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- June 26, 2017 at 3:07 pm
Rob, there really are no words. You are doing a brilliant job taking care of your Adriana, and my heart aches for you. No one truly understands the job of the caregiver — how hard it is, how emotionally and physically exhausting it is — and no one takes care of them like you would. I can understand, maybe, her mother not being as physically helpful, but the 21-year-old needs to be taken to the woodshed. Honestly, I would probably tell the daughter (like I told our 'concerned' relatives) — "You are adding more stress to our lives than making things better. Either pitch in or you aren't welcome." My thoughts are with you.