Beccy2907

Dear Elisabeth

I just got a google alert that lead me to your post. The reason why I once set up google alerts set up on keywords like "ocular melanoma", "eye cancer" and a few more is because I was diagnosed with uveal melanoma in December 2012 myself.

I can only imagine what it feels like for someone when a beloved one faces a cancer diagnosis – in this case one that is fairly rare and not well known in society.

There are a few things that I want to share with you based on my very own experiences:

First of all, I would try to have your mother seeing Shields and Shields at Will's Eye Hospital in Philadelphia. They are THE experts in the field when it comes to treatment options of the primary tumor. Depending on the size (height, basal diameter, location) there are various types of treatment. Usually, one distinguishes between small, medium and large melanomas. Mine was medium and I underwent a plaque therapy. If this is a relevant option for you Mum, she does not have to be scared. It does not hurt and works in more than 90%. I also had to do MRIs, chest x-rays, blodd test etc. where they were looking if the cancer has spread or not. I still do MRIs of my abdomen every six months. Why I do this is because I had a biopsy done to check if there was any chromosomal changes to the tumor'a tissue. If you google around you will find expressions like monosomy 3 etc. with horrifying medical papers (they freaked me out! So do not google too much). I did have monosomy 3 with a metastatic risk of 30%. The liver is the organ that shows the highest likelihood for post-mets. That is why MRIs are important.

Overall, I can totally understand that this is tragic and fear is all you carry inside of you. I still do, too more than one year after treatment. However, and I know that this is tough, supporting her menthally is the best you can do! I warmheartedly offer you to talk to me on Skype if you want to. You find me under Beccy2907. I live in Europe again, where I originally come from. And would be happy to talk to you if you want to. Just send me a message any time!

I am not a native and googled the hell out of this topic to be able to understand what the doctors were telling me. By now I know a loy about this disease. And a lot more about myself, too. So if you want to talk to a former patient, just let me know!

Sending you a lot of positive thoughts across the ocean!

All the best and a lot of strength for you and your Mum,

Rebecca

Dear Elisabeth

I just got a google alert that lead me to your post. The reason why I once set up google alerts set up on keywords like "ocular melanoma", "eye cancer" and a few more is because I was diagnosed with uveal melanoma in December 2012 myself.

I can only imagine what it feels like for someone when a beloved one faces a cancer diagnosis – in this case one that is fairly rare and not well known in society.

There are a few things that I want to share with you based on my very own experiences:

First of all, I would try to have your mother seeing Shields and Shields at Will's Eye Hospital in Philadelphia. They are THE experts in the field when it comes to treatment options of the primary tumor. Depending on the size (height, basal diameter, location) there are various types of treatment. Usually, one distinguishes between small, medium and large melanomas. Mine was medium and I underwent a plaque therapy. If this is a relevant option for you Mum, she does not have to be scared. It does not hurt and works in more than 90%. I also had to do MRIs, chest x-rays, blodd test etc. where they were looking if the cancer has spread or not. I still do MRIs of my abdomen every six months. Why I do this is because I had a biopsy done to check if there was any chromosomal changes to the tumor'a tissue. If you google around you will find expressions like monosomy 3 etc. with horrifying medical papers (they freaked me out! So do not google too much). I did have monosomy 3 with a metastatic risk of 30%. The liver is the organ that shows the highest likelihood for post-mets. That is why MRIs are important.

Overall, I can totally understand that this is tragic and fear is all you carry inside of you. I still do, too more than one year after treatment. However, and I know that this is tough, supporting her menthally is the best you can do! I warmheartedly offer you to talk to me on Skype if you want to. You find me under Beccy2907. I live in Europe again, where I originally come from. And would be happy to talk to you if you want to. Just send me a message any time!

I am not a native and googled the hell out of this topic to be able to understand what the doctors were telling me. By now I know a loy about this disease. And a lot more about myself, too. So if you want to talk to a former patient, just let me know!

Sending you a lot of positive thoughts across the ocean!

All the best and a lot of strength for you and your Mum,

Rebecca

Dear Elisabeth

I just got a google alert that lead me to your post. The reason why I once set up google alerts set up on keywords like "ocular melanoma", "eye cancer" and a few more is because I was diagnosed with uveal melanoma in December 2012 myself.

I can only imagine what it feels like for someone when a beloved one faces a cancer diagnosis – in this case one that is fairly rare and not well known in society.

There are a few things that I want to share with you based on my very own experiences:

First of all, I would try to have your mother seeing Shields and Shields at Will's Eye Hospital in Philadelphia. They are THE experts in the field when it comes to treatment options of the primary tumor. Depending on the size (height, basal diameter, location) there are various types of treatment. Usually, one distinguishes between small, medium and large melanomas. Mine was medium and I underwent a plaque therapy. If this is a relevant option for you Mum, she does not have to be scared. It does not hurt and works in more than 90%. I also had to do MRIs, chest x-rays, blodd test etc. where they were looking if the cancer has spread or not. I still do MRIs of my abdomen every six months. Why I do this is because I had a biopsy done to check if there was any chromosomal changes to the tumor'a tissue. If you google around you will find expressions like monosomy 3 etc. with horrifying medical papers (they freaked me out! So do not google too much). I did have monosomy 3 with a metastatic risk of 30%. The liver is the organ that shows the highest likelihood for post-mets. That is why MRIs are important.

Overall, I can totally understand that this is tragic and fear is all you carry inside of you. I still do, too more than one year after treatment. However, and I know that this is tough, supporting her menthally is the best you can do! I warmheartedly offer you to talk to me on Skype if you want to. You find me under Beccy2907. I live in Europe again, where I originally come from. And would be happy to talk to you if you want to. Just send me a message any time!

I am not a native and googled the hell out of this topic to be able to understand what the doctors were telling me. By now I know a loy about this disease. And a lot more about myself, too. So if you want to talk to a former patient, just let me know!

Sending you a lot of positive thoughts across the ocean!

All the best and a lot of strength for you and your Mum,

Rebecca