I am a late responder to Yervoy, though it is not great, several of my tumors have shrunk slightly. 

                                                        God Bless, I hope you find something for your husband.  Melanoma is horrible.  It sure has bllighted my life.

                                                        Take heart.  something may crop up.  Have you thought of PD-1?  there are trials.  I heard it is pretty good.

                                                        Theresa 123

                                                        Stage IV

                                                          zaccarin
                                                          Participant

                                                            Hello Teresa,

                                                            Thank you for the encouraging words!

                                                            Yes, Caris is wonderful for molecular profiling. They will also match you to clinical trials and they provide a phone number for doctors to call for information regarding interpreting the results of the profiling to obtain the best treatment odds.

                                                            It is wonderful that you are a late responder! May I ask  how many weeks after the 4th infusion did the shrinkage begin?

                                                            Many thanks,

                                                            Cristina

                                                            zaccarin
                                                            Participant

                                                              Hello Teresa,

                                                              Thank you for the encouraging words!

                                                              Yes, Caris is wonderful for molecular profiling. They will also match you to clinical trials and they provide a phone number for doctors to call for information regarding interpreting the results of the profiling to obtain the best treatment odds.

                                                              It is wonderful that you are a late responder! May I ask  how many weeks after the 4th infusion did the shrinkage begin?

                                                              Many thanks,

                                                              Cristina

                                                              zaccarin
                                                              Participant

                                                                Hello Teresa,

                                                                Thank you for the encouraging words!

                                                                Yes, Caris is wonderful for molecular profiling. They will also match you to clinical trials and they provide a phone number for doctors to call for information regarding interpreting the results of the profiling to obtain the best treatment odds.

                                                                It is wonderful that you are a late responder! May I ask  how many weeks after the 4th infusion did the shrinkage begin?

                                                                Many thanks,

                                                                Cristina

                                                                sj541
                                                                Participant

                                                                  Hi Theresa,  that is great news that Yervoy is helping shrink your tumors.  When you say you were a late responder, what kind of timing are you talking about?  How long after your last dose did you start to show shrinkage?  Did you show progression before shrinkage?  My sister finished her last dose in mid November but we are not seeing any regression yet, just progression which is very frustrating. She has unfortuntely gone downhill since early December.    Are you now in a anti Pd-1 trial, if so where are you participating? 

                                                                  thanks, Stacie from New York

                                                                  sj541
                                                                  Participant

                                                                    Hi Theresa,  that is great news that Yervoy is helping shrink your tumors.  When you say you were a late responder, what kind of timing are you talking about?  How long after your last dose did you start to show shrinkage?  Did you show progression before shrinkage?  My sister finished her last dose in mid November but we are not seeing any regression yet, just progression which is very frustrating. She has unfortuntely gone downhill since early December.    Are you now in a anti Pd-1 trial, if so where are you participating? 

                                                                    thanks, Stacie from New York

                                                                    sj541
                                                                    Participant

                                                                      Hi Theresa,  that is great news that Yervoy is helping shrink your tumors.  When you say you were a late responder, what kind of timing are you talking about?  How long after your last dose did you start to show shrinkage?  Did you show progression before shrinkage?  My sister finished her last dose in mid November but we are not seeing any regression yet, just progression which is very frustrating. She has unfortuntely gone downhill since early December.    Are you now in a anti Pd-1 trial, if so where are you participating? 

                                                                      thanks, Stacie from New York

                                                                    hope4cure1
                                                                    Participant

                                                                      I won't pretend to be an expert, and I can only offer what our experience has been.  My husband was originally diagnosed in 2001.  We had a great long period of NED, and then in 2008 it returned and was termed "in-transit".  In September, 2010, he had surgery to remove two tumors in his right lung.  In January, 2011, scans showed 4 growths in liver and 2 in chest cavity.  In February, 2011, he began a chemo combo of abraxane/carboplatin/avastin.  The carbo was discontinued in June due to an allergic reaction.  His scans in July were NED.  September scans also NED and abraxane was discontinued.  He is on avastin for maintenance.  His last scans in December were still NED. 

                                                                      I hadn't heard of the SPARC correlation to response to abraxane.  If this is the case, has your doctor mentioned this as a possibility for your husband?   My husband tolerated the chemo regimen pretty well.  Each case is different, but since you mentioned abraxane, I wanted to share what my husband's response was.

                                                                      You are right that caregivers can feel quite isolated.  If there is a support group convenient for you, it would be worth checking out.  If not for our local Wellness Community, I don't know how I would have made it through.  With their help, I am better able to take the ups and downs, and I feel certain that this enables me to be a much greater support to my husband and our sons.

                                                                      It sounds like you and your husband have been open to various approaches to treatment.  I wish you well in the next directions you decide to take.

                                                                      Hope

                                                                      hope4cure1
                                                                      Participant

                                                                        I won't pretend to be an expert, and I can only offer what our experience has been.  My husband was originally diagnosed in 2001.  We had a great long period of NED, and then in 2008 it returned and was termed "in-transit".  In September, 2010, he had surgery to remove two tumors in his right lung.  In January, 2011, scans showed 4 growths in liver and 2 in chest cavity.  In February, 2011, he began a chemo combo of abraxane/carboplatin/avastin.  The carbo was discontinued in June due to an allergic reaction.  His scans in July were NED.  September scans also NED and abraxane was discontinued.  He is on avastin for maintenance.  His last scans in December were still NED. 

                                                                        I hadn't heard of the SPARC correlation to response to abraxane.  If this is the case, has your doctor mentioned this as a possibility for your husband?   My husband tolerated the chemo regimen pretty well.  Each case is different, but since you mentioned abraxane, I wanted to share what my husband's response was.

                                                                        You are right that caregivers can feel quite isolated.  If there is a support group convenient for you, it would be worth checking out.  If not for our local Wellness Community, I don't know how I would have made it through.  With their help, I am better able to take the ups and downs, and I feel certain that this enables me to be a much greater support to my husband and our sons.

                                                                        It sounds like you and your husband have been open to various approaches to treatment.  I wish you well in the next directions you decide to take.

                                                                        Hope

                                                                        hope4cure1
                                                                        Participant

                                                                          I won't pretend to be an expert, and I can only offer what our experience has been.  My husband was originally diagnosed in 2001.  We had a great long period of NED, and then in 2008 it returned and was termed "in-transit".  In September, 2010, he had surgery to remove two tumors in his right lung.  In January, 2011, scans showed 4 growths in liver and 2 in chest cavity.  In February, 2011, he began a chemo combo of abraxane/carboplatin/avastin.  The carbo was discontinued in June due to an allergic reaction.  His scans in July were NED.  September scans also NED and abraxane was discontinued.  He is on avastin for maintenance.  His last scans in December were still NED. 

                                                                          I hadn't heard of the SPARC correlation to response to abraxane.  If this is the case, has your doctor mentioned this as a possibility for your husband?   My husband tolerated the chemo regimen pretty well.  Each case is different, but since you mentioned abraxane, I wanted to share what my husband's response was.

                                                                          You are right that caregivers can feel quite isolated.  If there is a support group convenient for you, it would be worth checking out.  If not for our local Wellness Community, I don't know how I would have made it through.  With their help, I am better able to take the ups and downs, and I feel certain that this enables me to be a much greater support to my husband and our sons.

                                                                          It sounds like you and your husband have been open to various approaches to treatment.  I wish you well in the next directions you decide to take.

                                                                          Hope

                                                                            zaccarin
                                                                            Participant

                                                                              Hope,

                                                                              Thank you so much for your very helpful response. How wonderful that this chemo combo worked for your husband!

                                                                              It was I that mentioned the ablaxane to my husband's oncologist, as she had no idea of the correlation between this and the sparc mutation. Unfortunately, he just spent two days in the hospital due to low hemoglobin caused by five stomach ulcers, and she had been, even prior to this, waiting for his counts to go up before starting a new treatment. She is not sure whether ablaxane is the right choice and questions whether she can justify its use for melanoma, but I suspect it is because she is not a melanoma expert.  I read that ablaxane has 'orphan drug' status for the treatment of melanoma.

                                                                              You're right that I should look for a support group. This forum is so wonderful because everyone offers ideas and looks at things from a positive angle. Unfortunately, I find that when people know of our situation, they are not very encouraging. Despite that, I need to be strong and try a support group because it can help, as you said, with the ups and downs.

                                                                              Thank you again, and may the blessings continue.

                                                                              zaccarin
                                                                              Participant

                                                                                Hope,

                                                                                Thank you so much for your very helpful response. How wonderful that this chemo combo worked for your husband!

                                                                                It was I that mentioned the ablaxane to my husband's oncologist, as she had no idea of the correlation between this and the sparc mutation. Unfortunately, he just spent two days in the hospital due to low hemoglobin caused by five stomach ulcers, and she had been, even prior to this, waiting for his counts to go up before starting a new treatment. She is not sure whether ablaxane is the right choice and questions whether she can justify its use for melanoma, but I suspect it is because she is not a melanoma expert.  I read that ablaxane has 'orphan drug' status for the treatment of melanoma.

                                                                                You're right that I should look for a support group. This forum is so wonderful because everyone offers ideas and looks at things from a positive angle. Unfortunately, I find that when people know of our situation, they are not very encouraging. Despite that, I need to be strong and try a support group because it can help, as you said, with the ups and downs.

                                                                                Thank you again, and may the blessings continue.

                                                                                zaccarin
                                                                                Participant

                                                                                  Hope,

                                                                                  Thank you so much for your very helpful response. How wonderful that this chemo combo worked for your husband!

                                                                                  It was I that mentioned the ablaxane to my husband's oncologist, as she had no idea of the correlation between this and the sparc mutation. Unfortunately, he just spent two days in the hospital due to low hemoglobin caused by five stomach ulcers, and she had been, even prior to this, waiting for his counts to go up before starting a new treatment. She is not sure whether ablaxane is the right choice and questions whether she can justify its use for melanoma, but I suspect it is because she is not a melanoma expert.  I read that ablaxane has 'orphan drug' status for the treatment of melanoma.

                                                                                  You're right that I should look for a support group. This forum is so wonderful because everyone offers ideas and looks at things from a positive angle. Unfortunately, I find that when people know of our situation, they are not very encouraging. Despite that, I need to be strong and try a support group because it can help, as you said, with the ups and downs.

                                                                                  Thank you again, and may the blessings continue.

                                                                                  zaccarin
                                                                                  Participant

                                                                                    Dear Hope,

                                                                                    I wanted to add that, given some similarities, your story gave me much hope.I was just wondering whether your husband had any nausea, given some liver involvement. Were there any problems with his weight being low prior to beginning the abraxane combo? This is our problem – just keeping the weight up and getting him to eat. Now low blood counts add to this. I'm trying to stay positive.

                                                                                    You and other responders to my post are such a blessing to me for making suggestions without adding discouraging comments. Something did help me though. I read something by Elisabeth Kubler Ross, who suggests that when fear creeps up, one must acknowledge that fear and then proactively replace it with love – just think about how much I love my husband and consider another way that I can make him more comfortable or do something for him. This helped me.

                                                                                    We just celebrated our 29th wedding anniversary. I was only 22 when we married, so I can only imagine my life with him near me.

                                                                                    Thanks again.

                                                                                    Cristina

                                                                                    zaccarin
                                                                                    Participant

                                                                                      Dear Hope,

                                                                                      I wanted to add that, given some similarities, your story gave me much hope.I was just wondering whether your husband had any nausea, given some liver involvement. Were there any problems with his weight being low prior to beginning the abraxane combo? This is our problem – just keeping the weight up and getting him to eat. Now low blood counts add to this. I'm trying to stay positive.

                                                                                      You and other responders to my post are such a blessing to me for making suggestions without adding discouraging comments. Something did help me though. I read something by Elisabeth Kubler Ross, who suggests that when fear creeps up, one must acknowledge that fear and then proactively replace it with love – just think about how much I love my husband and consider another way that I can make him more comfortable or do something for him. This helped me.

                                                                                      We just celebrated our 29th wedding anniversary. I was only 22 when we married, so I can only imagine my life with him near me.

                                                                                      Thanks again.

                                                                                      Cristina

                                                                                      zaccarin
                                                                                      Participant

                                                                                        Dear Hope,

                                                                                        I wanted to add that, given some similarities, your story gave me much hope.I was just wondering whether your husband had any nausea, given some liver involvement. Were there any problems with his weight being low prior to beginning the abraxane combo? This is our problem – just keeping the weight up and getting him to eat. Now low blood counts add to this. I'm trying to stay positive.

                                                                                        You and other responders to my post are such a blessing to me for making suggestions without adding discouraging comments. Something did help me though. I read something by Elisabeth Kubler Ross, who suggests that when fear creeps up, one must acknowledge that fear and then proactively replace it with love – just think about how much I love my husband and consider another way that I can make him more comfortable or do something for him. This helped me.

                                                                                        We just celebrated our 29th wedding anniversary. I was only 22 when we married, so I can only imagine my life with him near me.

                                                                                        Thanks again.

                                                                                        Cristina

                                                                                        hope4cure1
                                                                                        Participant

                                                                                          Hi Cristina,

                                                                                          My husband wasn't showing symptoms before the scan that revealed the liver mets. He lost about 15 pounds over the course of  8 months or so of chemo treatment.  With the carboplatin, he would feel indigestion the night of treatment, and also had mouth sores at first.  It was a struggle to find things that didn't taste terrible to him.  Oddly, Chinese hot and sour soup and chicken soup were two things that consistently tasted good to him.  He complained of the metallic taste of the chemo.  Since he has been on just avastin, he has gained his weight back and then some.  Can your doctor, perhaps, refer you to a nutritionist? 

                                                                                          You said something that caught my eye.  Is your doctor a melanoma specialist?  I think everyone agrees that this is the time to seek out the very best you can find.  If you can get to a Center of Excellence, they will have access to not only the best treatments, but also clinical trials that may be promising for your husband.  I'm sorry if I misunderstood your doctor's experience with melanoma.

                                                                                          As far as the support you might need for yourself, this is my experience.  I was a total wreck.  From the moment I opened my eyes in the morning, melanoma dominated my every thought.  I'm a teacher, and could hardly think in front of my students.  Every time someone asked how I was doing, I'd break down.  Our friends and family have been great…however,…do they really want to talk about nothing else in the world besides about how worried I am?  Not really.  What my husband wants to do is LIVE.  The trick is to LIVE with cancer…not let it steal every special moment it can.  Our support group is the place I can go every Wednesday night.  We are there for each other.  We can cry, scream, whine, whatever, and no one backs away or judges you.  We do a lot of laughing and celebrating good news too.  We give each other strength we didn't have alone. That evening with the group is my special place to put my worries and tears so that I can live the rest of each week with a smile, optimism, and joy in living.  That is the best way I can love and support my husband.

                                                                                          Cristina, you're a strong woman.  You found inspiration in the words of  Kubler-Ross.  That's strength in itself.

                                                                                          Take care,  Hope

                                                                                          zaccarin
                                                                                          Participant

                                                                                            Hope,

                                                                                            Thank you so much for sharing that. I too am a teacher and there were so many instances where I would be teaching or speaking to students, when my husband's situation would pop into my brain. It has been incredibly difficult. Was your support group for caregivers of those with melanoma or those with cancer in general? 

                                                                                            Also, I am wondering whether your husband's treatment came from a melanoma treatment center. The closest ones to us are at Sloan and NYU. Since ablaxane has orphan drug status, I would think that it would be available to my husband's local oncologist. He is willing to travel to NYC from where we live on Long Island now, but when we went to Mt. Sinai, all we were offered was Yervoy and the anti-pd1 clinical trial which he was excluded from because it could cause lung toxicity and his lungs were now compromised. It seems like the only possibility is the ablaxane at this point, and it may be a good match because of the sparc overexpression. So I am wondering whether your husband's treatment was part of a clinical trial. May I ask which doctor this was? If you don't wish to give details, please let me know via email at

                                                                                            [email protected].

                                                                                            Thank you for your kind words. I would like to believe that I am strong enough to be his rock and get my family through this. You are obviously very strong, and your husband was most fortunate that you helped him through this.

                                                                                            Cristina

                                                                                            zaccarin
                                                                                            Participant

                                                                                              Hope,

                                                                                              I see that your husband was treated at the John Wayne Cancer Center. I hope my husband will be well enough to travel soon.

                                                                                              Thanks again.
                                                                                              Cristina

                                                                                              zaccarin
                                                                                              Participant

                                                                                                Hope,

                                                                                                I see that your husband was treated at the John Wayne Cancer Center. I hope my husband will be well enough to travel soon.

                                                                                                Thanks again.
                                                                                                Cristina

                                                                                                zaccarin
                                                                                                Participant

                                                                                                  Hope,

                                                                                                  I see that your husband was treated at the John Wayne Cancer Center. I hope my husband will be well enough to travel soon.

                                                                                                  Thanks again.
                                                                                                  Cristina

                                                                                                  zaccarin
                                                                                                  Participant

                                                                                                    Hope,

                                                                                                    Thank you so much for sharing that. I too am a teacher and there were so many instances where I would be teaching or speaking to students, when my husband's situation would pop into my brain. It has been incredibly difficult. Was your support group for caregivers of those with melanoma or those with cancer in general? 

                                                                                                    Also, I am wondering whether your husband's treatment came from a melanoma treatment center. The closest ones to us are at Sloan and NYU. Since ablaxane has orphan drug status, I would think that it would be available to my husband's local oncologist. He is willing to travel to NYC from where we live on Long Island now, but when we went to Mt. Sinai, all we were offered was Yervoy and the anti-pd1 clinical trial which he was excluded from because it could cause lung toxicity and his lungs were now compromised. It seems like the only possibility is the ablaxane at this point, and it may be a good match because of the sparc overexpression. So I am wondering whether your husband's treatment was part of a clinical trial. May I ask which doctor this was? If you don't wish to give details, please let me know via email at

                                                                                                    [email protected].

                                                                                                    Thank you for your kind words. I would like to believe that I am strong enough to be his rock and get my family through this. You are obviously very strong, and your husband was most fortunate that you helped him through this.

                                                                                                    Cristina

                                                                                                    zaccarin
                                                                                                    Participant

                                                                                                      Hope,

                                                                                                      Thank you so much for sharing that. I too am a teacher and there were so many instances where I would be teaching or speaking to students, when my husband's situation would pop into my brain. It has been incredibly difficult. Was your support group for caregivers of those with melanoma or those with cancer in general? 

                                                                                                      Also, I am wondering whether your husband's treatment came from a melanoma treatment center. The closest ones to us are at Sloan and NYU. Since ablaxane has orphan drug status, I would think that it would be available to my husband's local oncologist. He is willing to travel to NYC from where we live on Long Island now, but when we went to Mt. Sinai, all we were offered was Yervoy and the anti-pd1 clinical trial which he was excluded from because it could cause lung toxicity and his lungs were now compromised. It seems like the only possibility is the ablaxane at this point, and it may be a good match because of the sparc overexpression. So I am wondering whether your husband's treatment was part of a clinical trial. May I ask which doctor this was? If you don't wish to give details, please let me know via email at

                                                                                                      [email protected].

                                                                                                      Thank you for your kind words. I would like to believe that I am strong enough to be his rock and get my family through this. You are obviously very strong, and your husband was most fortunate that you helped him through this.

                                                                                                      Cristina

                                                                                                      hope4cure1
                                                                                                      Participant

                                                                                                        Hi Cristina,

                                                                                                        My husband wasn't showing symptoms before the scan that revealed the liver mets. He lost about 15 pounds over the course of  8 months or so of chemo treatment.  With the carboplatin, he would feel indigestion the night of treatment, and also had mouth sores at first.  It was a struggle to find things that didn't taste terrible to him.  Oddly, Chinese hot and sour soup and chicken soup were two things that consistently tasted good to him.  He complained of the metallic taste of the chemo.  Since he has been on just avastin, he has gained his weight back and then some.  Can your doctor, perhaps, refer you to a nutritionist? 

                                                                                                        You said something that caught my eye.  Is your doctor a melanoma specialist?  I think everyone agrees that this is the time to seek out the very best you can find.  If you can get to a Center of Excellence, they will have access to not only the best treatments, but also clinical trials that may be promising for your husband.  I'm sorry if I misunderstood your doctor's experience with melanoma.

                                                                                                        As far as the support you might need for yourself, this is my experience.  I was a total wreck.  From the moment I opened my eyes in the morning, melanoma dominated my every thought.  I'm a teacher, and could hardly think in front of my students.  Every time someone asked how I was doing, I'd break down.  Our friends and family have been great…however,…do they really want to talk about nothing else in the world besides about how worried I am?  Not really.  What my husband wants to do is LIVE.  The trick is to LIVE with cancer…not let it steal every special moment it can.  Our support group is the place I can go every Wednesday night.  We are there for each other.  We can cry, scream, whine, whatever, and no one backs away or judges you.  We do a lot of laughing and celebrating good news too.  We give each other strength we didn't have alone. That evening with the group is my special place to put my worries and tears so that I can live the rest of each week with a smile, optimism, and joy in living.  That is the best way I can love and support my husband.

                                                                                                        Cristina, you're a strong woman.  You found inspiration in the words of  Kubler-Ross.  That's strength in itself.

                                                                                                        Take care,  Hope

                                                                                                        hope4cure1
                                                                                                        Participant

                                                                                                          Hi Cristina,

                                                                                                          My husband wasn't showing symptoms before the scan that revealed the liver mets. He lost about 15 pounds over the course of  8 months or so of chemo treatment.  With the carboplatin, he would feel indigestion the night of treatment, and also had mouth sores at first.  It was a struggle to find things that didn't taste terrible to him.  Oddly, Chinese hot and sour soup and chicken soup were two things that consistently tasted good to him.  He complained of the metallic taste of the chemo.  Since he has been on just avastin, he has gained his weight back and then some.  Can your doctor, perhaps, refer you to a nutritionist? 

                                                                                                          You said something that caught my eye.  Is your doctor a melanoma specialist?  I think everyone agrees that this is the time to seek out the very best you can find.  If you can get to a Center of Excellence, they will have access to not only the best treatments, but also clinical trials that may be promising for your husband.  I'm sorry if I misunderstood your doctor's experience with melanoma.

                                                                                                          As far as the support you might need for yourself, this is my experience.  I was a total wreck.  From the moment I opened my eyes in the morning, melanoma dominated my every thought.  I'm a teacher, and could hardly think in front of my students.  Every time someone asked how I was doing, I'd break down.  Our friends and family have been great…however,…do they really want to talk about nothing else in the world besides about how worried I am?  Not really.  What my husband wants to do is LIVE.  The trick is to LIVE with cancer…not let it steal every special moment it can.  Our support group is the place I can go every Wednesday night.  We are there for each other.  We can cry, scream, whine, whatever, and no one backs away or judges you.  We do a lot of laughing and celebrating good news too.  We give each other strength we didn't have alone. That evening with the group is my special place to put my worries and tears so that I can live the rest of each week with a smile, optimism, and joy in living.  That is the best way I can love and support my husband.

                                                                                                          Cristina, you're a strong woman.  You found inspiration in the words of  Kubler-Ross.  That's strength in itself.

                                                                                                          Take care,  Hope

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