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    • June 6, 2014 at 5:46 pm
    quilter
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      we just lost my hubby and father to two great kids at 56, on our 34th wedding anniversary from metastatic melanoma to the brain. He couldn't get into clinical trials as he had brain mets and he couldn't get into the Merck 3475 early access due to growing brain mets. Isn't it contradictory that the early access is also called 'compassionate care' yet someone who so desperatly needs the drug is denied it??This medical system is majorly screwed up. He never had anything on his skin. They found the cancer, already metastized, on his lung in April 2013. It was removed in May 2013 and then it reoccurred in his brain in Nov 2013. He was the most kindest, patient, ethical person and taken way too soon.

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        • June 6, 2014 at 8:37 pm
        hbecker
        Participant

          So sorry to hear your story. We'll be thinking about you.

          Hazel

          • June 6, 2014 at 8:37 pm
          hbecker
          Participant

            So sorry to hear your story. We'll be thinking about you.

            Hazel

            • June 6, 2014 at 8:37 pm
            hbecker
            Participant

              So sorry to hear your story. We'll be thinking about you.

              Hazel

              • June 6, 2014 at 9:57 pm
              buffcody
              Participant

                How sad to lose your wonderful husband to this scourge any time but most especially on your anniversary.  I pray for strength for you through the difficult days, weeks, and months to come.  I hope your friends and loved ones will come to your support.  This forum is a great one, members of which understand and sympathize some of the heartbreaks you are going through.  I hope you will get support here and from other caregiver survivors.  Your path though different in many ways is also understood by survivors as well who have their own beloved caregivers and know how difficult that path is.

                Frank

                 

                • June 6, 2014 at 9:57 pm
                buffcody
                Participant

                  How sad to lose your wonderful husband to this scourge any time but most especially on your anniversary.  I pray for strength for you through the difficult days, weeks, and months to come.  I hope your friends and loved ones will come to your support.  This forum is a great one, members of which understand and sympathize some of the heartbreaks you are going through.  I hope you will get support here and from other caregiver survivors.  Your path though different in many ways is also understood by survivors as well who have their own beloved caregivers and know how difficult that path is.

                  Frank

                   

                  • June 6, 2014 at 9:57 pm
                  buffcody
                  Participant

                    How sad to lose your wonderful husband to this scourge any time but most especially on your anniversary.  I pray for strength for you through the difficult days, weeks, and months to come.  I hope your friends and loved ones will come to your support.  This forum is a great one, members of which understand and sympathize some of the heartbreaks you are going through.  I hope you will get support here and from other caregiver survivors.  Your path though different in many ways is also understood by survivors as well who have their own beloved caregivers and know how difficult that path is.

                    Frank

                     

                    • June 6, 2014 at 10:26 pm
                    Fen
                    Participant

                      I'm so very sorry for your loss.  Your love for your husband comes through in every word.  I hope you find comfort and support in your family and friends during this time.  Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

                      Fen

                        • June 7, 2014 at 1:25 am
                        FayFighter
                        Participant

                          I am sorry for your loss. I hate the beast called melanoma. And yes…nothing compassionate about denying a person treatment who truly needs it. 

                          • June 7, 2014 at 1:25 am
                          FayFighter
                          Participant

                            I am sorry for your loss. I hate the beast called melanoma. And yes…nothing compassionate about denying a person treatment who truly needs it. 

                            • June 7, 2014 at 1:25 am
                            FayFighter
                            Participant

                              I am sorry for your loss. I hate the beast called melanoma. And yes…nothing compassionate about denying a person treatment who truly needs it. 

                              • June 7, 2014 at 11:46 am
                              Cooper
                              Participant

                                I am so sorry for your loss.  The expanded access programs aren't compassionate use, there is no such thing except once in a while the FDA will work with pharmaceutical to provide, but rare!   Everyone should write their congress person about this drug access problem. Too much is focused on profit and not patient.

                                • June 7, 2014 at 11:46 am
                                Cooper
                                Participant

                                  I am so sorry for your loss.  The expanded access programs aren't compassionate use, there is no such thing except once in a while the FDA will work with pharmaceutical to provide, but rare!   Everyone should write their congress person about this drug access problem. Too much is focused on profit and not patient.

                                  • June 7, 2014 at 11:46 am
                                  Cooper
                                  Participant

                                    I am so sorry for your loss.  The expanded access programs aren't compassionate use, there is no such thing except once in a while the FDA will work with pharmaceutical to provide, but rare!   Everyone should write their congress person about this drug access problem. Too much is focused on profit and not patient.

                                  • June 6, 2014 at 10:26 pm
                                  Fen
                                  Participant

                                    I'm so very sorry for your loss.  Your love for your husband comes through in every word.  I hope you find comfort and support in your family and friends during this time.  Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

                                    Fen

                                    • June 6, 2014 at 10:26 pm
                                    Fen
                                    Participant

                                      I'm so very sorry for your loss.  Your love for your husband comes through in every word.  I hope you find comfort and support in your family and friends during this time.  Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

                                      Fen

                                      • June 7, 2014 at 7:15 pm
                                      jbronicki
                                      Participant

                                        So so sorry.  My heart goes out to you and I've been researching compassionate use.  It is screwed up.  My heart felt condolences.  Jackie

                                        • June 7, 2014 at 7:15 pm
                                        jbronicki
                                        Participant

                                          So so sorry.  My heart goes out to you and I've been researching compassionate use.  It is screwed up.  My heart felt condolences.  Jackie

                                          • June 7, 2014 at 7:15 pm
                                          jbronicki
                                          Participant

                                            So so sorry.  My heart goes out to you and I've been researching compassionate use.  It is screwed up.  My heart felt condolences.  Jackie

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