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Re: Life Is A Gamble

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      I would like to thank all of you who have responded to my postings, they are very much a support to Bob and I. I am humbled and overwhelmed. Yes, we are in shock. We can't help ourselves but be overwhelmed by road we find ourselves now traveling. Because we didn't choose it we are struggling to find the right signs for us to follow and everything is confusing even the terms and directives. Some of our fellow travelers are angry, some are hurt, some are sick and some are well as can be expected. Just call me a "Newby" and my husband and I will learn in time how to "wear" this badge of melanoma with a bit of hardness some seem to have…

      I am a graphic designer and have a creative streak. If I write a bit creatively or with heart it is my nature, I can't help myself. Maybe someday I will be able to paint my feelings about Bob and melonma on canvas, then I will have mastered it on my terms. For now all my energy goes to learning all I can to help Bob about this subject and how we are going to live with the enemy.

      Thank you again,


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