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    triciad
    Participant

    Hi Everyone,

    The responses from my last post has my curiosity flowing.  My doctor spends around 2-3 minutes with me each visit.  I am stage 3B.  I always thought that this was normal, but from your responses, it looks like I am wrong.

    I'm wondering, just how long does your doctor spend with you during a visit/checkup?

    I hope many of you will participate in this little survey…could turn out very interesting!

    Thanks!

    Tricia

    Hi Everyone,

    The responses from my last post has my curiosity flowing.  My doctor spends around 2-3 minutes with me each visit.  I am stage 3B.  I always thought that this was normal, but from your responses, it looks like I am wrong.

    I'm wondering, just how long does your doctor spend with you during a visit/checkup?

    I hope many of you will participate in this little survey…could turn out very interesting!

    Thanks!

    Tricia

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      Teodora
      Guest

      Tricia,

      If you are from New Jersey,one of the US top melanoma centers-Sloan Kettering in New York is right next to you;contact Dr Jedd Wolchok, he is one of the Yervoy creators and one of the best melanoma specialists and  request a consultation.You will be in really good hands with them.

      Dr.Wolchok  :tel 646 888 2395                   

      http://www.mskcc.org/prg/prg/bios/608.cfm

       

      Good Luck,

      Teodora 

      Teodora
      Guest

      Tricia,

      If you are from New Jersey,one of the US top melanoma centers-Sloan Kettering in New York is right next to you;contact Dr Jedd Wolchok, he is one of the Yervoy creators and one of the best melanoma specialists and  request a consultation.You will be in really good hands with them.

      Dr.Wolchok  :tel 646 888 2395                   

      http://www.mskcc.org/prg/prg/bios/608.cfm

       

      Good Luck,

      Teodora 

        triciad
        Participant

        Thanks Teodora.  I met with Dr. Wolchok when I was first diagnosed, and he wanted me to participate in the Ipi trial.  My tumor was completely resected, so I would be part of the new study to see the effects of Ipi to ward off reoccurence.  There was a 50/50 chance I would get the placebo, and my family was just not comfortable with that.  My sister's friend worked with Dr. Wolchok and made all of the arrangements.  I also met with Dr. Pavlic at NYU.  Both of these doctors are excellent, and I am ready to call them if necessary.

        I really appreciate your help and input.  Having "friends" out there who know the battle means so much.  Best of luck to you!!!!

        Thanks again!

        Tricia

        triciad
        Participant

        Thanks Teodora.  I met with Dr. Wolchok when I was first diagnosed, and he wanted me to participate in the Ipi trial.  My tumor was completely resected, so I would be part of the new study to see the effects of Ipi to ward off reoccurence.  There was a 50/50 chance I would get the placebo, and my family was just not comfortable with that.  My sister's friend worked with Dr. Wolchok and made all of the arrangements.  I also met with Dr. Pavlic at NYU.  Both of these doctors are excellent, and I am ready to call them if necessary.

        I really appreciate your help and input.  Having "friends" out there who know the battle means so much.  Best of luck to you!!!!

        Thanks again!

        Tricia

        michelleg
        Participant

        Depending on my appointment…..whether I see a resident, nurse practitioner, and/or doctor, the time has varied.  The doctor and NP have spent anywhere from 5 minutes to 45 minutes each.  Then I have emailed them on numerous occasions as questions come up.  I think each patient has different needs on different days, and a quick visit is not always a bad thing.

        Michelle/3B

        michelleg
        Participant

        Depending on my appointment…..whether I see a resident, nurse practitioner, and/or doctor, the time has varied.  The doctor and NP have spent anywhere from 5 minutes to 45 minutes each.  Then I have emailed them on numerous occasions as questions come up.  I think each patient has different needs on different days, and a quick visit is not always a bad thing.

        Michelle/3B

      RMcLegal
      Participant

      Hi Tricia, generally I'd say that my golden retriever's veterinarian spends more time with him than my oncologist spends with me in one of my routine follow up visits as an 8-year survivor after a Stage IIIc diagnosis.  But I know that if I came to him presenting any symptoms of concern, he'd be all over them.  Short checkups are good checkups!

      Best wishes to you!

      http://www.hotelmelanoma.blogspot.com

      RMcLegal
      Participant

      Hi Tricia, generally I'd say that my golden retriever's veterinarian spends more time with him than my oncologist spends with me in one of my routine follow up visits as an 8-year survivor after a Stage IIIc diagnosis.  But I know that if I came to him presenting any symptoms of concern, he'd be all over them.  Short checkups are good checkups!

      Best wishes to you!

      http://www.hotelmelanoma.blogspot.com

      Carol Taylor
      Participant

      I get about 4-5 minutes with an intern and then I get all the time my visit warrants with my doc. If all's well and I have no questions, then I may see him only that 2-3 minutes, but that's all I need. For visits where I need more time, he doesn't leave until I'm satisfied, that really doesn't take longer than may 5-10 minutes because usually I can get basic questions answered by the intern or my doc's onc nurse (who's fabulous).

      I really can't sing Dr. Tyler's praises loud enough. He's laid back, not rush- rush. One  of my recent appts was eaarly afternoon, 4:30 I still hadn't seen him but was in a room waiting, door open. We all hear this voice and I look and there's this man standing outside another room shouting saying that he's been waiting almost 3 hours and it was ridiculous. That's the way Dr. Tyler is… I knew he was taking his time with his patieints who needed his time. I wish we could all have that.

      Grace and peace,

      Carol

      Carol Taylor
      Participant

      I get about 4-5 minutes with an intern and then I get all the time my visit warrants with my doc. If all's well and I have no questions, then I may see him only that 2-3 minutes, but that's all I need. For visits where I need more time, he doesn't leave until I'm satisfied, that really doesn't take longer than may 5-10 minutes because usually I can get basic questions answered by the intern or my doc's onc nurse (who's fabulous).

      I really can't sing Dr. Tyler's praises loud enough. He's laid back, not rush- rush. One  of my recent appts was eaarly afternoon, 4:30 I still hadn't seen him but was in a room waiting, door open. We all hear this voice and I look and there's this man standing outside another room shouting saying that he's been waiting almost 3 hours and it was ridiculous. That's the way Dr. Tyler is… I knew he was taking his time with his patieints who needed his time. I wish we could all have that.

      Grace and peace,

      Carol

      Fen
      Participant

      My derm usually spends 10-15 minutes with me- longer if I need it.  That includes a check up and basic questions I might have.  Oh, and that's after I see his resident.  Dr. Lui at University of Iowa.  Can't say enough good things about that group.

      My local oncologist also spends as much time with me as I need.  Sometimes 5 minutes, some times much longer.  Again, Dr. Garneau and his staff are wonderful.

      Fen
      Participant

      My derm usually spends 10-15 minutes with me- longer if I need it.  That includes a check up and basic questions I might have.  Oh, and that's after I see his resident.  Dr. Lui at University of Iowa.  Can't say enough good things about that group.

      My local oncologist also spends as much time with me as I need.  Sometimes 5 minutes, some times much longer.  Again, Dr. Garneau and his staff are wonderful.

      Lauri England
      Participant

      I would say my Onc spends as much time as I need at my appts.  I have 2 doctors. Dr Schwartz and Dr Kaluza at Breslin Cancer Center.  Over the past year I have grown very fond of the Breslin Cancer Center and there staff.  There are several nurses that work in the infusion center that take the time to get to know you.  I went through the 1 month high dose Interferon so I was there 5 days a week for 4 weeks.  This was last October and they still know me by first name.  I never feel hurried but there are times I do have to wait in the exam room for an hour or more.  I know the doctors are giving each patient the same attention as they give me so I try to be patient.

      Lauri England
      Participant

      I would say my Onc spends as much time as I need at my appts.  I have 2 doctors. Dr Schwartz and Dr Kaluza at Breslin Cancer Center.  Over the past year I have grown very fond of the Breslin Cancer Center and there staff.  There are several nurses that work in the infusion center that take the time to get to know you.  I went through the 1 month high dose Interferon so I was there 5 days a week for 4 weeks.  This was last October and they still know me by first name.  I never feel hurried but there are times I do have to wait in the exam room for an hour or more.  I know the doctors are giving each patient the same attention as they give me so I try to be patient.

      lhaley
      Participant

      After reading your post I asked my husband how much time he thinks my Dr actually spends with me.  We aren't sure, we have always had to wait but he has also never rushed us!  In the last 2 years I don't think I've had a visit where there wasn't some sort of issue ……  and he has always sat down and talked to both of us, quite often bringing in another Dr. if needed where he felt he couldn't give an answer.  I would say that most appointments are anywhere from 15 min and up. 

      If I go home and have another thought I also e-mail him!  The other day when you were told that we will take care of you, he should have told you options if the biopsy came back positive. At least that's my thoughts.  When a plan is in place, or options of plans, emotionally you can deal more often.

      My Dr has also in the past discussed current trials that he doesn't have but are availailable. He's also let me know when he hasn't liked a trial and has told me why.

      You have to be comfortable with your Dr.

      Linda

      stage IV for 5 years

      lhaley
      Participant

      After reading your post I asked my husband how much time he thinks my Dr actually spends with me.  We aren't sure, we have always had to wait but he has also never rushed us!  In the last 2 years I don't think I've had a visit where there wasn't some sort of issue ……  and he has always sat down and talked to both of us, quite often bringing in another Dr. if needed where he felt he couldn't give an answer.  I would say that most appointments are anywhere from 15 min and up. 

      If I go home and have another thought I also e-mail him!  The other day when you were told that we will take care of you, he should have told you options if the biopsy came back positive. At least that's my thoughts.  When a plan is in place, or options of plans, emotionally you can deal more often.

      My Dr has also in the past discussed current trials that he doesn't have but are availailable. He's also let me know when he hasn't liked a trial and has told me why.

      You have to be comfortable with your Dr.

      Linda

      stage IV for 5 years

      scots
      Participant
      my onc spends as much time as I need.

      Scots

      scots
      Participant
      my onc spends as much time as I need.

      Scots

        boot2aboot
        Participant

        As long as i need or want

        boots

        boot2aboot
        Participant

        As long as i need or want

        boots

      ockelly
      Participant

      Always a sit down conversation first that takes as long as we need.  We ask questions and onc asks us just as many… then physical exam.  Never rushed and always answers emails quickly between appts.

      Kelly

      ockelly
      Participant

      Always a sit down conversation first that takes as long as we need.  We ask questions and onc asks us just as many… then physical exam.  Never rushed and always answers emails quickly between appts.

      Kelly

      JerryfromFauq
      Participant

      The nurse goes over my meds, how I feel, refills I need, then a Fellow comes in and I go over my notes with him for around 5 minutes then the Oncologist always comes in and checks me put goes over my notes aand questions for him and doesn't leave until he has either answered all my questions or made notes on what to research for me.,etc   I caaan always email him and expect a response within 24 hours, sometimes it only been minutes.-Sometimes I have had to wait a while to see him but he is treating all his patients as though they are worthy of his time.

      JerryfromFauq
      Participant

      The nurse goes over my meds, how I feel, refills I need, then a Fellow comes in and I go over my notes with him for around 5 minutes then the Oncologist always comes in and checks me put goes over my notes aand questions for him and doesn't leave until he has either answered all my questions or made notes on what to research for me.,etc   I caaan always email him and expect a response within 24 hours, sometimes it only been minutes.-Sometimes I have had to wait a while to see him but he is treating all his patients as though they are worthy of his time.

      triciad
      Participant

      Thanks everyone for responding to my little survey.  I am still trying to make sense of it all.  I have been going along with these short visits as a sign of things are going well.  I will see what yesterday's PET reveals and then make a decision on where to go from here.  Most likely, I will have a talk with my doctor to explain my need for more information during this journey; otherwise, I will find another doctor.

      Thanks again for helping me understand the process.  Here's to a summer of good news for all of us!

      Tricia

      triciad
      Participant

      Thanks everyone for responding to my little survey.  I am still trying to make sense of it all.  I have been going along with these short visits as a sign of things are going well.  I will see what yesterday's PET reveals and then make a decision on where to go from here.  Most likely, I will have a talk with my doctor to explain my need for more information during this journey; otherwise, I will find another doctor.

      Thanks again for helping me understand the process.  Here's to a summer of good news for all of us!

      Tricia

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