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Keepingyourchinup

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      Keepingyourchinup
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      Hi! 

       

      I would strongly recommend that you see a dermatologist asap! While we can't diagnose you, seek treatment. It is better to be safe than sorry. I had a mole that I have lived with for my entire life. I delayed seeking treatment for a year because it looked normal. I am now stage 3a amelanotic melanoma. It is better to be safe, then sorry. I wish you the best of luck! 

       

      Kathy 

      Keepingyourchinup
      Participant

      Hi! 

       

      I would strongly recommend that you see a dermatologist asap! While we can't diagnose you, seek treatment. It is better to be safe than sorry. I had a mole that I have lived with for my entire life. I delayed seeking treatment for a year because it looked normal. I am now stage 3a amelanotic melanoma. It is better to be safe, then sorry. I wish you the best of luck! 

       

      Kathy 

      Keepingyourchinup
      Participant

      Hi! 

       

      I would strongly recommend that you see a dermatologist asap! While we can't diagnose you, seek treatment. It is better to be safe than sorry. I had a mole that I have lived with for my entire life. I delayed seeking treatment for a year because it looked normal. I am now stage 3a amelanotic melanoma. It is better to be safe, then sorry. I wish you the best of luck! 

       

      Kathy 

      Keepingyourchinup
      Participant

      Hi Bill, 

      Thank you for sharing your story! I think it really helps to hear the paths everyone else has traveled. I am in Baltimore as well but am being treated at Mercy, who is working with Hopkins as they collaborate with the melanoma specialists. I see my surgeon on Monday and will discuss next steps regarding follow up. Ipi was one of the drugs I was really interested in for treatment but I am 3A so I don't qualify for that. Apparently I didn't have "enough cancer in my lymph node". On one hand I am glad; however, it was really aggravating to hear that statement. I am glad the side effects of ipi were much better than the interferon! Honestly, I think we are all playing the waiting game once you have the diagnosis. I know that I try not to worry too much about it as it really does create a lot of stress. 

      I wish you all the best! 

       

      Kathy

      Keepingyourchinup
      Participant

      Hi Bill, 

      Thank you for sharing your story! I think it really helps to hear the paths everyone else has traveled. I am in Baltimore as well but am being treated at Mercy, who is working with Hopkins as they collaborate with the melanoma specialists. I see my surgeon on Monday and will discuss next steps regarding follow up. Ipi was one of the drugs I was really interested in for treatment but I am 3A so I don't qualify for that. Apparently I didn't have "enough cancer in my lymph node". On one hand I am glad; however, it was really aggravating to hear that statement. I am glad the side effects of ipi were much better than the interferon! Honestly, I think we are all playing the waiting game once you have the diagnosis. I know that I try not to worry too much about it as it really does create a lot of stress. 

      I wish you all the best! 

       

      Kathy

      Keepingyourchinup
      Participant

      Hi Bill, 

      Thank you for sharing your story! I think it really helps to hear the paths everyone else has traveled. I am in Baltimore as well but am being treated at Mercy, who is working with Hopkins as they collaborate with the melanoma specialists. I see my surgeon on Monday and will discuss next steps regarding follow up. Ipi was one of the drugs I was really interested in for treatment but I am 3A so I don't qualify for that. Apparently I didn't have "enough cancer in my lymph node". On one hand I am glad; however, it was really aggravating to hear that statement. I am glad the side effects of ipi were much better than the interferon! Honestly, I think we are all playing the waiting game once you have the diagnosis. I know that I try not to worry too much about it as it really does create a lot of stress. 

      I wish you all the best! 

       

      Kathy

      Keepingyourchinup
      Participant

      Thank you so much for the replies! I truly appreciate your words of advice. 

       

      Ed: I have to share something… I do talk a bit but the anti-depressants I was on made me talk even more the week they finally kicked in. I couldn't stop complimenting strangers or talking and boy was it annoying! Even my family would ask me when I was going to bed… The following week I was back to feeling exhausted but still talking… I Can totally relate to not feeling like yourself as aggression started setting in. So I was a tired, talking, exhausted female…. Talk about scary ๐Ÿ˜‰ 

       

      have a great weekend everyone! 

      Kathy

       

      Keepingyourchinup
      Participant

      Thank you so much for the replies! I truly appreciate your words of advice. 

       

      Ed: I have to share something… I do talk a bit but the anti-depressants I was on made me talk even more the week they finally kicked in. I couldn't stop complimenting strangers or talking and boy was it annoying! Even my family would ask me when I was going to bed… The following week I was back to feeling exhausted but still talking… I Can totally relate to not feeling like yourself as aggression started setting in. So I was a tired, talking, exhausted female…. Talk about scary ๐Ÿ˜‰ 

       

      have a great weekend everyone! 

      Kathy

       

      Keepingyourchinup
      Participant

      Thank you so much for the replies! I truly appreciate your words of advice. 

       

      Ed: I have to share something… I do talk a bit but the anti-depressants I was on made me talk even more the week they finally kicked in. I couldn't stop complimenting strangers or talking and boy was it annoying! Even my family would ask me when I was going to bed… The following week I was back to feeling exhausted but still talking… I Can totally relate to not feeling like yourself as aggression started setting in. So I was a tired, talking, exhausted female…. Talk about scary ๐Ÿ˜‰ 

       

      have a great weekend everyone! 

      Kathy

       

      Keepingyourchinup
      Participant

      Congrats Mary! That is great news and thanks for sharing that! I start my treatment tomorrow so we shall see….. I finally put my 'big girl pants" on and am ready…. I think. By the way, I love the statement under your name; it says alot! 

      Kathy 

      Keepingyourchinup
      Participant

      Congrats Mary! That is great news and thanks for sharing that! I start my treatment tomorrow so we shall see….. I finally put my 'big girl pants" on and am ready…. I think. By the way, I love the statement under your name; it says alot! 

      Kathy 

      Keepingyourchinup
      Participant

      Congrats Mary! That is great news and thanks for sharing that! I start my treatment tomorrow so we shall see….. I finally put my 'big girl pants" on and am ready…. I think. By the way, I love the statement under your name; it says alot! 

      Kathy 

      Keepingyourchinup
      Participant

      Thank you for sharing your story! I think I know my decision so I will at least try it. The "traditional" Interferon was a big no for me but I will try the pegylated version and see what happens. I hope your scans are clear and you find that clinical trial! It is a hunt for all of us, I think. 

       

      Kathy 

      Keepingyourchinup
      Participant

      Thank you for sharing your story! I think I know my decision so I will at least try it. The "traditional" Interferon was a big no for me but I will try the pegylated version and see what happens. I hope your scans are clear and you find that clinical trial! It is a hunt for all of us, I think. 

       

      Kathy 

      Keepingyourchinup
      Participant

      Thank you for sharing your story! I think I know my decision so I will at least try it. The "traditional" Interferon was a big no for me but I will try the pegylated version and see what happens. I hope your scans are clear and you find that clinical trial! It is a hunt for all of us, I think. 

       

      Kathy 

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